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writes: My boyfriend has been texting some girl at his work regularly (every day) when i'm not about. Do you think he could be cheating? And is it acceptable to be hiding it or does he just think cos i don't know he can carry on and get away with it. She is single.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2007): i got my boyfriends phone and read his texts. he was sending dirty texts to some girl. i know i invaded his privacy but i need help. he says that's just the way he has always talked to her. i told him i didn't like it and don't want him doing it. it is disrespectful. i don't know what to do. he said he has not done anything with her, i hope he has not. how can i be for sure that he is not still texting her?
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reader, rammsteinfan  +, writes (30 December 2006):
 To me, I would be leary of the whole thing, but that's me. You could mention it to him and see what his reaction is. Good luck
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reader, mjmoonwalker89 +, writes (23 December 2006):
 be careful where it will lead. my bf texted this girl and ended up sleeping with her. just be careful but you must talk about it with him because not all guys are the same.
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reader, bonym  +, writes (20 December 2006):
 Its a tough one, I mean a guy and a girl can JUST be friends and there is absolutely nothing apart from friendship going on, however if he is hiding it, I find this odd. If he is doing nothing wrong, then he ought not to be secretive, but maybe he feels weird because its a girl and he will assume that you will think he is cheating. Why not just be bold and enquire about his work friends and see what he says. That way you can probe further without accusing him of anything at this stage. Good luck. xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2006): It depends on what some people call cheating. I wouldn't be too chuffed it i was you. He isn't exactly cheating but why is he texting her? If he is keeping it secret then why? He sounds a bit sly to me. Have a good talk to him and ask him exactly what he is doing. It isn't acceptable for him to be texting her all the time. Get it out in the open and discuss it.
Take care
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2006): It depends on what some people call cheating. I wouldn't be too chuffed it i was you. He isn't exactly cheating but why is he texting her? If he is keeping it secret then why? He sounds a bit sly to me. Have a good talk to him and ask him exactly what he is doing. It isn't acceptable for him to be texting her all the time. Get it out in the open and discuss it.
Take care
xx
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