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How can I get my husband comfortable with the idea of me having sex with other men?

Q.   My husband and I have been married for ten years. I think that i have a healthy and realistic view of sex. I have told him that if he ever gets bored with our sex life that he is welcome to sleep with other women. He of course told me that he ...

A.   30 March 2010: So you really want to be a swinger? Ok well you are going to have to get him used to the lifestyle, firstly he slept with your friend so he cant be completely against it. So invite a girl and guy friend around and try swapping partners. You co... (read in full...)

5 things I DO NOT miss about my ex...

Q.   Hey everyone, So it's been just over 2 months since I broke up with my boyfriend and I am finally starting to come to terms with the reasons why we broke up in the first place. I thought that it might be a good idea to start a thread on 5 things t...

A.   30 March 2010: Rather than going on about you past relationship, why not just accept that it wasnt ment to be and go find someone better?... (read in full...)

Should I continue pressuring a friend to have a relationship me even though he doesn't want to?

Q.   my friend and i have known each other for almost 8 years. him and me have been having sex or years. i've always pressure him to be in a relationship with me. we haven't spoken in two months because he got tired of me telling him to be with him. he ...

A.   30 March 2010: Ok you refuse to learn your lession. True love is mutual, that means you love him and he loves you... you dont have that. Thus you have nothing. You have waisted several years of your life, so enough pls. Find someone you like and who... (read in full...)

I'm a thinker and he's a doer. How can we find common ground?

Q.   so my boyfriend and i are fighting my point of view- i prefer to just talk and hangout with people when we are at peoples houses to hangout instead of always running around and playing games, i feel as if though that when i want him to sit b...

A.   30 March 2010: Opposites attract is the biggest load of s$%^ that was ever said. You both drive each other nuts dont ya? He's right in living the way he wants and so are you. But your two paths just wont merge together. So keep putting up with eachother i... (read in full...)

He doesn't have morning or nocturnal erections. Is this health issue?

Q.   My friend is having problems! He used to take a long time to come; he said it was because he smoked pot. Now he has quit pot and he doesn't even have nocturnal or morning erections. Can anyone explain what is going on? He is afraid of doctors....

A.   30 March 2010: Well if he wont see a doctor.. you could look at his diet. Thats usually the reason, get him eating vegetables and grains and less sugar and fat. ... (read in full...)

My mum has threatened to kick me out of the house if I don't do what she wants!

Q.   im 16, pretty independent, mature an very respectful. but lately ive been stressed out an realy upset cause of my mum. she is extremely controlling, in fact she grounded me until i am mature! my mum knows my dream is to be a great chef, and she ...

A.   30 March 2010: It would be best to finish school, you never know, Cooking might not be for you. Having options is always the best way as life tends to take rather odd turns. Besides you can always come back to it later.... (read in full...)

I've never even kissed a girl before. Is this normal?

Q.   Help, I have recently became depressed because I have never been kissed before let alone have had a girlfriend. Is this normal? All the other males have girlfriends and it makes me sick and depressed when I can't find one of my own, hell some are ...

A.   30 March 2010: I havoe to tell you something, I was 19 when I met my first girlfriend. Yup 19! No high school sweetheart and you know what, Im happy. I fugure in my case it was down to 2 reasons: firstly I wasnt ready for all that at the time and secondly... (read in full...)

I found my dream girl, but I can't tell her my feelings. Help!

Q.   Dear Friends, it's the first time i really feel i need help !, till now i was in control of my life. i thought i would not fall in love simply because this special girl in my dreams doesn't exist and i decided to lead a single life . however ...

A.   27 March 2010: You dont know is right. What is stopping you?? really? Take life as it comes or miss out and wonder what if. Its your call... (read in full...)

Is it safe to have another abortion when my last was only in December 09?

Q.   I recently went through an abortion in December of last year. The baby was my current boyfriend's. Well, I'm extremely worried that I could be pregnant again. I'm not 100% certian. I'll take a test in about a week. But I'm having similar symptoms as ...

A.   25 March 2010: Abortions will damage your womb. You have already damaged it and may not even be able to carry a child now. Every abortion you have will just damage you further so pls no more unprotected sex ok... (read in full...)

I had sex with my sisters teacher. Would this be a relationship that could be pursued?

Q.   Just recently I had some relationship trouble in my life. I have a sister who is quite younger than me who is going to the school I went to. She is in fifth grade and has the same teacher I had. She told him about what had gone on. At her school ...

A.   25 March 2010: This is quite a mess you have gotten into. Well I doubt a relationship will be a good idea. Your sis wont appreciate it at all. I am a bit concerned that you went there to talk and ended up sleeping together. Didnt you just want advice? or ... (read in full...)

Why does my husband post perverted uotes on his blog for all to see?

Q.   Why does my husband post perverted quotes from movies in his blog? Is he wanting to gain attention from a female friend on his buddy list? Everyone can read it including the people he works with since they are on his friends list. Is this normal? ...

A.   25 March 2010: Blogs aree ordinary peoples 15 minutes of fame. He is having fun and just saying silly things. I strongly doubt he is trying it on with the girl you mentioned. Maybe you should start adding your comments to the blog or even have a section for you ... (read in full...)

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