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I'm irish

functional alcoholic

heavy smoker

love poker

extremely facinated with psychology

even more facinated with music, could talk about it all day long! especially trance music

unemployed

all that doesn't qualify me to give advice, does it??

i have plenty of ambitions, too many maybe, trouble is picking one!

i'm currently single, reluctantly too, i hate it :(

sorry if u find me to harsh aswell, i'm probably in a mood when i seem harsh :)

think positive people!!!!!!!!!

He never says he misses me or that he loves me. Why?

Q.   Cupid, I really need your help! I feel so silly writing on here, but I figure it's the easiest way. If I ask my friends what they think, I know how they'll respond and it's safer to get an unbiast opinion... Anyways..I've been going out with t...

A.   29 September 2009: It's really hard to understand what is up with this guy... How far away does he live? He doesn't appear to be giving enough to your relationship, I think the best option is breaking up with him, it miht be hard to do, but you are hurting yourself... (read in full...)

Not sure if my girlfriend was a virgin or not?

Q.   I know that some girls bleed and some don't when they have sex for the first time. However before i could have sex with my girlfriend for the first time it took a while mainly because even if she was aroused i could never penetrate her, it even hurt ...

A.   28 August 2009: it could be just because of the way she is, have you thought that you are well endowed... that could be a problem.. getting drunk could help but its not a good option really... maybe you should spend more time on foreplay... i hope that should hel... (read in full...)

Is she really that over me? I'm so hurt.

Q.   Im in this bad situation and i feel like crap. I have been with this woman for 3 years and now it ended. I cant seem to get over her. She decided to cut me off and out of her life. She says she is doing much better and feels "wonderful" and "great", ...

A.   28 August 2009: she may not be over you, i seem to think that women appear to move on quicker, when really they don't... they quickly do all the things a single person would do, with no love in their life... the best thing is to ignore her, you should have stopped ... (read in full...)

I don't know if I'm gay or bi or what?

Q.   i know i have feelings for girls but the thing is dunno if im bi or gay. i think guys are nice looking but not attractive really. i've never been totally comfortable wit kissing guys either. so.. am i totally gay? i dont wanna b a freak...

A.   28 August 2009: to be honest the way your talking you sound straight to me,there's no harm in thinking fellas are nice looking.. what situations have you kissed a guy?... (read in full...)

Is this consider masturbation?

Q.   Heyy im really confused about something i need someone who actually knows the answer .... I dont wanna ask anyone i know cuz its embaressing.... So here it goes What i like to do is watch a good sex scene on youtube and when i do this i cross my...

A.   18 August 2009: yeah it is, your doing something physically to yourself to gain sexual pleasure... ah sure what harm.... ... (read in full...)

He makes me feel like an aweful person!

Q.   For a long time my partner has told me i talk down to him, he has never specified how, or what i say, or how i say it, he just insists i make him feel unhappy. There are plenty of things going on in his life which make him unhappy, a bad ...

A.   18 August 2009: There's so many reasons for a relationship to be this way.... You say you let him get on with his life, sometimes not necessarily a good thing, doing this can sometimes appear that you don't care. I think men need someone in there ear giving o... (read in full...)

Why do my legs always have these goosebumps on them?

Q.   Hi, I'm 15 and my legs have got like goosebumps on them the whole time... they're red and purple and my legs always feel really rough even straight after I shave.. What is this and how can I get rid of it? thanks em x...

A.   1 April 2009: you could have keratosis... go to your doctor! :) good luck!... (read in full...)

I'm inexperienced and so confused about this guy, what does he want?

Q.   Ok, the situation with me and this guy: Met him at my friend's birthday party last Friday, were both quite drunk and ended up making out. In the morning (cos we stayed over) he admitted he'd quite enjoyed it and we went out for a walk together an...

A.   30 March 2009: Sure just ask about when he's coming back, what will he be doing?, does he want to meet up with you again?, maybe you could give him a complement now and again, see what the reaction is.. Basically try flirting with him through text, its unlikely... (read in full...)

Once I have her, I don't want her as much as I used to when I was after her!

Q.   What is wrong with me? I'm 14 and one minute I'm head over heals for a girl... and do everything in my possibility to be with her and go out with her... I fell in love for her but once I have her... I don't want her as much as I used to when I was ...

A.   30 March 2009: There's nothing wrong with you... You just enjoy the chase, as do a lot of fellas! Chasing is always fun, but You just haven't found the girl yet you want to hold on to. You have plenty of chasing to do yet! good luck! :)... (read in full...)

I'm inexperienced and so confused about this guy, what does he want?

Q.   Ok, the situation with me and this guy: Met him at my friend's birthday party last Friday, were both quite drunk and ended up making out. In the morning (cos we stayed over) he admitted he'd quite enjoyed it and we went out for a walk together an...

A.   30 March 2009: First of all, yes it is too soon to be demanding, I think you should hang on til he comes back instead of going to Manchester.... They say "let him do the chasing", doesn't seem like he is chasing, does it... Seeing as drink was involved the... (read in full...)

Just answer the damned questions!!!!

Q.   Hey!! Well I've just have some pretty simple questions that I want to ask. 1. Why do all the good things in life die? Why are they taken away from us when we need them so badly?! 2. Why can't true love be real?! Or is it really and I'm j...

A.   30 March 2009: you could write complete books about them questions without getting a true answer....true love is there, there's plenty examples around!!! :)... (read in full...)

Can a man tell about these things?

Q.   hi i would like to know whether a man can tell that a woman has baggy skin on her vagina when having sex? (without seeing it) Let Me know xx...

A.   30 March 2009: No, unless a man feels it with his hand... its not really a concern for most men anyway.... :) xx... (read in full...)

