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I've been thinking about trying guys?

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Question - (24 April 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 29 April 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, *haham writes:

Ok guys i have tons of questions so bear with me.

Ok so i've been thinking about trying guy cause girls just cause all sorts of problems. But i have LOTS of issues...

1. I want to expierament but idk anyone who would want to

2. I don't know any gays so i think i'd be lonely

3. I'm wondering if my guy friends would still want to hang around with me

4. I want to do this so bad but i don't know a way to let people know, any ideas?

5. And finally; i have this guy i like. He's super cool and pretty dang smexxy. the problem is he is straight and yeah i have no idea what to do

I need some answers PLEASE!

you wouls help so much :]

thank ya much

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A male reader, Sisyphus Australia +, writes (29 April 2008):

Sisyphus agony aunt"Ok so i've been thinking about trying guy cause girls just cause all sorts of problems"

Guys cause just as many problems. Just decide who you are attracted to, guys, girls or both.

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A male reader, gayuncleandy New Zealand +, writes (27 April 2008):

gayuncleandy agony auntSlow down. Don't worry about another person right now, it will happen when it happens, try not to chase love or anything else and enjoy being you where you are. Keep cool and see what happens, all good things in time. Be patient young man, there is lots of time for pleasure but only one time of youth.

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A male reader, Ahaham United States +, writes (25 April 2008):

Ahaham is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Clarifying this here

i don't want to do this for attention

i just think its like dating a girl

cept with a penis

and i do find guys pretty attractive :]

i just hate all the effing prejudice in the world so idk what to do

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A female reader, Susan Strict United Kingdom +, writes (24 April 2008):

Susan Strict agony auntDon't rush. I know - that's easy to say and difficult to do.

Your sexual balance is still changing at your age, and you don't want to "burn any bridges". It may not be right, but it's a fact of life that many of your male friends probably won't want to be your friends once they know you have had a gay relationship unless you are very lucky with your particular friends, so you need to be absolutely sure it's the way you want to go. It may be, for example, that your sexual urge is so strong that, having not yet had much success with girls, you are finding men attractive not because you are gay or bisexual but simply because of the power of the sex urge. It's important to try to recognise just where the urges inside you are really taking you.

Take a look at a lot of men, and then take a look at a lot of girls. Browse some pictures (no, not porn - that's not necessary). Ask yourself which, in general, are more physically attractive for you and that you could imagine sharing a bed with? Then ask yourself WHAT it is in those particular people that makes them attractive. That should help you get a clearer picture in your own mind of your particular sexuality.

And, after that, remember that you are still changing. It may look very different in a year or two.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2008):

You sound very unsure. Just go on the internet - join a gay dating site and that way you can meet a gay guy for sex and then see what you think.

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A female reader, muffy United States +, writes (24 April 2008):

muffy agony auntOkay,

1.go ahead and experiment,it wont hurt

2.you just have to look

3.if your friends dont except you for who you are,then they arent true friends

4.well if any1 asks,tell them.easy.

5.if hes straight,then i dont knoe.But dont get your hopes up.

hope i helped.

love always,

muffy

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