I was raped by my ex boyfriend
Q. bout a month to 2 months ago i was at my babys dads house who i am not with we have been split for a while now well we were having sex and he asked me if he could put it in my ass i said no he said comeon y not i said no sorry i cant do that so we ...
A. 22 February 2010: Keep away from him he doesn't understand the word NO. Secondly it was assault because he said NO. Walk away my dear and make sure he pays support for his children if necessary get legal help . Good luck!... (read in full...)
Why does he keep coming back to me after all these years?
Q. I have had an on again off again relationship with another man for 8 years. I am married to a good guy. And he is also married. I think it started with both of us feeling neglected-but I am not making any excuses. Yes, it was wrong and we both have ...
A. 10 January 2010: Probably because you dont say NO... (read in full...)
B/f asked me to get rid of phone numbers but then sends a text from the old number? Is he cheating?
Q. I wonder if you guys can help me handle a problem I have got. During the course of our 2 year relationship, my boyfriend has had 3 mobile phones which is not a problem as we keep our old phones (I have had 2) in case our new ones go wrong which ...
A. 29 September 2009: Simple, first of all seems to me that he is already lying. Secondly go find the phones and sim. Be patient just keep looking watch him and you will find them sooner or later. That will show you hopefully what is going on. Whatever you do dont ... (read in full...)
Should I end it or is this normal communication?
Q. I posted recently, and got one helpful response. However, I was really hoping for more than just one response. I have been hanging out with my ex for over a month now after a 5 year hiatus. Before this, she was in a 2 year relationship wit...
A. 29 September 2009: If she talks to him daily than I would wonder about it. She now has a loving relationship.. you so what else does she need? Ask her what she wants from you and what is she looking for. More to the point do you really want to stay with someone ... (read in full...)
Should I presue this or does he just not like me?
Q. I posted once before about an attraction I have developed to my college T.A. To recap, I am 23 and he is 28. I am a senior and he is a Ph.D candidate. He is very shy, a little awkward, but has a very intelligent and interesting mind. Because o...
A. 28 September 2009: Once a female voices her interest in a male he knows where he stands and if he so desires he would respond. He hasnot leave him be. Short and Sweet.... (read in full...)
Fiance wants to go away with another man to meet his parents
Q. I am in a unique relationship as I am living with my fiance and our baby girl (6 weeks) and my fiance's bestfriend. A gay male. Now when I met my fiance she was living with this man, her gay friend. They met in the gay bar scene and are really c...
A. 28 September 2009: Something isnot right, I feel you are being used for financial reasons and emotional reasons. I would get it confirmed that the child is indeed yours and than make arrangements to support it if it is. As for you fiance... sorry but time for either ... (read in full...)
I'm young, in great shape and fiance still won't stop looking at porn!
Q. I am having a lot of problems with my fiance CONSTANTLY looking at porn. I can't understand why anymore because I am still young, I am in great shape and I always say yes when he wants to try new things. I mean, not just new posistions but any ...
A. 28 September 2009: Yep he wont give it up and if he does, the lies will start and once the lies start he will lie about anything else too.
Losing battle. Some guys are simply a no go area.... (read in full...)
Which guy will bring me the most happiness? Who should I trust the most?
Q. last night my bloke asked me to sleep with him, i said no, by sayin no resulted in him pushin me right by the stairs. i nearly fell down them. do u think he would ever hit me? also i have been reading his comments and it appears that he is meeting ...
A. 25 September 2009: Neither, or certainly not the first one, as for the ex.. perhaps being single is better but you could remain just friends for a bit. He can see than that you are not into other guys etc.. , he needs time to, so why not take your time occasionally ... (read in full...)
Can anyone help me make sense of this behaviour?
Q. Hi, I'm hoping for some advice/support. I'm very upset about comments that my partner makes. I've been with him for 4.5 years and gave him loads of support when his ex wife was divorcing him. I live in a council house, have two mixed race c...
A. 24 June 2009: Ask him not to come back anymore, find yourself an affordable hobbie to take your mind of things, swimming walking cycling.. something cheap. You are doing a grand job all on your own why do you want a man like that around you? I think its a ... (read in full...)
