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My bf said we're getting too close and has decided to ignore me! Why is he like this?

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Question - (4 January 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 4 January 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Ive been with this boy for nearly 7 months we are both 14 and he told me we are getting to close! I think this will lead us to breaking up but i dont wont to! I went to school today and he told my best mate that he was not going to talk 2 me! So we didnt talk all day. Why is he like this?

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A female reader, rammsteinfan United States +, writes (4 January 2007):

rammsteinfan agony auntYou two are very young, and I think that he is just getting cold feet...nervous that is. Maybe certain feelings he may be experiencing might actually be scaring him into saying things that he might not realize he's saying. He might just need some breathing space, and I think that you should not worry about!

Just give him time, and don't rush him. He will come around if you give him space!

Luck and Hugs to you

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2007):

just spend a little time apart from him he will soon be bagging for you to talk to him again

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A female reader, lena +, writes (4 January 2007):

lena agony aunti know its hard but get rid of him,this guy is no good for you, you deserve much better than this put it in one word 'crap'. he's trying to make you run after him and make you speak first and begg him to talk. please hunny don't! thats all he wants and a boy like that is no good. you may love him but what would you rather be in, a bad relationship or be happy free and single looking for the right man. if he says you will break up he is obviously thinking about doing it himself. i know through experience trust me *hugs* xxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2007):

Sweeite, he is abusive and manipulative and already at 14...that's scary.

That he threatens to withhold affection and attention to get what he wants? Threatens to break up if he doesn't get what he wants? This isn't a normal behaviour.

I say dump him.

You don't need that kind of element in your young and fabulous life. You don't need him to feel pressured and unvalued and unloved.

What do Mom and Dad think of this twit?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2007):

At that age anything can happen. Boys can be much more immature than girls. what with growing up and hormones, don't let it worry you. You are much too young to be worrying about matters like this. Stay free and single until you are older and get out there and enjoy life. Tell him to grow up and move on to the next.

Take care


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