How do I tell my boyfriend I just want to be friends...?
Q. Basically i was with a guy for 2 and a half years up till the beginning of april, he then broke it off with me on the terms that he didnt love me anymore because i had changed and not told my parents we were engaged. i decided to get talking ...
A. 29 May 2010: I think if you tell him in anyway he will not want to be friends with you.
I m sorry but sometimes you just can't be friends withsome.... (read in full...)
What does it mean when your boyfriend never seems to want sex?
Q. What does it mean when your boyfriend never seems to want sex? I only see him once a week - usually determined by him. Its been 3 full weeks since we've had sex. I actually saw him 3 times in a row which is very rare and not once did he try, or r...
A. 24 May 2010: talk to him aout it :)... (read in full...)
Why doesn't it feel good?
Q. Why doesnt it feel good when he rubs my clitoritis? its like he'll be fingering me and try it and people say it feels like amazing and with me it just sorta tickels like it make my legs twitch and I cant take it because it sorta hurts. I dont get ...
A. 24 May 2010: he is too young to know how to do it right u need to tell him where do you like it then it'll feel great :)... (read in full...)
I'm tempted to find sex outside of my marriage
Q. i am addicited to sex though i have never gone outside in my 12 yr married life but as soon as i see a sexy female i want to take her to bed,is this the after effect of internet/tv.is this normal pl help....
A. 15 May 2010: when I personaly am in love and my wife is sexualy active and attractive really don't want to have sex with other women or if just for a little monent and it's gone because i know its meaning less.
If you want to ruin you marriage go for it ,but... (read in full...)
Why cant he just tell these other women he is married to stop them flirting with him?
Q. Hi, My husband's exes are getting in touch with him, calling and sending texts even though he doesn't answer them. I do understand that he is committed now but the problem I have right now is that this line they are texting and calling he got afte...
A. 14 May 2010: babymama99s was is the best and i would add this is his pregnant wife ... (read in full...)
Is this some sort of STD or cancer?
Q. Ok, today my bf really surprised me...he insisted that we use a condom wen he normally penetrates without usin 1. the thing is, for the 1st two years of our relationship, our main contraceptive method was the withdrawal method and once in a while if ...
A. 12 May 2010: That's normal for a guy to get without intercourse. I don't know all specifics but i got that once and it was like 5 months after i had intercourse. There is a bit chance that is something else but otherwise u dont have to worry it will go away soon... (read in full...)
During sex he just stopped and said he'd had enough!
Q. I've been seeing this guy who seems really nice.He seems interested in everything I say. Hes very complimentary and affectionate. I got the impression that he really likes me but I'm starting to wonder if he does. The first few times we had sex ...
A. 10 May 2010: You need to talk about why? There are many reasons why he stops like m ur not wet enough and then it really hurt and it's uncomfortable. But he should definitely tell you what is happening.... (read in full...)
Is this depression or just life?
Q. Am I suffering from depression because I don't want to go out of the house and I can't see the positive side to life anymore --- or is that just life?...
A. 4 May 2010: I major in psychology and from this what you wrote it seems you got clinical depresion. U can make it better by going to the psychologist and he'll know what to do.
Don't waste any more time doing it because this time home in bed is lost time you'... (read in full...)
Am I a crazy stalker bitch?
Q. Hi my name a Olivia and the guy I am currently seeing well we have phone sex ALOT and we were having phone sex and I was orgasming and I could of sworn he was laughing and giggling but he told me he was oragasming also but in his voice he sounds l...
A. 2 May 2010: That guy should be dead to you . And answer to your question NO but mb a bit jealous only and thats understandable.... (read in full...)
Why did wife lie about her past? I have a right to know!
Q. I found out my wife lied to me about how many guys she slept with before me. When the topic first came up when we were dating she told me there was three. I had a very hard time with this because i felt very insecure about myself. At that point i ...
A. 27 April 2010: I dont agree with other people here it is your business to as husband to know everything about your wife and she about you.
She shouldnt lie but she only did it because of your reaction about it. But that she swore and then told you there is anot... (read in full...)
Boyfriend threatening to dump me for being overweight!
Q. I am a 20 yr. Old female I been in a relationship of 3 years my boyfriend has a problem with my weight. I'm not too much overweight but I try to do everything I can I go to the gym I eat healthy and I do it all for myself and him but it seems to not ...
A. 26 April 2010: You got slow metablolism try some drinks for losing weight they'll slow it down and if you work out and got fir body in month. It's not about how much you weight but how your body looks like
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I'm 15 and a virgin and I want to have sex. If I don't wait for the right person, will I regret it?
