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writes: My boyfriend used to work away a lot and he used to lie to me all of the time about going out, he'd phone me at three in the morning absolutely hammered and say he'd been in bed since early the night before. He's also always lied about small things even when I've caught him out. I've known him for years and he's always slept around before and is still a big flirt. At one point when he was working away he was texting 2 women even at the weekend and then once I found out he started turning his phone off when he came home. Are these signs of a cheating man???The thing that worries me most is that we're living together and he still lies about more or less everything now and has a go at me for not trusting him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2010): I have been with a liar and cheater for 17 mos. off and on. I left him and did not answer all the texts he sent and his calls. Friends said he missed me so I went back with him in May only to find out he had two others he was seeing. He wants to do whatever he wants but wants me to remain ready for him. He drinks beer, wine and mixed drinks every day all day. He is retired. He has two homes so he can comes and go at his leisure. I told him last night no more.
found a text on his phone from a woman he was seeing in February. I thought it was over! It is never over. There will always be another woman to wreck havoc in my life. I have to be strong and go forward and so should you.
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reader, Paula4u  +, writes (19 March 2009):
 I am in a similar situation, just leave him, after 8 years my partner still cheats, lies, txts, etc. I am leaving and yes it will rip my heart out. Find friends.. to help recover as you will feel isolated and lonely. Good Luck.
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reader, beautifulxxbrunette08 +, writes (14 December 2006):
 NoNoNo!!! GeT OuT! LeAvE HiiM...i am not just saying this or trying to hurt you, but if a man has lied to you plenty of times before and you KnOw he still does it, then no! you need to get far away from him. there is no reason why he should lie to you. lying to another is not a part of a relationship that i think any woman would want to be in...you do not deserve this at all! he is the one who will pay in the end. darling, my boyfriend talked to another girl once before while we were dating. she was like in love with him and he knew it, and then i caught him talking to a girl he had sexual relations with before we got together, and they were hanging out behind my back and he was lying to me about it, so there WERE signs of cheating, but i just lucked out with him. he did is once and hasn't done it ever since, and this happened close to 8 months ago. but my previous boyfriends, i have had to learn the hard way and trust me it is not worth it. it will kill you inside if you leave, but it will brutally murder you inside if you stay. trust me, you'll feel like a new woman. don't let a man ever walk all over you. you have to let him know that that is NOT a power he has.
good luck to you darling.
xxxx
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