Should I get his name tatooed on me or is it bad luck?

Q.   I'm a 22 year old female who is in a very serious and committed relationship with a 32 year old male. I really love him and he loves me we are unable to be with one another physically because he is behind bars. I cant see myself with anyone e...

A.   30 March 2009: i don't think you should get his name tattooed on your back, i'd believe it is bad luck and in my opinion quite stupid, but thats just my opinion.. you think now that you will be together forever but you can never be sure about that.. even if... (read in full...)

He's never done oral on me..he doesn't want to?

Q.   i give my boyfriend oral and he always comes but he hasn't done it for me - we haven't had many chances to do it since i started giving him oral so maybe that's why. but assuming he never does it back, would this be unfair? because i've never ...

A.   30 March 2009: there's a possibility that he has never given oral sex before he might be afraid to try and look like an idiot that doesn't know what he's doing. on the other hand he might not like doing it, but still i think he should try at least.. y... (read in full...)

He just stares at me..do I talk to him? or wait?

Q.   okay, so at my church there is this boy who always looks at me, we always smile at each other, but never say anything. well the second week it happened, he had so many oportunities to come talk to me.. but instead he just starred.. and i ...

A.   30 March 2009: if you didnt say he smiles at you i'd say dont talk to him. by the sounds of it though i think you should talk to him, of course if you want to. he's probably shy.... (read in full...)

I hate being single!

Q.   I hate being single, I'm starting to think something's wrong with me. It seems like no matter what I do, nobody is interested in me. I actually hurt myself quite badly on the way home tonight, I punched a brick wall and my shin really hurts. My ex ...

A.   30 March 2009: I know what your feeling... All i can say is that there isn't much you can do. All you can do is don't go looking for a girlfriend, from my own experience, you ain't getting a girl that way.. You probably appear desperate to any girl yo... (read in full...)

Friends interferring with relationships

Q.   Well, i like this girl with OCD, (whatever that means hehe) I have great feelings for her, yet my ex friend decided to put the poison down saying I cheated on her, which put some weird feelings into her, she isn't exactly avoiding me, but whenever ...

A.   30 March 2009: obviously is interfering too much, him saying that to her is a jealousy thing with you, depending on how close you are with your friend, he might fear he will loose your friendship to her...in a way your right to ditch him, but then again he's doing ... (read in full...)

Is it okay to meet him and show the real me?

Q.   I'am female just call me simplegal. I'm already 18,but I never had experience relationship with a guy since birth... Now I'm here, because I want you to give me some advices and your help this serious problem with my feelings to this men. this was ...

A.   25 March 2009: Go and see him! He obviously likes you very much to wait this long already... dont worry about how u look, he already has said hes not worried! good luck! :)... (read in full...)

I need your suggestions! How can I get her back?

Q.   I had a girlfriend and she was my first true love. It felt like it at least. She told me a month into our relationship she had feelings for her ex still who was my best friend before I started to date her. I was there for their whole ...

A.   24 March 2009: seeing as shes getting annoyed, just cool down a bit with her... i like that u said it felt like it, love wil always get better even if its not with her. u sound like u r smart, but letters and pics arent gonna do it, it seems desperate to her.. ... (read in full...)

Do I still try to make this friendship work?

Q.   This is pretty much a best friend issue. Me and my best friend used to be so close. We used to hang out and talk ALL the time. This year we began to become less close and it really sucks. We barely talk and we never hang out anymore! He doesn't ...

A.   24 March 2009: he still wants u to be there for him... have u looked at urself in this sitaution though? r u sure u havent become distant? if he still says he is ur best friend he really thinks he is in my opinion.. it seems like u were very close with him and ... (read in full...)

Are all women not created equal?

Q.   Just wondering if anyone knows is it possible for all women to squirt when they have an orgasm? I have been trying and not having any luck is there a trick to it or are all women not created equal (lol)?...

A.   24 March 2009: despite my age i know women are far from equal... u must 1 in a million to think that.. they are all different, in a good way, it would b so easy if they the same!... (read in full...)

What should we do to make it good between both of us and make our parents happy too?

Q.   Okay, so me and my gilfriend have had are ups and downs and as of now, what should I do? I want her to marry me and she wants to marry me. But, there are many things wrong, for one her parents don't like me and mine don't like her but we are both ...

A.   24 March 2009: it surely must b the age thing... u mite love each other very much, but u should wait with regards marriage, both of u r young and the two of u can change very easily, with regards to your feelings... i'm not doubting ye wanna marry each other but ... (read in full...)

What should I do about my halitosis?

Q.   I developed halitosis ( bad breath ) a year before. What do you think should I do?...

A.   24 March 2009: eat chewing gum if u can.............!?!?!?... (read in full...)

I always think that if I hold on a little bit more she would love me again, but nothing's happening..

Q.   My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. At first were were having fun and I can see that she loves me as much as I love her but now things got a little bad for me. She told me about this guy that she was talking with on the inte...

A.   24 March 2009: i feel bad reading that... but u have to chill with her, leave her do wat she wants.... i know its hard not to be enthusiastic but u have to stop and make her realise what she is doing... it seems like shes taking u for advantage, like u will always ... (read in full...)

I'm so confused... Does he like me or what???

Q.   Hi, I'm a 14 year old girl and I have a student-teacher(you know a person in college training to become a teacher), he acts like he like me. He is 22. Here are the things that he does: 1. When he was supposed to be watching the whole class to s...

A.   24 March 2009: fair enough he might fancy u in a way, but even at 14 years you should know he's too old for u... the reason i say he might fancy u is, u may look older than ur age... go look for some1 ur own age or only a small bit older... if it goes any further ... (read in full...)

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