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writes:Well, ok I have been dating this girl for about 5 1/2 months. And at first we were both a tad nervous so when we didn't do the little stiff it was ok, but now that is really starting to upset me. We started dating in December and first said I love you in Janurary, it didn't take us long to realize we were so in love. Things were great for the longest time, but lately something has changed.She just seems to never show any affection or emotion at all. We go to school together and she spends more time talking to her guy friends than she does me. She practically ignores me unless she needs me to do her a favor. I feel totally ignored and taken for granted. If I'm lucky I can get a hug, but she will never ever kiss me in public, not even a goodbye kiss. She usually doesn't even say goodbye. We only have dates once or twice a month now because she's "busy". Her mom's friend from out of town came over, no reason why she isn't free. She never makes time for me anymore. Last week we got to see a movie, Letters to Juliet with her friend Nick... Idk. Every time I talk to her about this stuff she always turns it around on me and makes me feel guilty. And she never compliments me or makes me feel special. I am afraid because I am so in love with her and its not that she's interested in anyone else, but I just feel so unappreciated. Like in the movie we say, Letters to Juliet, I want that kind of love, I want love where we want to be with each other all the time, and its not perfectly ok to her if we don't spend time together. I just don't know what to do. I'm in love and I'm scared of losing her and I just don't know what to do :( Please help me!
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reader, Lucky786  +, writes (29 May 2010):
 Sounds like she does not want to be with you anymore. Or she wants something more casual. You have fallen for this girl hard and I think you might be coming across to her as being needy and desparate which is making her pull away more, so you cling on even harded...it's a cycle you need to break out of otherwise you could get very hurtt. As hard as it seems, you need to start focusing on other things in your life. Once you start doing this you might see a change in her or you might even realise that she is not the one for you.
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reader, Problem.helper +, writes (29 May 2010):
 I know the feeling I've been there but the only thing you can do is to break up with her and move on.
She obviously doesn't like you that much and there might be someone else you're just too much in love to see it.
You're young and you will find a girl who cares about you as much as you do.
My best advice from personal experienceis to break up with her and forget about her and you will find someone better.
Don't waste your time on her.
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