Isn't it too early to have sex?
Q. Hello! I met this guy online. We hung out 3 times so far and we had such an amazing time. We text and chat it up all the time... The 3rd time we hung out, there was so much sexual tension between us so we ended up making out and touching each others ...
A. 16 May 2012: Sex happens when it happenes. No need to rush it. If you are ready it will be special. If you rush it will be functional at best.
Alot of people make the mistake of rushing thier relationships, just relax and enjoy spending time with him.
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My Indian family, my Pakistani ex gf who still lives at my place, my American girlfriend who's treated like an outsider and me...its a wreck!!
Q. I'm 21 years old, turning 22 this year. My girlfriend is 20, and turning 21 this year. We've been together for 3 years, and I want to ask her to marry me within the next week or so. Here's the problem. I'm Indian, and she's American. My p...
A. 16 May 2012: Move out and start your life dude, or you can keep waiting for someting that will never happen to occur.
tell your parents, get it over with. They will rant but will accept it in time.....or complain less
best of luck... (read in full...)
Why do I keep going back to my B/f even though he treats me like dirt?
Q. Dear Cupid my bf of 2 years is emotionally abusing me, always ignoring me, treats me like shit, never apologize and always finding one reason to another to stop spending time with me. Its been very long since we even talked for more than 5 mts....
A. 16 May 2012: Becaue you want to. You have a rediculous illusion of your relationship and are trying too hard to hold on to it.
Being single isnt as bad as you think. try it for awhile. Delete his number so you arnt tempted.... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend never compliment me?
Q. My significant other tells me that he loves me from time to time, but he almost never compliments me. It always seems like a chore for him to do. I told already that it bothers me when he doesn't tell me nice things every once in a while but about 2 ...
A. 16 May 2012: You probably expect compliments and become arrogant. Alot of guys have this problem with their gf's.
do you compliment him?... (read in full...)
My parents favor my sister over me and I'm really frustrated with their attitude
Q. Hi DearCupid, I'd like your opinion on this. I am 20 and my sister is 16. We both live at home with our parents. I work full time, she has a part time job. My parents have spent hundreds of dollars on her for clothes, sports events, parties,...
A. 16 May 2012: My parents made this mistake aswell. They shouldnt promise you money when they are just talking nonsense.
Try to think about your situation like this: you dont really need help (money) while your sister does.
Soon enough she will have to sta... (read in full...)
Am I normal? I don't look like other women!
Q. hi there, i dont men to be crude or nasty but i have some questions the average human growth and development book wont answer. i been around various women while we change in the locker and i see them naked. i notice that 99% have a vagina that hides ...
A. 27 April 2012: Guys don't really notice that sort of thing to be honest... (read in full...)
I'm helping my girlfriend with her assignments and she's promised me bedroom-related action as motivation in return, but she keeps putting it off
Q. Hello everyone, I'd like some advice. Me and my GF are having some relationship issues but we talked and are trying to fix it. My question is about something else though. We're both in the same class and I'm making her assignments for her, I k...
A. 25 April 2012: Break up with her before she breaks up with you.
Its over dude... (read in full...)
How do I get a girlfriend?
Q. Since my satirical article on how to get a boyfriend (With the real advice on the bottom) seemed to be well liked, I thought I'd write one for the opposite gender! Like the last one, please don't read the first half and then leave. The first...
A. 25 April 2012: That wont work, it will put you in "the friend zone'
Ive never heard one bit of decient advice from a woman on how to date women? why is that?
The way to get woman is simply to accept the fact that "women choose men" not the other way around... (read in full...)
Is my fiance having a relationship with her cousin who is in prison?
Q. I was cleaning my fiancé’s car and notice while in the trunk there were a number of letters in a large bag. The letters were from someone in prison to my fiancé. Curiosity made me read a letter and in the letter it stated that he was going to take ...
A. 25 April 2012: to be honest, Id be very worried.... (read in full...)
Threesome gone wrong
Q. Hello everyone, I would really love some advice with my problem. You all have done greatly and I can not help but keep coming back here for more... So in advance thank you. Last week my husband and I came about to having a threesome. We both h...
A. 25 April 2012: What a mess!
Well a few things, no more 3somes.
Secondly, has he cheated on you before?
And finally What do you both do together for fun? Not sex I mean... (read in full...)
I told my boyfriend about having a lesbian encounter.