Female orgasm: A spot
Q. "A" Spot Orgasm Step 1: Lubricate Put grapeseed oil on her vagina and your dominant hand. Some people that edible oils cause yeast infections, but little do they know that grapeseed oil is used in cures for yeast infections. Step 2: F...
A. 23 June 2009: Rubbish sounds more like the person that wrote it is on his own sexual trip. Sex is over rated, love making is between two people and it will all come natural we do not need sex lessons... sorry! ... (read in full...)
He's with me yet he has a dating profile and a lot more besides going on!
Q. I dated this guy for about a year and a half and then we broke up. However, we still talked every day, saw each other and did basically everything people in a relationship do. I never thought for a second that he was looking for other people. I ...
A. 19 March 2009: Just let him go, honestly find happiness with some one else it would be much better for you. There are honest men out there, so dont give up on them.... (read in full...)
He lies all the time and I caught him texting women, at one point. Are these the signs of a cheater?
Q. My boyfriend used to work away a lot and he used to lie to me all of the time about going out, he'd phone me at three in the morning absolutely hammered and say he'd been in bed since early the night before. He's also always lied about small things ...
A. 19 March 2009: I am in a similar situation, just leave him, after 8 years my partner still cheats, lies, txts, etc. I am leaving and yes it will rip my heart out. Find friends.. to help recover as you will feel isolated and lonely. Good Luck.... (read in full...)
What does a guy mean when he says he is "chicken" in getting together with me?
Q. dear cupid, We are both married and I asked him if he wants to get together? He said, we would have to be discreet. I was like good he likes me.. but when the time came, he told me he is "chicken" and didn't want to get caught! What does he mea...
A. 15 October 2008: Why would you want to do this if you are both married? Ready to divorce are you? Is sex that important to you? Are you unhappily married? Divorce is expensive, painful and tears your home apart. All for a bit of fun??... (read in full...)
My husband left me, had me arrested and now I have a restraining order on me and he has a new love!
Q. my husband left me 2 weeks ago.he has his own place that he never gave up the entire 2 years of our realtionship.anyway,i went over and went in without permission and although i didn't find proof of infidelity,i found out he had a pay increase by 4k ...
A. 15 October 2008: Walk away, start afresh. Relax and try to find nice things to do. When you feel happy, everything will sort itself out. If a husband can do this to his wife, he isnot worth having. No matter what you have done, boundaries of love and respect should ... (read in full...)
I want to "go down" on my girl. Please advise me. Do we kiss afterwards?!!
Q. hey. help from all. i want to go down on my girl. how do i go about doing that. tell me what to do from the start to the end please. do we kiss afterwards? how do i get her to go down on me? actually dont want her too although it would be nive or so ...
A. 23 July 2008: Well have a shower and be very very clean for a start, some men ensure it is nice for the girl i.e. not too much hair there and ditto for the girl. If she likes it hygiene, reduction of hair there. I hope you are old enough for a start to have sex. ... (read in full...)
He called me "a mate" in a text to a friend. I'm not "a mate". I'm his girlfriend! Help.
Q. I hope someone can give me advice about this becuase I didn't sleep a wink last night for thinking about it. I was out with my boyfriend last night and we had a really good time, but something spoilt it - he sent me a text message which was for so...
A. 23 July 2008: I would feel worried to, ask him about it. Dont confront him just ask what you mean to him. Dont put words in his mouth and dont put him with his back in a corner. Let him answer it do it gently OK? Good luck I would feel worried too.... (read in full...)
We're having a baby and there's no problem... except telling my dad will be a problem
Q. Me and my GF are having a baby, I've got all money saved up so everything is fine to that perspective, I've look after my mates baby for a week and have a good idea of what's needed, I need to tell my dad but want to tell him nearer time as I'm not ...
A. 23 July 2008: Unless you are under age, why should there be a problem? He may question the order of events i.e. baby born out of wedlock is not the best of starts for any child nor the couple.... (read in full...)
It hurts when I pee. Could I have cystitis?
