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writes:Why does my husband post perverted quotes from movies in his blog? Is he wanting to gain attention from a female friend on his buddy list? Everyone can read it including the people he works with since they are on his friends list. Is this normal? Am I over reacting? Our family picture is his default picture.. Reply to this Question
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reader, Myau  +, writes (25 March 2010):
 Blogs aree ordinary peoples 15 minutes of fame. He is having fun and just saying silly things.
I strongly doubt he is trying it on with the girl you mentioned. Maybe you should start adding your comments to the blog or even have a section for you to rant away. I think you will have alot more fun writing silly things than you realise :)
But if you dont want to, Miamine is right, if you dont like it then dont read it.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (25 March 2010):
 You really don't like your husbands blog.. this is the second time you've posted. Talk to him about your concerns, and ask him to remove all pictures of you and the children.
Then leave him alone and stop reading the blog, as everything he dose on there seems to upset you. Blogs are a private place for people to let of steam and have fun. He probably dose all the things that he's not allowed to do in real life. Most people understand this.
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reader, PM  +, writes (25 March 2010):
 Personally, I think you should ask him. Communication is the cornerstone of a relationship and means that you should be able to ask him about things like this.
I think it's normal that you're curious about what his motives are and I think it's very normal to come up with theories trying to explain what his motivations are. What I think you should ask yourself, though, is why you think he's trying to get the attention of one of his female friends. It almost sounds as though you think he might be attracted to another and that you feel somewhat insecure about your relationship with him.
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reader, Spades +, writes (25 March 2010):
 Firstly, I would recommend that he take down the family photo for safety reasons.
Secondly, I suspect that this is not to gain the attention of a female "friend", but to gain the attention of his male friends. It could possibly be an ego thing. Bragging rights. I don't condone what he's doing, but I don't think there is need for concern. I think it's just immature.
What kind of "perverted" things? Just so I can get a rough idea.
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