Q. hi, i am in college and i have been dating my amazing boyfriend for almost 10 months. he is the best man in the world and i know he was put into my life for a reason. well i went to this girls house who is a lesbian and she started kissing me and ...
A. 19 March 2012: cheating is cheating.
Just let him get over it and then you both can move on.
Give him time... (read in full...)
Here's my advise: Don't send money to people you meet on the Internet!
Q. Hi everyone. It's been two years since I have written anything on Dear Cupid, so please bear with me since I have been on a two-year hiatus. Well... I'm still single since I'm not involved with anyone else, aside from the fact that I have ...
A. 19 March 2012: I was scammed by a girl a few years ago. It was the final nail that set of my depression. Im still suffering from it 3 years later.
Dude, as my father once put it "you cant buy love"
try meeting people from your area in which you can see face... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is a gangster! Should I marry him?
Q. Hiya, I'm 27 years old woman and I dated a 19 year old boy for 5 months last year. The very first time that we met, I doubted that we would ever got along as he's 8years younger than me, turned out, it was like love at the first sight for us both ...
A. 1 March 2012: Id advise against marridge.
The criminal path is a very short and sad one.... (read in full...)
I feel uncomfortable because I have a higher sex drive than my boyfriend!
Q. I have always had higher sex drive than my bf and that has always been bothering me. I would be afraid that he finds me overly sexually active and feels disgusted by me. I spoke to him about this and he said he is fine with it, he isnt disgusted by ...
A. 1 March 2012: Get him to read your post here, and talk to him about it.
It might just be a confidence thing with him.
But if not then you face the age old question usually reserved for males:
Am I willing to put up with this?
My answer has been no e... (read in full...)
Can a woman propose to her boyfriend?
Q. In this day and age, is it completely out of line for a woman to propose to a man?...
A. 1 March 2012: Guys do tend to get side tracked.
We think we should have the house and the car and a bit of money so we can provide for our new family.
Its very old school thinking but still holds true, Im sure he wont be offended.... (read in full...)
Any advice on how to text dirty?
Q. i guess i am having a small problem of texting my boyfriend. when we want to play and flirt on the phone he is really good at sexting and sending dirty texts, but im soo bland and i dont know how to keep the fun up? can anyone give me some adv...
A. 28 February 2012: Just type what you would do, if you were together... (read in full...)
Can a woman propose to her boyfriend?
Q. In this day and age, is it completely out of line for a woman to propose to a man?...
A. 28 February 2012: Well you can....but would you really want to?
Isn't your whole fantasy, him preposing?
Damn our one get out of commitment free card...gone!!!!!!... (read in full...)
I told my best friend that I like him and now he won't talk to me
Q. Hello, I told my best guy friend of 6 years that I liked him. He is shy as am I so I told him by txt. His reply was 'really? how long have you felt this way?' I told him about a year and now it has been nearly 3 weeks and he has not called,fb or...
A. 28 February 2012: He most likely doesn't feel the same. You know whats he's like afterall, so Id just let it go. Are you ok with "just friends" though?... (read in full...)
He can't go, so says I can't go? Am I being selfish wanting to take this big trip with my mother to see sister in Oz?
Q. There is quite a bit going on at the moment I don't know what to do, but my main objective is to go and see my sister in Oz (who I am quite close to). She moved to the other side of the world last year and so me, my mum and my boyfriend were all ...
A. 26 February 2012: Go on the trip. He will get over it.... (read in full...)
He doesn't answer if I use my phone, but did when I used a phone unknown to him. Is it over?
Q. I need advice. My boyfriend and I have been dating for just over two years. He is currently studying for the bar exam. He's had an attitude with me for the last week which I let go because he's under a lot of stress lately. Yesterday, I had my gran...
A. 26 February 2012: Hmmm not good.
But I wouldnt rush into anything if I were you. Lets see how this plays out.
But if it stays like this for atleast a week, dump him... (read in full...)
Which one? The one who likes me? Or the one I'm kind of into?
Q. There is this guy X who's in a class I'm in. And I’m kinda into to him. We talk in class sometimes but he’s extremely shy. We talk on Facebook at least once a week and he is the opposite of shy when we talk then. But I feel like I’m always the one ...
A. 26 February 2012: X is teh one you like..nuff said... (read in full...)
I make friends with girls more easily than boys!
