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writes:I met a guy recently and we went out on a few dates, the first couple of dates were just a kiss at the end of the night, on the third date he stayed over we did everything but intercourse he told me he didnt want to rush into having sex..since then he has texted me all the time and told me how special the night was, we arranged to meet again, then when i sent him a text confirming the arrangement he didnt answer...I didnt hear for a few days so assumed he had lost interest, I sent him a stroppy message and assumed i wouldnt hear anything again. A few days later he sent me a text saying he was sorry he was insecure and bn a bit depressed. Over the next few days i kept getting messages about how much he'd missed me and he had really fallen for me etc. However although he's asked if I will see him again and i have agreed, weeks have passed and he still hasnt arranged a date...he seems to just want a text relathionship...Also although he didnt want to rush into sex some of his texts are quite sexually orientated...Im getting very mixed messages...any advice ?
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reader, muffy +, writes (23 November 2007):
 well instead of him setting a date then how about you ste one.if you dont just want a text relationship the let him know that.i had a text relationship because i could never see him and text relationships suck because it makes you wanna do all of the things you say you wanna do but you cant do them because your just texting.so set a date and then do what you wanna do.just be safe if you dont want kids.lol.
i hope i helped
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