I really want to get this girl's attention, any suggestions??
Q. There's this girl at school and I try to get her attenden but it never seems to work how could I get her to like me ?...
A. 5 March 2011: Of course you can but you need to give more details about her and relationship between you two so I can give you helpful advice... (read in full...)
Do guys really like to chase girls?
Q. Is it true that guys like to chase girls than have a girl continuiously say she loves him or chats to them?...
A. 5 March 2011: Every guy is different. Usually guy with high self-esteem and girls being always attracted to him, likes to chase girls. It seems to him like a challenge if he has to work for a girl. And usually guy with low self esteem likes when girl the one ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's sense of humor.
Q. My girlfriend has mesmerizing sense of humor which can bring out something funny even of the most tense situation . Some time I feel jealous that why I can't match her sense of humor . Though, I'm proud of her having this natural gifted thing but I ...
A. 1 March 2011: Maybe she likes that you are serious and not joking all the time. But to your problem. Being funny is not something you can exactly learn( maybe memorizing some jokes ;) ). Question I want to ask why do you want this? Does this you not being funny ... (read in full...)
I'm almost 17, and STILL being treated like a little kid!!
Q. Hey. Thank you for all you people who are taking your time to help me, I really do need answers. I'm 17 in a couple of days and tbh I'm quite confused. I've been with my boyfriend for ages (8 months) but he's still not allowed in my bedroom. Even...
A. 28 February 2011: They are doing this because they love you. My parents didn't give s*** about me so I could of done anything I wanted to. I would definitely chose your situation over mine.
They just want to protect you. Boy with girl alone in the room=trouble. It's... (read in full...)
Do men actually like this?
Q. Do guys like giving oral to girls??? I mean do they like fingering, and going down and you know? The taste, the look, when it's clean and partially shaven. I am so trying to explain this well, but just really wanted to know if they like kissin...
A. 28 February 2011: Absolutely do. I like it all clean down there and good hygiene . Then I really enjoy it. The taste and smell are fantastic. Although I do this only with my girlfriend. I wouldn't lick any one night stand. And every guy got no problem with fingering, ... (read in full...)
I've been hiding it, how do I tell my mom and brother that I am gay?
Q. hello , okay i am not quite sure how to ask this question , but i am living in a constant battle with myself , so i figured if i asked total strangers who lived what i am living right now it will help me ... See i had a rough year , i failed my la...
A. 28 February 2011: How does your mom feel about gay people ? Is she homophobic ? Would she kick you out of house for this? If yes then I would wait saying anything until you will not depend on her. But if she would be cool with it then just sit her down and tell her ... (read in full...)
I made a big mistake when was drunk and now my ex hates me
Q. I was with my girlfriend for a year and a half when she broke up with me out of the blue. We were in college together and I'm pretty sure she left me for another guy although I was never able to catch them together acting anything more than friends. ...
A. 14 February 2011: You can't. She dumped you man. She obliviously does not want to be with you. It's over. Deal with it. ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex but the guys I like prefer slim girls
Q. Im 17, and a virgin, im a size 16-18 and i really want to have sex! ive had no sexual experiences, I just want to get out there! The only thing is, then guys im into, tend to like slim girls, i dont think i'll be able to find a guy that likes my...
A. 10 February 2011: Ok go to the gym , eat healthy food , go running , don't eat dinner after 7 pm and drink a lot of water. You will lose weight, gain more self-esteem.
Instead of complaining do something.
Good luck :)
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How can we get over this petty fight that all started because of an iPod?
Q. Ok people I bet you will laugh and cringe equally when you read this little issue I'm having. Last night I asked my boyfriend if I could use his ipod at the gym this week (because he never uses it when he's there). Much to my surprise, he sai...
A. 8 February 2011: He said it pretty clearly : move out. Then break up with him. I know its harsh and if you are really in love it will be hard to end it , but he can't just give you this kind of ultimate choise. I mean he's not your boss and you are not his employee. ... (read in full...)
She wants to take a "Mommy Break". Would getting her a weekend by herself for V-Day be unromantic?
Q. Would it be horribly un-romantic for me to book a beachfront room for my wife to take a 2-day getaway by herself, as a Valentines Day gift? She has been talking about wanting to take a "mommy break" as in, get away for a couple days to relax, read, ...
A. 7 February 2011: The only problem is that you are not going to be there. I mean it's valentines :D so she probably wants you to be there. I guess you know what is valentines day about. You can't send her away alone on this day!
Find someone to babysit and go with... (read in full...)
Is the oral sex not working for him?
