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He dumped me over some mean texts I sent him! What can I do?
Q. hey peeps..im in a bit of a dillemma..iv been 'sleeping with' tthis guy for a couple of months now.and i guess you could say iv fallen for him!!!however, i wen out and got drunk the other nite, i kept texting him, pestering him to come bk 2 my ...
A. 28 January 2007: First of all, try apolgizing to him for the mean text you sent him. And tell him that you were drunk and didn't know what you were doing. And let that go at that. Don't pester him....just let him come back on his own. Guys don't like it too well ... (read in full...)
After 3 kids, my body isn't what it used to be and hubby is not as attracted me! What can I do?
Q. I have recently had my third child...and unfortunately my body will never be the same as it was before kids. I have worked out hard and lost all the excess pregnancy weight but still have scars and sags that my doctor says are 'just part of being a ...
A. 28 January 2007: Eat healthy, exercise at least 3X a week, and drink plenty of water. Also there are creams and preparations on the market that make your stretch marks disappear! Check them out....there is one called Mederma for scars and stretch marks.
I hope... (read in full...)
How do I tell this quiet girl...she's the one I want to be with?
Q. so wht can i do now.. i want the quiet girl.. so wht to do?? how can i propose her.. am afraid.. cauz shes too quiet.. and am not so certain she loves me.. but her eyes tells me she loves me.. so give me a gud idea...
A. 28 January 2007: Ask her out on a date and get to know her. Then ask her how she feels about you. Just treat her with respect and she will probably respond to you.
Good Luck... (read in full...)
Do you think its weird for a 32 year old man to be going out with a 24 year old woman?
Q. Hi there...do you think its weird for a 32 year old man to be going out with a 24 year old woman?...
A. 28 January 2007: No it is not weird, not at all. Age is just a number...it's how you feel about the person and how he treats you. Just go with your heart!... (read in full...)
Her counsellor told her to ditch me so that she could form relationships with guys who lived nearby!
Q. I've been going out with my girlfriend now for just over 4 months. We live both live in britian but about 4 hours on the train apart. I thought we were doing fine, a few bumps on the road mostly due to my girlfriends insecurity's. On my last visit ...
A. 26 January 2007: It sounds like to me that your girlfriend doesn't know what she wants. She sounds very confused to me, and her roomates are getting her even more so!
You are only 4 hours away...not like you are across the ocean from each other. What is the r... (read in full...)
My uncle is touching me inappropriately and offering me money! What should I do?
Q. Hello. My uncle has been touching me up around the chest area and i don't know what to do. He also keeps texting and asking to see me and offering me money. My Ex-Boyfriend has given me a few choices as follows. - Tell police. - ...
A. 23 January 2007: I agree with SHANDY POP...you should tell someone before it gets out of hand! If not your parents, tell your teacher, your best friend's mother, a school counselor, and also the police!
Your uncle should be locked up behind bars....he is a sex... (read in full...)
Somedays I am so edgy and cranky! Am I hormonal or what's really wrong with me?
Q. Dear Cupid, I’m having a serious problem and an even harder time getting people to believe that it’s for real. Whenever I’m having a bad hair day, I become really irritable. I’m edgy, cranky, and I get extreme mood swings. It’s almost like bein...
A. 23 January 2007: I, too, have days like that, but I don't get them all the time. I agree with rhythmandblues2...you should get a check-up with your doctor tas to why you are feeling edgy and cranky. Then you will have piece of mind, and it won't be bothering you as ... (read in full...)
I still like him but he ignores me now..how do I cope with these feelings?
Q. hiya i was just wondering what to do when you are in love with somebody and they used to like you but now they dont. you see ive been in love for about 2 years and he used to like me but now he doesnt beacuse so many people at the moment like him ...
A. 23 January 2007: I, too, can relate to your situation for I went through what you are now experiencing! (I was in a relationship for 3 years then it went sour) My friends told me that I will find someone else that would treat me better. I didn't want to find ... (read in full...)
I feel bad! Should I have kissed a guy when he has a girlfriend?
