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How to spot trolls

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19 December 2021: How to spot our regular troll(s) 1) Our troll loves to give their characters names. Most of our genuine posters don't do this. They refer to "my boyfriend" or "my mother" or "my best friend" but our troll talks about "Tarnya" or "Brooke" or "Lup...

Let go of your hate

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25 July 2016: A thought for the day (or for tomorrow since it's nearly midnight) Not too long ago I was in a play. In the final scene I had to stare at someone with complete contempt. I searched my soul and into that stare I poured every single bit of hatred I ...

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We really get along well together -- am I reading too much into it?

Q.   Hi, I'm 25 and male. Last November an amazing beautiful 22 year old girl started working in the same place as me. She got out of a 4 year relationship about a month ago and I've been taking her out as a friend trying to keep her happy and in the ...

A.   17 August 2014: The other aunties are completely right - now is not the time to try and start dating this girl. She needs time to heal and move on and she's aware of this. She is using family and friends to support her through this time. And you're one of them ... (read in full...)

The dates went well but he just wants to be friends

Q.   I'm confused!! A few months ago I went on 3 or 4 dates with a guy I work with. We weren't friends before the dates but met at work. The first 2 dates we got on really well, he text all day and if I didn't reply within a few mins he would text aga...

A.   17 August 2014: Yes, I think you should walk away. Or at least stop regarding him as a possible love interest. He's stated quite clearly that he doesn't regard you as relationship material but he likes you enough to flirt with you. It passes time and makes pe... (read in full...)

No kisses from my boyfriend! He just starts sex. What should I do?

Q.   I have a problem with my boyfriend, he doesn't like to kiss me down never. I do for him everything but he doesn't. When we start kissing or hugging he just start the sex. He doesn't kiss my body. I feel I'm sad each time after sex. I don't know why ...

A.   16 August 2014: If you have spoken to him about this and told him how important it is you and how you feel about it and he doesn't want to do anything about it - then I think you're sexually incompatible. It's time to consider whether a relationship with a fulfil... (read in full...)

Break up with long-term boyfriend for another guy?

Q.   I have been in a relationship for the past 3 years. My boyfriend is sweet and cares for me a lot, but as much as he denies it, I'm not a priority for him. First comes university\job, then his parents, and then me, and that's how it's always been, ...

A.   16 August 2014: If you want to end the relationship with your current boyfriend then do it. But don't do it just so you can have the other guy. Do it because you are unhappy and not getting what you need out of the relationship. Just because you had a lot on com... (read in full...)

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