Q. My boyfriend tells me that I'm good at oral and we both enjoy it. While we were cuddling after our first time, sharing little quirks and whatnot, he said that he basically only cums during vaginal sex. He's been with four or five other girls and I'm ...
A. 3 February 2011: I and a lot of guys I know can't cum when getting a blow job. It's just too smooth. So don't worry about it. Use hands during bj and he might cun. Using just your mouth will not do the job... (read in full...)
I am thinking about leaving my boyfriend because I am not pretty enough compared to his ex!
Q. What do you do if you are not pretty? I feel so insecure about myself. Its not my body, in fact I think my body is amazing I am blessed in term of genetics but my face is so...plain. ITs not ugly or weird its just boring and shapeless. ITs more ...
A. 1 February 2011: I am sorry but this is one of the stupidest reasons why to break up :) .
If he still had feeling for his ex than maybe, but he cares about you and this is all in your head. He likes you for who you are and since he is still with you he obli... (read in full...)
Sex advice needed!
Q. Can any one suggest me please, what is penetration i am worried about it and have only 4inch penis and i don't know whether my g/f will be satisfied with it or not...
A. 1 February 2011: Well you will never find out before you try. I suggest watching some porn(if you are ok with it) before you have sex so you can get some helpful tips. That acctualy helped me a lot.
Don't worry about you size. You can do a lot with 4 inch. Try posi... (read in full...)
Why swallow? whats the pleasure?
Q. dear readers, i would like to ask the men out there and possibly the women why men like a girl to swallow their semen? why is it attractive to men to see there girlfriend swalllowing the product of their energy? some women say it tastes awfu...
A. 1 February 2011: First of all we just do find its hot. I can't explain you why exactly. Maybe because it's just really nice way to finish. Plus it can feel really good. Like when girl is giving me blowjob and swallows it instantly. The reason why it's hot is that it ... (read in full...)
I don't get this girl.
Q. I don't get this girl, we talked one day she tells me how she does not want a relationship with anybody and is not willing to lose me. She does not want to be tied down to a guy, and well she told me she would only date a guy she didn't really know. ...
A. 24 January 2011: It seems to me that she doesn't want anything serious. That means she just want to have some fun right now.
So, since there will be no emotional relationship in the future, she's clearly offering you physical one.
Here are your choices:
1)... (read in full...)
Would this gesture of mine seem romantic or creepy?
Q. Hello, I would like to know if this would be cute or creepy. I this girl and I have been talking and we are really into each other I mean really. Anyways I am seeing her this Saturday and I am going to ask her to be my girlfriend. I want to make ...
A. 24 January 2011: I wouldnt do it like that, sorry. I mean there is a possibility that she might find it little weird. Try to come up with something little different.
Good luck to you... (read in full...)
I don't feel his erection through his pants, does this mean he is really small?
Q. I have recently met this guy online whom I like quite a lot. I wouldn't say I am in love with him since we have only been on four dates but we have reasonable chemistry and get along otherwise. We have made out twice already, pants on but I don't ...
A. 21 January 2011: Don't make any conclusions yet. He might not be hard. The thing you can do is to ask him to send you a picture of him naked. Like photo exchange kinda thing. Or just ask through chat what's his size.
Good luck.... (read in full...)
Do I consider a threesome because I love him? Or just say no?
Q. Right, i need someone's help to make me understand my boyfriend's mind a tad bit better.. He wants to try a 3sum, however.. i want MY boyfriend to Myself! I'm not into girls, sure they're gorgeous but not sexually. I thought we had great se...
A. 21 January 2011: No. You don't want to have threesome, that's it ;). Almost every sexually oriented guy wants to have a threesome but only a tiny percentage is actually going to have one. I mean if he wants something that doesn't mean he's going to get.
ask him ... (read in full...)
I'm not physically attracted to my mate
Q. Not physically attracted to my significant other, but not sure what to do. I love her in other ways. What do I do?...
A. 18 January 2011: Write little bit more about the situation so I can give you helpful advice... (read in full...)
Sexual relationship with my 2nd cousin?
Q. I've been in a sexual relationship with my second cousin. Is this wrong? We are in love. Its not something we sought out. It just happened....
A. 17 January 2011: Legally it's not wrong but since you are blood related you will get some judgement from other people. As long you re comfortable with it and you are in love I don't think it matter what anyone else thinks.
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Husband confused about female anatomy and thinks I'm cheating!
Q. ok ladies i really want to know is it true that when you have sex and get really aroused your vagina hole gets bigger. im havin problems with this b/c my husband thinks im cheating and im not and we havent had sex in about a week in a half were use ...