Q. It hurts when I Pee. It only happens in the mornings and I wake up and go to the loo but keeping needing to go and it hurts quite a bit when I do go. I dont pass alot of urine. I had sex quite a lot over the past week (6 times) but with a condom. Do ...
A. 23 July 2008: You could have an infection to the urethera the little pipe connecting the bladdeer or yes cystitus. Increase your drinking cut out the coffee Flush it through go to boots get something. If it doesnot resolve in 48 hours U need and urgent ... (read in full...)
Should we cancel our plans to meet up because its his mums birthday party?
Q. im really excited about the fact ive been with my ld bf for a year. next week and we have booked time off work to see each other, only problem is his mums bday party the same time, and my bf is expected to go even though its not a big bday. and he ...
A. 27 January 2008: You only have one mam. You should have planned it better after all he did know her birthday date, come one how would you feel when your children would do that to you????????????? Anyway if you have problems now with his mother imagine when your ... (read in full...)
What can I do about erection problems?
Q. I have erectal and low libido problems, more than two years ago, and my wife is very upset about it, as she thinks, its because I don't love her anymore. I don't know what is wrong with me,I went t the doctors and they say there is no indication ...
A. 26 January 2008: Sex isnot everything! First of all, are you happy together? In Britain we dont use therapists that much we tend to plod a long and wait for the problem to go away. Doctors are our last resort. So assess if you are happy first, go out and share ... (read in full...)
I like him a lot! should I come clean?
Q. Okay so here's the thing. I'm 20 and I'm in love with someone who is 26 and lives with someone already. I see him at my workplace so I can't really do anything about being in love with him, because I've never felt this strong attraction towards ...
A. 23 January 2008: You wont be able to avoid him, his friends, family etc, Dont feel bad just think every time you accidently meet, THINK : you dont need this.
What you need is an ordinary love simple pure and committing, we all do.. Just think YOU DONT NEE... (read in full...)
I like him a lot! should I come clean?
Q. Okay so here's the thing. I'm 20 and I'm in love with someone who is 26 and lives with someone already. I see him at my workplace so I can't really do anything about being in love with him, because I've never felt this strong attraction towards ...
A. 22 January 2008: To be honest? Don't let him make the first move and if he does, make sure he is single again. Being in love or infatuated is nice, but once you start a messy relationship it can destroy all the good things with lies, cheating, jealousy etc.. Keep ... (read in full...)
Shall all the dear cupid advisors meet?
Q. I know you have aunts from all over the world, but I wondered whether it may be a nice idea for us to meet at a convention of some sort...somehow? Perhaps several....
A. 21 June 2007: That could be a very expensive but perhaps an enjoyable event? LOL.... (read in full...)
I really like this girl. How do I find out more about her without being too obvious?
Q. I really like this girl. I just need some advice on how i can talk to her more, find out what she's interested in? How do i do that without being too obvious. We are goin out on a date, but i want to know her bit more and make her feel really easy ...
A. 21 June 2007: It all depends on where you live, work etc.. but.. a big smile and introducing yourself...? Perhaps ask her for a cup of coffee in a very public place and simply say you really think she is gorgeous and would she like to join you for a cup of ... (read in full...)
Living with the bf will mean a very long commute for me to work! Will this interfere in our relationship in the furture?
Q. My boyfriend and I are in a long distant relationship (2hrs drive) but still make every effort to see each other every weekend. Since now our relationship has become more serious, not seeing him for a week drives us crazy. We are looking into moving ...
A. 29 May 2007: Use the time apart for maybe talking on the phone, the little things you forget, little lovenotes etc. Time apart can be good too. Listen to music perhaps share CD's swap them in each others car, if you miss him, use his aftershave etc as air ... (read in full...)
He lies to me about everything ..why?
Q. My boyfriend cheated on me in past but now we are back together. Whats bothering me is that he continues to tell white lies ALL the time - like if i say are you still at work he'll say yes but then at end conversation he'll say no he's at home. O...
A. 29 May 2007: Perhaps he is insecure and likes to keep you on your toes, either way its an unhealty longterm outlook. Its also his way of controlling aspects of life, so ease down and follow your own common sense. Liars and Cheats always get caught stay true to ... (read in full...)
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