Q. I'm 15 and still a virgin. All of my friends have had sex, i think im ready to but i really don't know what to do. i m not sure whether to wait for the right person or just go ahead and do it. if i don't wait for the right person will i regret it ...
A. 25 April 2010: It's your decision but if i was you i would wait for someone who i love and he loves you. He doesn't have to be special just you need to love each other. I think that's the sex you should have the first time. Later in life you can find sexual... (read in full...)
Help How do I Snog my Boyfriend for the first time
Q. Hi im a teenager and im in love with my boyfreind and i want to take my realtionship a little bit further and i dont know how to kiss because i never have please can you help me? ...
A. 23 April 2010: he probably either. It's nothing dificult when you kiss him it will feel natural and you ll know what to do... (read in full...)
Would you date someone like that?
Q. my boyfriend has a high school diploma ad he does not know if he wants to go back to school, while i am getting my bachelors. he does not have a bank account, he is not that intelligent meaning he can not really read or spell that great. ...
A. 22 April 2010: Please break up with him my sister continued it and she got her life ruined please break up with him.... (read in full...)
How do I achieve a sexy, flawless body, minus the fake boobs?
Q. Okay I know this is weird to ask, But I want advice on something pretty wild. Okay, I've noticed that in movies,adult, magazine,etc. That women have some beautiful bodies, I want to know how to come about it. Not the working out or big breas...
A. 22 April 2010: I can make from ugly woman a beautiful one with all the programs like pohotshop. It's not really hard magaizines are not 100% real. There are many improvements done on them that you wont notice. It's supereasy to make scars disaprear on picture.
W... (read in full...)
My boyfriend can't make friends
Q. My boyfriend and I moved to this new city 2 years ago for school. Back home, he had a few friends but they've understandably drifted apart. Here, he has no social outlet besides me. My poor guy tries to make friends but he just can't. He has no...
A. 21 April 2010: You can't do anything serious because he has to make his own friends. I never had this issue although i moved a lot. The thing he doesn't know is ,to not wait for invitation and get in with people and ask if they want to hang out for a bear or somet... (read in full...)
My husband does not appear to be sexually interested in me.
Q. My husband and I have been married for 5 years. The biggest issue in our marriage has always been sex. He just doesn't act that into me. I'm not overweight and most men find me attractive. When I ask him, he says he finds me attractive, yet he ...
A. 20 April 2010: He might lost attraction to you like maybe you gain some weight or something changed. On the other hand just check what porn he looks at and do the same thing like on video and he'll definitely jump in bed with you.... (read in full...)
Troubled about her sexual past
Q. Well, i just got married 5 months ago with the one i'm in love with but i started having a problem when i think of her ex-boyfriends with whom she had sex before we knew each other. Before our marriage she told me everything about her past; wh...
A. 20 April 2010: have you been virgin till mariage? There should be no worries she loves you and she married you and she got the best sex with you. Don't worry about it ... (read in full...)
He's straight and I'm gay. How can I stop falling in love with him?
Q. I'm gay and I love one of my best friends and I told them a couple of months ago. They made it clear that they aren't, but they said that they respected the fact that I'm gay. I feel awkward when ever I pass him in the halls at school and I tryed to ...
A. 20 April 2010: Look you can hit on him and lose him or you can stop hitting on him and put your feelings aways and tell him you got no feeling for him in that way. Because this is very uncomfortable for a straith guy and he will always feel unconfortale near you ... (read in full...)
He deletes computer history and lies about it!
Q. The past month or two, my boyfriend has been using my computer because his has a virus on it. He has been deleting the history. But then he lies about deleting the history and says that there must be a comptuer "glitch"! I know he is doing this ...
A. 19 April 2010: I cant tell you if it's like that but I have a lots of female friends and my girlfriend had always problem with me talking to them. I also deleted some stuff from my pc but it was only porn and about text messages I mean trust him a little bit ... (read in full...)
Does my step cousin fancy me?
Q. Hey guys! Okay please dont judge but this is a bit wierd. About two years ago my uncle got a girlfriend. ( he divorced his wife) now he is getting married to the girlfriend. She had a son two years older than me and we get on really , really w...
A. 19 April 2010: Ok he might like you ,but he might find it that it would be wierd for you if he asks you out, so you need to give him some clues.... (read in full...)
Is it my fault that he couldn't cum?