A. 16 January 2011: Well just sit him down and tell him that you are not cheating and that its just what female body does. Ask him why is he being so paranoid. And tell him that you are very offended with his accusations. Just get defensive that he wont trust you.
S... (read in full...)
Single mom with her son's best friend?
Q. Single mom with her sons friend? I'm a single 47 year old woman and I have an 18 year old son. I've been divorced for 5 years and haven't had sex since. My son has a very cute best friend who is also 18. They've been best friends for years. Every ti...
A. 15 January 2011: Well I wouldn't ever tell your son about it and asked his best friend to never talk about this to anyone. If your son will find out he would be really mad at you and his friendship with you lover would endl. So I suggest you end this or enjoy it and ... (read in full...)
Parents slip us up when they smelled weed. How can I fix this?
Q. Hi there Dear Cupid Forum! As of 6 months ago I began dating a Woman that I am now in love with. She is my first love, I have known her since I first moved to British Columbia when I was 14. We have been through a lot together, she was my Grad ...
A. 15 January 2011: Yes, definitely ask her to this valentine thing. You should definitely fight for her. I think you should find a way how to bring it up to her. You can also find a romantic way how to do it. It really seems that you like each other. ... (read in full...)
Parents slip us up when they smelled weed. How can I fix this?
Q. Hi there Dear Cupid Forum! As of 6 months ago I began dating a Woman that I am now in love with. She is my first love, I have known her since I first moved to British Columbia when I was 14. We have been through a lot together, she was my Grad ...
A. 6 January 2011: So to just clear up, are you still smoking weed? Was her first time smoking also her first time?
I would talk to her parents about it. That it was one time deal and that you are sorry. Just tell them everything you think they would want to hear... (read in full...)
I am falling in love with my dead boyfriend's brother
Q. I think I may be falling in love with my deceased father of my children / boyfriend's brother. It's been 2 months now and we have this connection where we both can't stand going a day with out speaking to eachother. He has been great with me and the ...
A. 4 January 2011: It is. There is nothing wrong with it. But I would wait a little bit more, 2 months is frankly too short of a time and you can still be emotionally vulnerable from what happened. So I would really think about what I actually feel if I were you. ... (read in full...)
She texts her ex in the same manner as she texts me, but cant see that it really hurts me
Q. My girlfriend and I had a fight today and it was because I saw the text between her ex and her. I noticed that she texts him the same way she texts me. She calls him honey and baby from time to time, and something it goes as calling him sexy, ...
A. 4 January 2011: As she is your first love and girlfriend its much harder to break up. But it sounds that you should. She obliviously has feelings for her exboyfriend. And I don't believe that " she loves him as a friend" . You are absolutely right about all points ... (read in full...)
My older brother said I can, but should I go for it?
Q. I'm a 14 year old male and am still a virgin. My older brother is 17 and has been sleeping with a couple girls since he was 13 and said I could sleep with them if I wanted. I have never seen her but I know she's hot. Should I go for it even though ...
A. 3 January 2011: It depends what you want . Do you want to have sex with the same girl that your brother ? Do you want to have sex with girl that is so easy ? and for the first time. If you are ok with this and you'll do it , please use protection.
My advice i... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is not ashamed of being nude in front of others...
Q. Last night, we had around 20 people over for a New Years party, and I was trying to fall asleep a little later in the night. I was nearly asleep when someone ran to the bathroom (which is right outside of my room) to inform his girlfriend that my ...
A. 2 January 2011: Well I would talk to him about it. Not just after he does something like that but I would just sit him down and tell him that it's making you very uncomfortable. Tell him that this is a deal breaker and if he wants to be with you than he needs to ... (read in full...)
What am I doing wrong? Guys flock to her and I never get that.
Q. So, one of my close friends, is constantly getting hit on by guys. She claims to have low self esteem, yet whenever we go out, she gets a bunch of guys asking for her number. Now, don't get me wrong, I love her and everything, she's my friend, but ...
A. 27 December 2010: I think in your situation the problem is that u are shy and not "easy" so more guys are intimidated so only few will get the courage to hit on you or ask u out .... (read in full...)
Fourteen and I haven't a clue on how to tell my parents: 'I'm pregnant'
Q. I have a major problem... I'm pregnant. i know I'm totally under aged being on 14 but i don't know what to do about it... i don't want to get an abortion because - no offense towards anyone- i don't agree in them and think that's wrong. I think i...
A. 27 December 2010: Well you gona have to tell them someday . So sit them down and tell them. I have a few questions. How did it happen ? How old is the dad of the baby?