Q. should i have kissed a guy when he has a girlfriend??? He likes me and i like him n he doesnt like his gf anymore and we kissed :S im confuseed n i feel bad!! xxxx Some Advice Would Be Helpful Thanks!!! XxX...
A. 23 January 2007: You shouldn't kiss a guy that has a girlfriend...because you wouldn't want the same thing happening to you. But we are human, we all make mistakes and learn from them...so don't feel bad about yourself!! Just make this a learning experience and ... (read in full...)
We met on an adult dating site for casual sex. But now I want to go to the next level! Any advice?
Q. Right now I am sort of "seeing" this guy. We met on an adult personal site, and it was just suppose to be just casual sex, every so often. Well, we stopped talking for a bit, then we started talking again and then stopped and now, just in the past ...
A. 23 January 2007: Even though you met on an adult dating site, things like falling in love with each other is quite normal. It happens all the time to other people.
One thing about age...it's just a number and don't let this stand in the way!
Just be careful ... (read in full...)
My boyfriends gets me NOTHING for Christmas, Birthday, Valentines.. NEVER!
Q. SHOULD I BE UPSET WHEN MY KIDS FATHER (MY BOYFRIEND)DOESN'T GET ME ANYTHING FOR CHRISTMAS, MOTHERS DAY,VALENTINE DAY..BUT HE GET HIS MOM THINGS...
A. 23 January 2007: You have every reason to be upset! One thing I should ask, do you give him gifts (Christmas, Valentines day..ect) If you do, then stop...give him a taste of his own medicine. It might make him stop and think. Most times guys are forgetful, and ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend doesn't seem interested in sex like he used to!
Q. I used to think me and my boyfriend had a wonderful sex life, we would always want to (I have a very high sex-drive) and always enjoyed it. Now things are different. He makes it seem like a chore, and when I want it and he doesnt, it makes me feel ...
A. 23 January 2007: Maybe your boyfriend is thinking that you only love him for sex...make sure that you are not giving him that vibe. Do things for him, like buying him something real special. Also try spicing things up...like lingerie or a sexy outfit that you only ... (read in full...)
He still talks about other girls in front of me even though I have asked him to stop because it upsets me!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and am quite an insecure person. Whenever he talks about other girls, be they famous or otherwise it really gets me down and i get upset. I have asked him to stop and even broke down crying one day ...
A. 10 January 2007: Why don't you start talking about other men in front of him. Give him a taste of his own medicine. It might make him stop. And also stop talking on how upset it makes you feel (even though it still does).
Luck and Hugs... (read in full...)
What is the point to relationships if they always end in tragedy?
Q. I'm 20 and might be starting to date women. You'll probably notice the "might be". The reason why is that I would like to have a relationship with a women, yet everywhere I look it just ends in catastrophe. People getting divorces, people having ...
A. 10 January 2007: Don't assume that when you have a relationship with someone you love...it will turn out bad, just because of what you hear and read.
Life is wonderful with someone you love by your side. If you love someone and have a comited relation... (read in full...)
My long-distance fiance is in Amsterdam and hung up when he heard my voice! What's going on?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now and we met in England. But my visa ran out so i had to come back home, he said he would come with me once he got his visa. Just before i left he proposed to me. It's been a month and a half since ...
A. 10 January 2007: I think that you have nothing to worry about....it sounds to me like a dropped call. I don't think he hung up on you. He wouldn't have proposed to you in the first place and hang up on you when you called.
Just wait and see if he calls yo... (read in full...)
When I was 12 he proposed to me and I said no but now I'm 13 he wants me back!
Q. ok over the summer 06 i had a boyfriend and he kind of got serious and asked me so many ?s that i couldnt answer. I was 12 and now im 13 and i think i should answer them so heres the story: He asks me out and i say yes because i liked him and then...
A. 10 January 2007: Right now you are only 13 years old (but he asked you to marry him when you were only 12) That is way to young for you to make any decisions on that order. You have your youth to explore with your friends and family...and not about getting ... (read in full...)