Q. I've been dating a guy for a little over 3 months now. 2 months into the relationship, I gave him his first blowjob, but we had to stop before he finished because we had to go somewhere. I tried again a month later, we were finally able to ensure a...
A. 19 April 2010: it's not your falut because most guys come quite quickly from blow job.
You can use different techniques like my girlfriend and than is problem for me not to cum.
It depends if he's circumsized and what's his size.
It's his problem but you need... (read in full...)
Snooping in fiancee's facebook account made me discover he cheated!
Q. I recently did a bad thing and snooped in my fiance's facebook account. I read a message in there that said that he had sex with a girl whilst on a boys weekend away. This happened a week after we met (we'd only been on one date) and we weren't ...
A. 19 April 2010: He feel really bad because he didn't know that he'll marry you and fall in love with you. He was just stupid you need to put this behind and ask him if he has been with someone after you started dating.
Making mistake is human but one week is not ... (read in full...)
I love him as a person but there's no sexual spark!
Q. Is it right to stay with someone who you love very much as a person, but the sexual spark isn't there? I love him and want him to be happy. I know my being with him makes him happy, but he is happy with me just being there. I want so much more, like ...
A. 19 April 2010: he's addict to games and that's all that matters to him. Tell him that he need to change that and start being more romantic. You need to start doing something or leave him. The relationship works perfect for him because he got sex on regular bases ... (read in full...)
Forever single?
Q. It is hard to describe how much a single two letter word can cause so much pain. From middle school to now I have heard to word no more times I care to count. I have always thought how myself as a nice caring person however I was always isolated, ...
A. 19 April 2010: It's probably your looks because you seem like a nice guy i'm sorry but it is. There is a solution GYM . They like your personality but if they are not attracted to you game over. You can't fix your face but you can work on your body so start now. ... (read in full...)
She told me she cheated on me and broke up with me, but I want her back
Q. Me and this girl starting dating around valentine's day. She was my first love. I'm thinking this is the girl im going to marry. We were great for about a month and a half and one day she starts pushing me away. She told me I was clinging and she ...
A. 19 April 2010: She cheated on you twice and you still want her. She doesn't care about you how you do about her.
Dust your self off stand up and get over it. It's over.
I don't want to be hard on you, i know you love her but you are still young there will be ... (read in full...)
I want to end this relationship but don't want her to hate me
Q. hi am currently in a relationship n am not happy its not the same as it used too be its the 3rd time that we have been out with each other bt this time is just different were both young but ive had enough but i dont want to break her /heart and her ...
A. 19 April 2010: tell her how you feel you can't break up nice . Most of the time there is always person who will get hurt.... (read in full...)
How do I get past the fact that he had a life before me, so that I can enjoy what I have with him now?
Q. This has been bothering me for a while now and I don't know how to deal with it. Sorry for the long post but your opinions are appreciated. I first met my BF in June last year. When we met I was also talking to this other guy. After a few date...
A. 19 April 2010: I mean he doesn't had to be a virgin and obviously loves you and care a lot about you. He started dating you after you dumped him because he cares about you so much.
Listen what he says he sound like a great guy and please don't worry about the past... (read in full...)
I would be a success if I could settle down and just do it
Q. Hello! In short, I have lived and moved to many countries throughout my life. Sometimes due to my fathers change of job location and sometimes due to my own ambitions. I lost my mother at a very early age and I have never wanted children. That f...
A. 18 April 2010: Sadly here are not a lot of people who could help you with this problem. My brother was just like you and he finnaly sattled when he was 40 and he told me that he wished he've done it 10 years ago. Don't wait too long when you feel right you should ... (read in full...)
I hate my rotten existence
Q. i hate the people hurt me and every day i get sadder and sader and more unhappy no body cares about me home.i have be going counsellors since i could read,i have been bulled,attack,called names, rejected,ingorned,even stacked,no body cares abut me ...
A. 18 April 2010: The the thing you need to do is to start work on yourself right away. I know you got it hard but if you try really really hard happiness will come to you :)... (read in full...)
Does this girl really like me?
Q. okay, so along with the popular girl from my school, I think another girl might like me...but the thing is I don't think she knows I'm 17 and she looks about 19 or so. She works at a resteraunt and all of the girls that work there are extremely ...
A. 18 April 2010: Even tho i m not a girl there is a simples way how to find out talk to one of her friends if she asks her. If she does your good and if not she might start liking you after that.
Btw i agree with heather check how she threats other people.
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I'm afraid to lose my virginity.
