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Am I overreacting to my girlfriend's lesbian bombshell?
Q. I have been involved with a girl I really like for the past few months..She seems like a great person and we seem like a great fit..I am 30 and she is 25..We have the same morals, beliefs, sense of humor, ect..Last week we were talking and she told ...
A. 31 December 2006: Hey dude, you have nothing to worry about. At least she told you....laid the cards out on the table. She could have kept her mouth closed and never talked about it to you!! It happened two years ago...that is the Past, and drinks were involved. ... (read in full...)
Am I overreacting to my girlfriend's lesbian bombshell?
Q. I have been involved with a girl I really like for the past few months..She seems like a great person and we seem like a great fit..I am 30 and she is 25..We have the same morals, beliefs, sense of humor, ect..Last week we were talking and she told ...
A. 31 December 2006: Hey dude, you have nothing to worry about. At least she told you....laid the cards out on the table. She could have kept her mouth closed and never talked about it to you!! It happened two years ago...that is the Past, and drinks were involved. ... (read in full...)
How can "us" girls know if a guy is sincere and genuine?
Q. How can us girls tell if a guy is sincere and genuine in what he says? I read many problems where the guy is fantastic to start with and then becomes cold and distant and changes beyond all recognition to someone the girl hardly recognises. I am ...
A. 31 December 2006: I am in the same boat as you are!! I sometimes feel that I am too trusting...then when I care about someone they shake my trust to the core.
But you said everything in this relationship with him was really sooo good, but that all changed when you ... (read in full...)
I love this guy but things have changed - how do I get them to go back?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for a year, my senior year of high school as well as this past summer and our first semester at our individual colleges -- mine in North Carolina and his in Washington DC. I have been head over heels for this guy -- he ...
A. 31 December 2006: You said that you love this guy, but he has changed. You want him to be more romantic...but dream of things being the way they used to.
I have a good idea for you to do. The next time you and him have a talk tape record it (don't let him see it) ... (read in full...)
Am I just being Gullible ? is he cheating constantly and he actually caught this STD recently ?
Q. Hi, i really need some help. I'm 21, been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 and a half years. He's a natural flirt which is hard but i deal with. I may be looking for things here but i need an outsiders point of view. Last year he went to magaluf with ...
A. 30 December 2006: I have been in the same boat as you! I wanted to believe that my guy wasn't cheating on me but all the signs pointed in that direction...There were many women calling the house, too! My advice to you is RUN!!! This guy is nothing but a cheat. I ... (read in full...)
Falling for someone who is already with someone!!!
Q. i am falling for this guy i know but he already has a girfriend what should i do? please help!...
A. 30 December 2006: Just worship him from afar! You shouldn't interfer with someone who has a gf or wife! Just think, you wouldn't want someone doing that to you!! Just wait and see what happens and keep your distance!! Good luck to you!... (read in full...)
After being with bad boys I found someone who treats me well. But..I found porn under his bed and I'm upset. What should I do?
Q. I am 22 and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a year now. I have a low self esteem because I got bullied at school (I didn't wear much make up so I guess the other girls were jealous). I had 2 boyfriends when I was at uni early on ...
A. 30 December 2006: All men like (or love) porn. Please don't get too upset with him because it isn't replacing you. Just let it go for now. I think that there is nothing for you to worry about... (read in full...)
My husband gawks at every woman but me, stores nude pics on his phone and hides the porn on his computer! Are these red flags?
Q. my husband had nude pictures of girls stored in his phone and not one picture of me. sexual deprives me for porn, constantly clears the history and cache on our home computer and his cellular phone. stares women down when we are in public and says ...
A. 30 December 2006: My ex bf used to do the same thing...that's why he's my ex! I think that you should have a serious talk with your hubby and let him know how you feel. You, too need the compliments too!! That is so important to your self-esteem!... (read in full...)
My bf is texting another girl every day. Is he cheating?
Q. My boyfriend has been texting some girl at his work regularly (every day) when i'm not about. Do you think he could be cheating? And is it acceptable to be hiding it or does he just think cos i don't know he can carry on and get away with it. She ...
A. 30 December 2006: To me, I would be leary of the whole thing, but that's me. You could mention it to him and see what his reaction is. Good luck... (read in full...)
He emails this girl and he says it means nothing! He lies a lot so should I be concerned?
Q. My bf was at this reunion thing with his dad one nite, and i saw him sending an email msg to this girl that i think he met there (it was the wrong address so it failed to send and bounced back) In the email it sounded like he just met her because he ...
A. 30 December 2006: I think that you have the right to be concerned! I too, went through the same thing as you! And my bf was cheating with the girl he was emailing!! So I left him and then found a much better guy, who treats me wonderful!
And you deserve to be t... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's old boyfriend is always texting and calling her... it drives me nuts!