Together 5 months but I don't know what kind of conversations to have with her!
Q. hi, well ive had a girlfriend for like 5 months, i really like her but i feel really awkward i dont know what to talk to her about. plz help. thanks...
A. 10 January 2007: Just ask her what she likes doing...like hobbies, ect. Then ask her what kind of movies she likes watching, and take her on a date to the cinema...or watch movies at your house. Don't feel awkward about talking to her....just talk! You will do ... (read in full...)
He hates my kids so will our relationship work?
Q. my parner keeps threatening to leave when we argue about my kids. we also have a baby, i only have one son living with us. my partner says he is honest with me and is trying to make our life better and because my 3 sons have all been in trouble with ...
A. 10 January 2007: You didn't state the ages of your sons...the one living with you and the two that aren't. But don't worry about being too strict with the son that lives with you. You will find that when he gets older, he won't resent you for it (I am a single ... (read in full...)
I need an answer to a question about penis's but I can't go to the doctor as my dad always follows me.
Q. dear cupid i am a 15 year old boy and i would like to know is a penis bent and the head a bit twisted normal without erection. if its not normal, what solution is their for me to do, as i can not go to the doctor as my dad always follows me?? ...
A. 10 January 2007: One thing, I don't think that you have anything to worry about. They come in all shapes and sizes, and some have twists here and there. But one thing, you should get a physical...the doctor will tell you if there is something wrong. And even if ... (read in full...)
Do I just ignore the rumors about him and his exes and begin trusting him or is he even ...trustworthy? Help
Q. Dear Cupid, Ive been dating my bf for a year and a half. Since the beginning I have been hesitant to trust him. I dont know if it is an intuition about him, if its the small shady things that have happened, or if I am just scared. He has never ch...
A. 8 January 2007: I think someone is just trying to rile you up and cause drama in your life! I'd say to just ignore the rumors...for that's what they are RUMORS. Don't believe them until you see it for yourself...Catch him in the act.
Good luck!... (read in full...)
Can I give him cold sores if I kiss him?
Q. well i just found out that cold sores can be transmited by kissing. i would like to figure out if i kiss my boyfriend on the cheek will he get a blister or a cold sore on his lip?...
A. 8 January 2007: I have to add this. If you have a cold sore and have oral sex with him you can give them herpes...which are now genital herpies(an std with no cure), and cause alot of misery on both of you! My friend's husband cheated on her...the girl that he ... (read in full...)
Met an attractive man at a party. He lives a fair distance away, but should I contact him?
Q. Thank you in advance to all who answer this. I broke up with my partner about a year ago. I went to visit friends last week and spotted an attractive man across a room. I noticed him but decided to leave the party anyway. He followed me outside. We ...
A. 7 January 2007: Maybe your friend knows him and can give him your number. I don't know if he would get upset by calling him at his place of work...but you should have a good excuse why you are calling. Why don't you plan a visit to go back to your friend's place. ... (read in full...)
I'm being tretaed like a doormat..I need to gain respect from others.. how do you get this?
Q. I have noticed that I have been unable to express negative emotions towards friends/boyfriends (for fear of them not liking me and looking like I haven't got a sense of humour) and as a consequence I have been treated like a doormat to such a degree ...
A. 7 January 2007: Hey Hey!! I am also in the same boat as anonymous writer and you, Amethyst!!! I feel the same as both of you! I like treating people with respect and if they overstep that..I give them another chance. But if they blow that second chance, I will ... (read in full...)
He isn't being straight about his feelings towards me - what's going on?
Q. So, i got dumped 8 months ago, he said he didnt know what he wanted. then came back to me took me out planned to go on holiday then i got rid of him ( fedup of not knowing where i stood) he then went back to his ex, went on holiday with her. Then...
A. 6 January 2007: I think that he wants his cake and eat it too!! I think that you should go on with your life and kick him to the curb.
Sounds like to me that he is selfish thinking of only himself, not his girlfriends!
Just forget about him and move on...yo... (read in full...)
After four years, my divorced ex tracked me down. He's my soulmate, but under the circumstances I'm very confused about what to do!