Q. I'm 20 years old and I am a virgin still. I know i shouldn't think so much of it but the only reason I still am one is because every time I've been presented with the opportunity to have sex i got scared that i wouldn't do good enough and backed ...
A. 18 April 2010: don't be afraid and you don't have to tell them :) Watch porn to get some techniques and you'll be fine. Noone is casanova the first time .... (read in full...)
Is this true about the black rose?
Q. I was told along time ago that there were a group of people like a club or a gang, that would sleep with you then send you a black rose or some flower that would say some thing like you have aids now welcome to the club is this true? and if it is ...
A. 18 April 2010: I'm sorry but there are a lots of people like that and that's why you have to ALWAYS USE CONDOM.
When you do that you should't be so afraid and if he's cut like in his mouth or bleeding that is also way how you can get it.
But the chance that it ... (read in full...)
I have trouble with him not replying for three or four days
Q. I need help....my ex and I broke up about 2 months ago and a month ago we started talking again. It was great at first.He is very independent.I get anxious if he doesnt respond right away to my voice mail or text message and has told do not do that ...
A. 18 April 2010: i agree with heather because i done that to a girl once. Because if he cares about you he'll call back and he is ignoring you because noone goes 3 days without checking..... (read in full...)
What's the good thing about being FWB, not including sex?
Q. Hey everyone !!! I want to ask a quick question. What is the good thing about being friends with benifits and by that i mean holding hands, hugging, cute names, making out. (nothing sexual) ?? And what is the bad part ?? thanks alot ...
A. 18 April 2010: The thing you shouldn't start it with someone who you got feelings for other than sexual if you want to keep it that way.
My brother and his wife started like that and after a year their feeling got bigger and stronger and it develped there.
It's ... (read in full...)
Is my weight getting in the way of his pleasure?
Q. This might be a long story... Well my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost 3 years and everything has gone great, theres only one problem... he works out all the time and is super skinny while i'm overweight... our sex life is always s...
A. 18 April 2010: Look he loves you the way you are but he would probaly love if you went to gym . And if you do it, do it for yourself so you can feel good about yourself.... (read in full...)
He cheated and now I have trust issues
Q. i have been seeing my boyfriend for 9 years now he as all ways been a kind and caring person but last december he cheated on me 2 days after he came and told me.i could not believe what he had done so i kicked him out and we finished for about a ...
A. 18 April 2010: i'm sorry you can't do anything he need to earn your trust back and you should tell him. My brother did it and i know his wife and i m godfather to their kid. He got a beat from me because this is unexpectable. I know that you love him and you got a ... (read in full...)
Unprotected sex, morning after pill, still no period! I'm worried about pregnancy and STI's!
Q. Ok. basically i had sex with my boyfriend for the first time about 5 days ago. We didn't use a condom and now i feel stupid and all my friends have lectured me, at the time he said he would pull out and everything seemed fine. I really liked him, ...
A. 17 April 2010: look you probaly just late a bit it doesn't matter your pregnant it happens when you are that young. Truly is stupid that you didn't use condom because guys let a bit sperm out during sex before they come. And about the sickness go see a doctor and ... (read in full...)
I really like him now, but how to I get his attention again?
Q. So one of my guy friends told me a while ago that he likes me. At the time, I didn't like him and told him so. But now, I do have a crush on him and I'm not sure what I should say or do... I would really appreciate any advice you can give me! Thank ...
A. 17 April 2010: Tell those guys that you like him that's all they will tell him. He's hurt because you didn't like him. That's all. After he'll know that you like him back you will get his attention.... (read in full...)
Terrible pain when trying to finger myself
Q. I'm a virgin 16 year old girl and when I try to finger my vagina I can't because IT HURTS A LOT.I can't even stick my entire finger in my vagina,I have tried but I can't,I have been trying to finger my vagina since I was 12 years old(when I ...
A. 17 April 2010: my girl friend had it before we met and she was too scared to do it. She went to see a doctor and everything was ok after that. Go to doctor don't be embarased.... (read in full...)
3 weeks without sex-is that normal?
Q. When my b/f is under pressure at work; or has too many bills he just shuts down in the sex department. We have sometimes gone 3 weeks without intimacy. Is this normal in a happy relationship? I guess it's frustrating to me because fo...
A. 17 April 2010: My friend got into stage of life when you are past 40 you're getting little calmer. Talk to him. It differs on the person someone cant be without sex more than a week and someone can do whole month with no problems. You need to show him than you ... (read in full...)
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