Q. Does i bother anyone elce when your girls old bf is always texting her or callin her, it really makes me mad! he asked her to get ack with him but she said she wouldnt but i already knew she wouldnt. and she works at a store where her old bf is ...
A. 30 December 2006: I know how you feel, and yes it does bother me when my bf's ex calls!
But you should giver her the benefit of the doubt when she says that she wants nothing to do with him! Just let it go, and get on with life!!... (read in full...)
Haven't seen my guy in a week! How can a girl tell if her bf is bored with her?
Q. im prberly over reacting but how can u tell if your bf is bored of u i havent seen him for over a week now and online he seems to take forever to answer back to me or says be right back and disappears for ages the recently when i phone him he never ...
A. 30 December 2006: I don't think that you are over-reacting one bit! I think, by the way you described how your bf has been acting, is that he probably wants out of the relationship. But that is just my opinion. The best way is to talk to him face to face, and not ... (read in full...)
How do I cope with this hurt and pain and move on?
Q. A week ago I found out that my boyfriend of seven years who is also the father of my one year old son, has been cheating on me for a whole month! I moved out of our apartment and I've been miserable ever since. To make matters even worse, he's not ...
A. 30 December 2006: You and your son don't need this guy, especially since he left you all without any food while he was with this other female!! There are much better men out there who would make far better husband and father. You are young, and have your life ahead ... (read in full...)
All the medication he takes lowers his labido?
Q. I love my boyfriend very much but we don't have sex anymore. he says it is because of all the medication he takes lowers his labido. I ask him to talk to his doc. he didn't. evrything else is good but i am thinking of getting a secerit lover. what ...
A. 30 December 2006: Alot of meds on the market do have sexual side-effects (lowers labido) But there are others that don't cause it. You should mention that to your bf. I don't know if viagra would help in the problem. Ask your bf to talk to his doctor about ... (read in full...)
My fiance's ex and his friend's cousin say that he was going to cheat on me with his ex! What should I do?
Q. okay well ... my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 2 years. we just also had a baby together 4 months ago. and well he has this ex gf who got married and moved away and he got her prego a long time ago and she got an abortion, and well ...
A. 30 December 2006: sounds like someone is mad at your bf and they are creating drama so to cause you and your fiance to break up! Don't believe it! They are just into creating chaos because they are not happpy with their lives!! ... (read in full...)
I'm a Jew for Jesus, but he will only marry me if I renounce Christ! What do I do??
Q. He wants me to convert to Judaism and renounce Christ in order to marry me!!!! I am already Jewish but I believe in the son of G-d. I'm what you call a Jews for Jesus. He says he loves me and that I have to renounce my beliefs in order to get ...
A. 30 December 2006: You did the right thing by breaking up with him!! If he loved you as he proclaimed, he should have loved you for you!! Keep on being a Jew for Jesus!! You won't regret it one bit!! My prayers are with you!!... (read in full...)
He 's balck..I'm white and my family are against interracial relationships! What should I do?
Q. I would like some feedback on what to do about this situation. I have met a great guy recently who I really like and who likes me. He is black and I am white. He has only dateed white women and his family has no problem with it. I've never dated a ...
A. 30 December 2006: As long as you love each other, so be it!! And if you don't have the approval of your family...(or friends)oh well!!
My thoughts and prayers are with you two...Live your life! ... (read in full...)
I am 14, and showing no signs of puberty. What should I do?
Q. im 14 years old and show no sign of puberty. what should i do...
A. 30 December 2006: Don't worry about it, it will come sooner than you think! My sister was almost 16 when she started pubery. I was 12. don't worry about it!!... (read in full...)
MArriage is about to end because...she had the front flap of her ear pierced!
Q. I need some help and advice as I think my marriage of 7 years is almost at an end and I'm not sure what to do. Let me start with some background - been with my wife for almost 11 years now and she's known for pretty much all those 11 years t...
A. 30 December 2006: I certainly don't think getting one's ear pierced is grounds for divorce!!
If she is a good mother to your kids, cleans your house, cooks your meals, getting her ear pierced is her reward!! If she didn't do the above and was cheating on you, then... (read in full...)
Iv'e fallen for Richard but he prefer this other horrible girl. I'm heartbroken. Help?
Q. hi well i was just wonderin if you could help, you see i had completely fallen for this guy and i knew he was the one and i was a lot of the time depressed because i thought it would never happen. but me and him were starting to flirt so much i ...
A. 30 December 2006: Don't give up your wishes for Richard....just keep a positive attitude about it, and it might just happen!! But in the meantime, seek other guys! Don't let this hinder your time...who knows you might even find someone else you like much better!!
L... (read in full...)
We broke up and he still teels me I am sexy! He has a new gf and I don't like this. What should I do?
Q. I dumped my boyfriend 3-4 weeks ago and he just wants to be friends now but once he almost strangled one of my best, best friends (he claims it was an accident) and he has whispered to me that i am sexy in class. and he has a new girlfriend, What ...