Q. I have been dating a man on and off for approx. 10yrs. The first time we broke up it was so he could move due to the fact that he missed his child who lived several states away. The second time we broke up because the ex he dumped shortly before we ...
A. 6 January 2007: I got one thing to say....RUN!!!! He knows that he can come back to you when the going gets tough, and you will take him back! This time put your foot down and tell him that to move on to someone else...that you have had it with his coming ... (read in full...)
He gave me money for my birthday. Now his mom thinks I'm sponging off him! What should I do?
Q. my partner is away overseas and i have recently had my hours cut at work.he gave me money for my birthday as i was having troubles paying bills. his mother now thinks that i am "sponging" off him. both myself and my partner are hurt over this ...
A. 6 January 2007: His Mom has to keep out of your private life with bf! Parents need to keep their thoughts to themselves when it comes to their kids' lives! She had no right talking to you the way she did....that was your bf's money, not hers, and he has every ... (read in full...)
Our arguments really scare me and I get so hurt...am I over sensitive here?
Q. Two weeks ago, I finally got together with the guy that I've been in love with for the last year. We've been close friends for two years and even though I told him how I felt six months ago, it's not been until recently that he's realised that he's ...
A. 6 January 2007: You are not over sensitive, it is that you love him so that it hurts. Don't let it hurt you so....everyone argues, even i do with my bf! And I feel the same way you do!!
I just let it slide...and you will find out that your bf will forget what... (read in full...)
Too embarrassed to hold his hand or show affection in front of other people. Why am I this way?
Q. hi. this boy just asked me out a few days ago an i said yes. he goes to my school and im too embarressed to hold his hand or kiss or hug or anything infront of people like my friends and just people from my school. i can do all those things not infr...
A. 6 January 2007: You are just shy and nervous of showing affection in front of other people. And this will pass in time. I too went through what you are going through. Now it doesn't bother me at all!
Hugs ... (read in full...)
We've dated a few times and he's telling me to change my hair! Should I be wary and do I need to change for him?
Q. Iv been seeing this man a few times and we get on really well,he told me that he found me very attractive and intelligent.Now my problem is this,a couple of times he has said that i would look better without my fringe and to cut my hair shorter and ...
A. 6 January 2007: My bf said the same thing about me....not my hair style, but my hair color. I had all of those wild hair colors...like blue and purple. But when I put natural hair die on, I liked it alot better.
Sounds like he knows something about hair..an... (read in full...)
Why do they always shoot their load so soon? Is it me?
Q. Why is it that everytime i have sex with a man they always ejaculate too quickly? Is it me or what? Im getting rather frustrated over this....
A. 6 January 2007: You are so good in bed that they can't control themselves!! There are things that they could use to keep their erection...like a cock ring or a cream that de-sensatizes their penis so that it lessens the sensations. I know this because the same ... (read in full...)
I'm worried to sleep with my boyfriend because I'm worried about how my labia minora's look!!
Q. I need your advice, im 17 and thinking about sleeping with my bf for the first time. the problem is im really embarressed as i have large labia minora's that hang down outside the lips of my vagina. Im really insecure about them and i dont know what ...
A. 5 January 2007: You don't have anything to worry about. He will like what he sees, especially if it's part of you! So don't worry, be happy!! :D ... (read in full...)
I can't stop flirting with the girl at work, but I'm happily married! What do I do?
Q. Ive been working in my new place for about 18 months now. My department is great and we all seem to get on. Im happily married and there is a younger girl in our department and things have gone where they shouldnt have. I like her and get on ...
A. 5 January 2007: If you love your wife, you then must stop all of this. All of this flirting will lead into something that you will regret!! And you will hurt your wife tremendously!
I think that you should put your energies into your new job, and put aside th... (read in full...)
I can't stop thinking about my ex, I think I'm obsessed, help!
Q. i cant get over my ex!im 18 and hes 25. and its been 6 weeks! even when im out with my friends i try my best not to think about him but i cant help it! i cant but think how much i wana be with him! when we were together it was amazing! and now its ...