Q. Hi i am a 16 yr old boy i was wondering why is it that im not shy of girls and i have mostly girls as friends and not much boys as friends but i seem to be very shy of boys i can easily make friends with girls but with boys is quite difficult i ...
A. 26 February 2012: It means you like doing stuff that girls do, rather then what boys like to do.
If you wanna make friends with "the boys" you need to take an interest in what they like. Sport is always a good bet.... (read in full...)
There is a sex tape of me out there and not just any sex tape a freaking party, public tape!!
Q. A few weeks ago I was at a party and drank alittle to much. There was this girl who was also a little drunk and shamelessly flirting with me and we ended up in one of the bedrooms and she was giving me head when some guy walked in. He laughed called ...
A. 24 February 2012: Apologise to her if it would make you feel better.
Don't worry, you will live it down... (read in full...)
What is the most romantic way to win over an ex who is dating someone else?
Q. 5 days ago I dumped my girlfriend that I have had for 6 months. I wanted to be single and I honestly think about my ex a lot. I love her still but she is with another man. It stinks, to say the least. So after the break up I see my ex's tumblr f...
A. 24 February 2012: You don't want her back. You dumped her for a reason.... (read in full...)
18 & never had a boyfriend or been kissed?
Q. Answering honestly and not sugarcoating anything, is it a little odd for a 18 year old girl to be so inexperienced? No bf, no kiss and of course no sex. Especially since most girls around 18 have had boyfriends, kisses and even sex, so they have ...
A. 22 February 2012: I was 19 when I met my first gf.
During High School, I though I was gay.
Just wasn't ready for the whole relationship biz I'm afraid.
Nothing wrong with being a late bloomer, don't worry bout it, you'll have plenty of guys before your done... (read in full...)
My girlfriend will ruin my life if I leave her. How do I get out of this?
Q. My girlfriend is completely obsessed with me. If I leave her she will ruin my life. I think the only way to make her fall out of love with me is to tell her that im convinced that im seriousely gay even though im not. What can I do that will make ...
A. 22 February 2012: Tell her straight and dont back down when she cries.
It will be unpleasant and ugly, but it will be over... (read in full...)
I don't want to die without trying anal sex, so is it cheating if I hire a prostitute as my wife refuses to do this?
Q. Just something that I've been thinking about: My wife and I have been together for years. Like any other couple, we have boundaries and red flags in sex. Anal sex is a red flag for her. But I can't get it off of my mind! I don't want to die wit...
A. 22 February 2012: Ok I tried anal and didn't like it, with a hooker as well lol as every gf said loudly NO! But I was single at the time.
The hooker looked shocked when I said "this isn't working turn around pls". Still makes me laugh.
Fantasies are always best ... (read in full...)
do I really need to pretend to be incompetent to make a guy stick around?
Q. I am a 26 year old single mother of two. I work a full time job, and am a full time mom. I live on my own with my kids, their dad lives over 1000 miles away. I pay all my own bills, etc... In other words, I'm completely independent. My kids dad and ...
A. 14 February 2012: Your not.
He just wasn't the right one... (read in full...)
My sister-in-law is a cougar and I think it's unwise
Q. My sister-in-law is a 43 year old single mom to an autistic son. He is now 15 years old. Now that he is getting older she is getting back into the dating scene. She has been divorced for more than 10 years now. Good for her, I think. The p...
A. 12 February 2012: 26 isnt that young. BUt the age gap is quite large. I know people who are more then 20 years apart who are very happy together and people who are teh same age who hate eachother.
We like who we like. Maybe she will realise that she needs somethin... (read in full...)
"how do I attract boys?"
Q. (Note: The good advice is at the bottom. Read through for a laugh) I see this so often nowadays. mostly it's girls who want their first kiss, or a boyfriend, or whatever, and they ask us what they need to do to get a boyfriend. So I'm...
A. 12 February 2012: My sister was complaining about not meeting the right guys, Im definately forwarding this to her.
Odds coments are good too.
Im one of those guys who will need a girl to hold up a sign saying "I like you ideot, ask me out already". She wi... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is much more casual about sex than I am. Can we make this work?
Q. My girlfriend and I are both in our 40's and we are not virgins. However, she is much more experienced (I was in a relationship for a very long time) and has a much more casual attitude about sex than I do. I am really wary about sleeping with a ...
A. 12 February 2012: Your very uptight.
The only way to solve this is by talking with her. Let her help you though it, and then enjoy :)... (read in full...)