A. 30 December 2006: You are much better without this guy in your life!! And by hearing that he strangled one of your friends, he is definatly Bad News!!! And you shouldn't even get involved with this guy! Avoid him at all cost!!! You were smart by breaking up with ... (read in full...)
I creid a lot when he went away and now, I worry..that he may think I'm too clingy! What should I do?
Q. Hi everyone Hope you had a good xmas Ok my prob is iv lost a lil self confidence since iv started seeing my bf Its not that he makes me feel like that The opposite He is sweet and caring and tells me how sexy I am He has just gone away on holid...
A. 30 December 2006: You are definately NOT clingy! You are just sad that your bf is going away on a holiday for 3 long weeks!! Don't worry about it, it just shows to your bf that you truly DO love him and don't want to be without him!!
And don't worry about him.... (read in full...)
Xmas day with my long-distance b/f was perfect - presents, good fun and good sex... now he's left me for another girl!
Q. I have been seeing my boyfriend for two years, he works away.I never saw the distance as a problem because I love him dearly, looked forward to being with him and we both shared the travelling.He said he felt the same, but because of his current ...
A. 30 December 2006: You must be in shock and disbelief after hearing that your bf called you saying to leave him alone because he found another girl!! Even after he bought you a christmas gift and you had a wonderful time with him!!
I hope that you will find some... (read in full...)
He has baggage..a lot of it! A bitter ex wife, a pregnant ex gf...who are constantly harrassing us! What should I do?
Q. i have finally found what i need in a man...but he has some baggage i am unsure of how to deal with! he is married but seperated...due for divorce in feb. he has two kids...the mother causes havoc because i am in his life. he was also seeing a girl ...
A. 30 December 2006: I agree with Hag, that this man really isn't ready for a relationship....in fact he isn't really divorced yet!! And his ex-girlfriend he met before meeting you seems to me that he probably was cheating on his wife...that's what it sounds like to ... (read in full...)
He's been acting a bit distant almost like he's losing interest! what can I do?
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half now. We're still somewhat young and already have plans for the future, and for Christmas he got me a promise ring. Things were going well up until recently, He's been acting a bit distant almost ...
A. 30 December 2006: Congrats on the promise ring!! And I don't think that you have anything to worry about your boyfriend losing interest in you! He wouldn't have given you that promise ring if he was! You two are just falling into a rut so to say. Remember the ... (read in full...)
busted him looking at porn, do others have the same problem?
Q. my man of almost 5 years is so busted for looking at internet porn. its not hard core or anything. he knows about my insecurities about him checking it out. and he only did it a few times, so spyware says so. and so we took pics together, and im ...
A. 9 October 2006: I have heard that men look at porn differently than us women. They are not cheating or wishing that they were with that woman/women on the internet.
Both my guy and me look at porn together, we share it. At the same time, We look at the maga... (read in full...)
My best friend slept with my crush!! Should I forgive her?
Q. My best friend slept with my crush. ive had a crush on a guy named pete for 5 years now and i HAD the bestest friend ever. She helped me get with my crush and she said we were perfect together and i was pleased that she did all of this for me. ...
A. 9 October 2006: I went through the same thing as you. My friend introduced me to a guy that I fell for. She then, behind my back, seduced him to sleep with her. Needless to say, she was no longer a friend....and she already had a guy!!!! At the time, I didn't ... (read in full...)
Do all women shave their pubic regions?
Q. Ladys. do all women shave the pubic hair regions? i prefer to see a small amount of hair. is this normal for me?...
A. 8 October 2006: I shave there, and love it. It makes me feel clean and it looks good. My boyfriends also loves it. Nothing sexy about getting pubic hairs in your mouth...and you have to stop to fish them out(time consuming, also) I myself love a guy who shaves ... (read in full...)
I feel so guilty because I have a boyfriend
Q. I feel very guilty because I have dreams with other guys all the time. I feel so guilty because I have a boyfriend. I even had a dream with his brother like two days ago. I know really really deep inside I have kind of a crush on his brother, and I ...
A. 8 October 2006: First of all, it's only dreams and you actually weren't unfaithful, and you shouldn't feel guilty at all. What you should do is write your dreams down in a journal type notebook as soon as you wake up.. Make sure that no one reads it but you. ... (read in full...)
I am head over heels, but is he in it just for the sex?
Q. Hi, I'm sat here upset and confused and need some sort of advice. I've been seeing my boyfriend for the last 5 months, in which time i've fallen head over heels in love with him. I can't imagine life without him. The thing is it keeps crossing my ...
A. 8 October 2006: II just had to add my answer to your question, for I know how you feel. because I have been there before feeling the same way you do. You have been together for 5 months, and he tells you that he loves you also!! That is good! I would worry if he ... (read in full...)
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