A. 5 January 2007: You are not obsessed...you are just experiencing the grief! I totally agree with helpful girl! In fact I went full-force into my artwork and took the passion that I once felt for ex-bf and put it there. It actually worked! I even have an online ... (read in full...)
My bf ignored me and spoke to me angrily..not sure what I did wrong? What should I do?
Q. my bf and I have been together just over 2 years, im 20 he is 25, the other day I come home from work and I went straight to the shower to cool off as the air con at my work died so I was hot and wanted to cool down, the problem is my bf ignored me ...
A. 5 January 2007: Sounds like to me that he might be going through some kind of stress or depression. Has he always from time to time done this, or has this just started out of the blue?
Talk to him when he is in his better mood on what is bothering him. A ... (read in full...)
My bf said we're getting too close and has decided to ignore me! Why is he like this?
Q. Ive been with this boy for nearly 7 months we are both 14 and he told me we are getting to close! I think this will lead us to breaking up but i dont wont to! I went to school today and he told my best mate that he was not going to talk 2 me! So we ...
A. 4 January 2007: You two are very young, and I think that he is just getting cold feet...nervous that is. Maybe certain feelings he may be experiencing might actually be scaring him into saying things that he might not realize he's saying. He might just need ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to go out with a guy younger than me?
Q. im a girl and i like a guy who is younger than me, most people say its wrong to go out with guys who are younger than you and im worried what people will say. should i just forget him or is this acceptable?...
A. 4 January 2007: There is nothing wrong with it, and don't listen to the other people! You go girl!... (read in full...)
I'm only 28 and I have a low sex drive! What can I do?
Q. i have been married for 10 years and have a very low sex drive me andmy husband are happy but this is really starting to afect us i am only 28 years old what can i o about this thank you...
A. 4 January 2007: You have to check to see what physical changes occured Sometimes by having a baby causes a low sex drive. Also alot of anti-depressants cause sexual side-effects.
Maybe you should check with your doctor about it.
I just heard that there ar... (read in full...)
After six years, the sex has stopped!
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for 6 years and when it comes to makeing love there isnt time for that we only have sex what can i do to help spice things up so he.ll make the first move...
A. 4 January 2007: Try wearing some sexy hot lingerie for him. I have found that works for me. Also have a make-over and get a sexy hair style. Get some sexy clothes to wear only for him. I heard that pheromone perfume works too (get the one that attracts men to ... (read in full...)
I cant see him leaving his wife so do I stay with him? or do I end it now? i
Q. i have been having an affair with a married man for 5yrs, we were friends well before we were lovers,i knew he didnt love hes wife, and was and still is unhappy at home,he tells me he hasnt had sex with her for yrs?i dont believe that for a ...
A. 4 January 2007: I think that loving a married man has no future in it! It doesn't seem right to you having to wait for him! You should call it off and find a man who is unattached that will love you and be with you. If he is unhappy in his marriage, he would ... (read in full...)
During sex...I dry up and it's painful. Any tips?
Q. Well... I have been sexually active for about 4 years. I didn't start enjoying sex until about a year ago. I now LOVE sex. I don't mean that I have sex with every guy I see, but when I am in a committed relationship, I can't get enough. Most of the ...
A. 4 January 2007: I have had the same thing happen to me from time to time. So when that happens, I use lube,too. The best one, I think, is Astroglide!!! I have used KY in the past, but Astroglide is absolutly awesome! And you can get a free sample over the ... (read in full...)
I really like this girl so much, but I have no idea what to do!
Q. im 16 and the girl I like is 15, I dont know if she likes me or not but I've tried to hide that I like her and I can't anymore. Whenever she sees me, she smiles and waves hello to me, and she talks to me when out of school, and tody she looked at me ...
A. 4 January 2007: Ask her out on a date...ask her to attend a movie or go to the library ect. Or if she is in the same class, ask her to study together when there is an upcoming exam. If she says yes, then it might mean that she likes you too. If she says no, don't ... (read in full...)
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