Should I tell my wife I've been visiting massage parlours?
Q. I'm a married man in my early 50s with a big secret. I've developed a habit of visiting massage parlours and receiving massages that end with sexual stimulation and orgasm. This started a few months ago and I love the excitement of headin...
A. 14 February 2017: Just to follow up on this, and to thank you for your replies. I've decided (a) not to tell my wife about the visits, and (b) to stop the visits to massage parlours. I haven't been to one since I posted the original question. Maybe it was something I ... (read in full...)
Why was my BF not receptive enough to my naughty Snapchat video?
Q. I sent my BF a racy Snapchat video. I don't want to say exactly but it was definitely "naughty" and involved private parts. Well, it took him 2 hours to see it and respond. He said... "Mmmmmm. How am I supposed to sleep tonight after seeing t...
A. 8 January 2017: It's funny how different people read different things into his reaction. I felt his response was very positive and the reference to 'not being able to sleep' was alluding to something else! I wouldn't be concerned if I was you, unless there are ... (read in full...)
Should I be more angry or just let it go? My wife confessed that she gave oral briefly to a male stripper at a party
Q. Hi, my wife went to a girls party night recently where we both knew there would be male strippers. I was totally cool with it but she got carried away with the night and ended up giving a few seconds of oral to all but one of the stripper...
A. 7 January 2017: This would worry me a bit. It wasn't just one stripper, but several by the sounds of it. She must have been enjoying it to move from one to another. But ultimately it is your decision how to respond and I am impressed that you are handling it in ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my wife I've been visiting massage parlours?
Q. I'm a married man in my early 50s with a big secret. I've developed a habit of visiting massage parlours and receiving massages that end with sexual stimulation and orgasm. This started a few months ago and I love the excitement of headin...
A. 4 January 2017: Thank you for the replies. I know I deserve all the criticism received and I know that I should channel my efforts into my marriage rather than seeking illicit thrills. Yes, I would be shocked if my wife behaved in the same way. Our marriage is ... (read in full...)
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