My gf cancelled our date last minute. Could this mean she doesn't like me?
Q. This may be a stupid question but it's been on my mind all day. I've been dating this girl now for a little less than 2 months. Due to our busy schedules we have only gone on 4 dates so far but we communicate when we have time in between. Toda...
A. 12 February 2012: I wouldn't read too much into it, I had an oversheduled gf once aswell. It's just how it is with them.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend doesn't answer phone or want to hang out with me
Q. My boyfriend barely wants to hang out with me. It was totally fine the first week we were dating but now he barely responds to my texts and doesnt answer his phone when I call but if I call off of someone elses phone he answers. Im kinda scared that ...
A. 12 February 2012: Sorry the sign's arnt looking good, he doesnt want you in his life, but doesnt have the guts to say goodbye.
These type of relationship's are poison and will hurt you alot in the long run.
My honest advice is to dump him and let youself move... (read in full...)
I am against drinking but b/f has started to drink! How do I deal with this?
Q. I was wondering, how much action i should take or not take with my boyfriend and alcohol. hear me out. I was raised in a very religious home, i have never even SEEN alcohol outside of TV/ads/in the store. In highschool, I never was around t...
A. 12 February 2012: How about you ask him not to drink around you, but say its ok when he's out with friends. Obvously not coming back drunk to you.
That would solve the issue I think, and make it a guy night kinda thing for him.
... (read in full...)
How can teens delay teen sex?on how to avoid early sex
Q. Please provide advice for teens on how to avoid early sex There are many pressures on teens and everyone wants to feel like they are like every one else. And not be different from friends. And so many people think they are successful if they can be w...
A. 21 August 2011: Well you could try what a workmate of myne has unwittingly done.
She is too busy to have a BF, always going to family functions or hanging out with friends.
You know you can have a bf and just make out.....you dont have to go further....just ... (read in full...)
Is there anyone genuine on the internet?
Q. Has anybody met anyone genuine on the internet? I have met some really rude people and am beginning to wonder if it's me. Met one guy who sent me an email with bullet points saying why he didn't want to meet again. Another guy brought 3 con...
A. 21 August 2011: The age old question: How to only meet the good ones? Sadly I dont think the internet is going to help. Although I havent used a dating site, I do play a few online games (evony and wow, youd be amazed at how many LDRs are on evony), the peopl... (read in full...)
Boyfriend broke up with me and doesn't want to talk to me
Q. so upset me and my boyfriend has just split up he said i dont make him happy like i use to do and that he doesnt want to get together im devastated, he seems odd around me like he doesnt wanrt to talk i feel really bad that iv made him fel like that ...
A. 12 August 2011: If a relationship is over, then the best thing to do is let it go. Your now just making yourself unhappy for no real reason.
dont worry theres plenty more where he came from... (read in full...)
Does playing hard to get work and how can you do it?
Q. hi all can someone please answer this question does a woman playing hard to get with a man she really likes work and how should i go about it? thanks ...
A. 3 July 2011: It doesnt work on me, ill forget you and hit on your friend instead. just saying....... (read in full...)
Why do more white women than white men date outside of their race?
Q. This is just a simple question, not one with a lot details or anything. I was just wondering what people thought...um...why is it that there are more white women to date outside their race, then there are white men? I know this can be a ...
A. 30 June 2011: In Australia where I live what is most common these days is white guys marrying asian girls.
My last 3 gfs were 2 Indian and a fillpenio girl.... (read in full...)
I need to know how important is it to guys that your Gf/wife is a virgin? And why?
Q. I was just curious... Does it really matter to guys that the girl they want to marry or want to spent the rest of their lives with is a virgin or not??? I mean I don't see the reason why this has to be a big issue with couples.... For me all I ever ...
A. 25 June 2011: Personally. Ive never wanted to be with a virgin.
I just think it would be too awkward, as Im a very sexual person, I doubt they would be able to satisfy me.
As for a wife. I personally think it would be better to be with someone a bit "t... (read in full...)
Penis size insecurities......
Q. OK, so we've seen the barrage of penis size questions. Got me so curious I decided to actually measure mine. What I encountered was that it may be impossible to get an accurate measurement because there are probably 13 ways to measure it. I know ...
A. 30 April 2011: I noticed that the only (one) gf who criticised my size was cheating on me with three other guys. Women want to be with you, sex is a bonus. Stop worrying about it.... (read in full...)
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