You need to tell your parents as soon as possible and come up with a solution together beca... (read in full...)
Does it sound like he likes me?
Q. There is this guy in one of my classes who I am friends with, and I like him. He is always putting his arm around me, and laying his head on my shoulder, and stuff like that. And whenever we're alone he jokes about how its the perfect time to make...
A. 27 December 2010: 100% likes you . He's probably just shy.. Just ask him on a date or wait a week or so for him to ask you.... (read in full...)
New to sex and want to make it better
Q. How can i make sex with my boyfriend better for him? I feel pretty useless.. i mean.. i dont exactly just lay there but like he kisses my neck.. plays with my boobs and bum and stuff.. and i just dont know what exactly to do. hes rather ...
A. 25 December 2010: Totally agree with trancedrhythmear... (read in full...)
Am I being cynical thinking she's too good to be true?
Q. I need you guys to read over this and tell me what you think because I'm not sure: I met this beautiful girl a couple of months ago. She is literally model gorgeous and then I mean like a victoria's secret angel, not a stick. Anyway, we got t...
A. 25 December 2010: Well I would believe it and it seems to me that you won the lottery so don't be afraid to cash the ticket in. Good luck ... (read in full...)
Was this emotional abuse by my bf?
Q. Was I in an emotionally abusive relationship? We dated for five years but in order for him to accept me, he wanted me to loose weight i am 124lbs 5'3 and he would sometimes be like, 'oh why arent you wearing makeup?'. or like, 'I dont want to hav...
A. 25 December 2010: Solution : break up with him... (read in full...)
Birth control question!
Q. Okay so I have been on birth control for about 4 months and after the first two months I've been having unprotected sex with my boyfriend a bunch. A condom is not used AT ALL. Do you think I should have less sex, sex with a condom all the time, or ...
A. 29 May 2010: If you're on birth control it's safe to have sex... (read in full...)
I am scared and in love and don't know what to do :( Please help me!
Q. Well, ok I have been dating this girl for about 5 1/2 months. And at first we were both a tad nervous so when we didn't do the little stiff it was ok, but now that is really starting to upset me. We started dating in December and first said I love ...
A. 29 May 2010: I know the feeling I've been there but the only thing you can do is to break up with her and move on.
She obviously doesn't like you that much and there might be someone else you're just too much in love to see it.
You're young and you will fin... (read in full...)
I masturbate 5-6 times a day! Its an addiction!
Q. Hello.. I have addiction with masturbation since i was 13. Im 30 now but still cant stop it, i would masturbate 5-6 times everyday. It really effected my life, my health and confidence. Im jobless and still single. My life is a mess and im falling ...
A. 29 May 2010: I have the same problem. but what health problems and why are u jobbles?
I masturbate a lot everyday but it doesnt cause any problems.
If u have some i would suggest to stop masturbating... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to get excited soon during sex
Q. hi!im in a relationship with a guy for almost 3 years.As soon as he touches me or kisses me i get so excited and wet and our sex goes very smooth!But he tells me that sex should be painful and suspects me a lot.i love him so much and i get hurt ...
A. 29 May 2010: Sex should be painful?? Sex should be smooth and fun and enjoyable.
It's totaly normal and prefered. I think it's hot when girl gets easily excited... what ever problem he has with that it's only his problem.
... (read in full...)
I hate my breasts!
Q. Okay so I don't have the "model boobs" that you see in Playboy mags, Porn, Movies/Tv and everyday life! I don't have big boobs, I don't have those cute small nipples, and I don't have perfect round ones. I have 34b boobs with big nipples and that ...
A. 29 May 2010: I think you should let guy decide how you "boobs" look like and not you. He acctualy thinks that they are beautiful and you're worring about nothing.
From what you described you got beautiful normal breasts for your age and the breast you seen in ... (read in full...)
Husband masturbates to porn when we have sex every day!
Q. Hi I'm 18 years old. My question is why does my husband masturbate watching porn on tv if we have sex every day. Iv seen him masturbating when he thought i was asleep. What can i do. ...
A. 29 May 2010: He's a sex addict if you want him to stop watching porn just do it with him more :)... (read in full...)
How do I tell my boyfriend I just want to be friends...?
Q. Basically i was with a guy for 2 and a half years up till the beginning of april, he then broke it off with me on the terms that he didnt love me anymore because i had changed and not told my parents we were engaged. i decided to get talking ...
A. 29 May 2010: I think if you tell him in anyway he will not want to be friends with you.
I m sorry but sometimes you just can't be friends withsome.... (read in full...)
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