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reader, pebble  +, writes (3 June 2009):
 You NEED to go to a doctor. They will test you and tell you if you are pregnant. You can't just ignore it, it won't go away. You won't be able to hide it for very long if you are pregnant.
We can all say lots of stuff on here but the only way you're going to find out is to see a doctor.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (3 June 2009):
 You are still updating, but still haven't been to the doctor, we've tried to help but you are obviously an IDIOT, who doesn't listen to anyone and I truely hope you are not pregnant!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): You have to listen to the advice been given.
Do you really want your life to be over at 13 years old???
Because you might think now, wow a cute little baby thats all my own i can dress it up and take it for walks in the park! But the truth is it isnt a walk in the park. Its the hardest thing anyone will ever do, its another life that your responsible for and i mean, your parents are still responsible for you now! You'll have this child FOREVER and when your friends are all going out in five years time you wont be able to, when your friends are going out now you wont be able to. Everything will end for you, and i mean EVERYTHING. Think about kids when your responsible for yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni do understand and i deaply am sorry for my actions and if i could go back in time i would change it and i know that i carnt and its my mastake and i have to live with the consecenses x
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): umm u shud make an appointment to see a doctor and 2nd to me it seems like ur askin to be pregnant im not calling you a whore but i think u shud stop havin unprotected sex im 1and 4 months pregnant and i kno its gonna be hard but u shud make an appointment to see a doctor u can ask your mom to bring you and since your a teenager the doctor can tell your parents wheather or not ya pregnant but umm good luck sweetie
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2009): Tell your parents or go to your gp, stop having unprotected sex
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reader, pebble +, writes (2 June 2009):
Nobody has left hurtful comments. You only don't like because it's not what you want to hear.
You should have thought of the consequences before you made such a silly mistake. You may have created A HUMAN LIFE. Do you not understand how serious that is? You seem to have no idea what you've done.
And if you can't even afford a pregnancy test, how on earth are you going to afford nappies, milk, toys, clothes, a cot, blankets, bottles, dummies, a sterilser and solution, a pram, a carseat, a high chair and a baby bouncer? And that's only half of it.
Please tell me you understand the severity of what you have done...?
And I'm pretty sure you can get a basic pregnancy test for £3.62 from Tesco.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (2 June 2009):
 Can't afford an over the counter pregnancy test but still goes ahead and has unprotected sex. How much to you think having a baby costs??? Is it just me or do others think kids are dumber than we were 44 years ago?
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (2 June 2009):
 and to be honest i did not come on ear to get judged so will people stop leaving hertful comments thanks. people are only telling you the truth it only hurts because you know you shouldnt of being doing it. were not judging you just telling you how it is. sleeping around is never a good thing more so at your age people know about it and they will think hurtful things and say how they feel. im glad you came for advice but when you take responsibiltys that adults do then you have to be willing to take adult answers. wait till your next period is due to take the test as that is when its best accurate its better if you go to the gp or a family clinic as they are more positive on results. good luck aphex
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (2 June 2009):
GO AND SEE YOUR DOCTOR!
It's free!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni have four quid now
i have loads of discharge with no smell to it and when i am near some food i feel like some one is pulling on my somake are these pregnancy symtoms
and to be honest i did not come on ear to get judged so will people stop leaving hertful comments thanks xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2009): I've heard/read it's around 10 days after having sex that will be the best time to take a test. I'm not certain though so get to the doctors or phone them up and ask. If you can't go to the doctors you may be able to get tested in a local Connexions centre... Or ask a friend to lend some money for a pregnancy test? You don't have to say what for. Yes you shouldn't be sleeping around at your age so think next time you want to have sex with someone, wait til you're going out with someone for a while who you trust and care about!
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reader, JMfan +, writes (31 May 2009):
You're way to young to even think of having sex.
And sleeping around? I swear, more and more younger teenagers think having sex is cool.
Really, it's not. You can get STDs, pregnant, and much other high risks. You need to think before you act.
But to answer your question, go to your local clinic.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2009): wow your 13 and having sex and getting wasted thats not a good start if i were you i tell your parents everything yea they'll get mad but they'll get over or talk to another family member older than you that can help or a family friend
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (31 May 2009):
Ask your DOCTOR!!!
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reader, greg290352 +, writes (31 May 2009):
 Hi These things can happen when your drunk! I'm sure you can find enough cash for a pregnancy test even if you have to borrow the money. Alternatively go to a Family Planning Clinic - advice is confidential. See what the result is. Even if you are pregnant you will not be the first or last girl your age in that situation. Do you have a close female relative you can confide in near your own age? As you are having sex go to a Family Planning Clinic and get on the Pill. Good luck :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhow soon can test be taken and most accreate
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2009): 13 years old and your sleeping around?! By jargon you should still be playing with dolls! What were you thinkingg?!?!?!
Go to your local family planning clinic or GP for a test.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have been feeling sickly some days and others stomake cramps but i have pain in my lower back to the middle and stomake cramps please help peole x
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (31 May 2009):
You are a very silly girl indeed! If you don't understand about condoms and contraception you really should not be sleeping around!
As for not being able to afford a test go to your doctor and he will do a test for free and also give you your opitions if you are pregnant.
Also please check out these links and websites for some advise:
http://www.brook.org.uk/content/Default.asp
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/sti-std-what-are-they-and-how-do.html
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2009): Go to your local GP or Family Plannig Clinic. The test will be free and confidential (nhs). Seriously no need to be embarresed. While there, talk to them about other forms of contraception. While you are way too young to be having sex (and really should just stop and wait until your older), if you are gonna go ahead and do what your doing, you should take matters into your own hand.The pill (if taken properly) will protect you agaist pregnancy, and ALWAYS use a condom or DONT have sex. Love, you don't know where those boys have been!! and Condoms are the only thing that will stop you catching something (other than a baby!!) off them!!stay safe.
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