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writes:Why is my boyfriend doing this?? am i overreacting?my boyfriend speaks to his ex gf everyday..i read the convo and he said "hows my wife doing??"he talks about her all the time to me...every convo he has to bring up something about her.. i asked to see a picture of her and he showed me it.. he has saved the pic as (my babe and friends) wtf??i asked him if he still loves her..he said no he doesnt cos shes moved on and shes kinda engaged.he said they broke up cos he had to move away to study.. and called off their relationship after 4months he settledd.i just dont understand..he says they:ve been over 4years so i dont know why he feel the need to speak to her..he says he goes to her for advice about me..when we fight.but i think they are still in love and shes waiting for him to return..but he denies it and says is me he loves and not her.he even said they kissed when they met on holiday ( i wasnt with him then) and she nearly broke up with her bf cos she couldnt stop thinking about my bf and the kiss they shared.he keeps saying hes a virgin that shes very tight.wtf??what should i do?? i asked him and he got really angry and said he wont stop talking to her cos of my insecurities.what should I do?? please help??thanks..xx
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reader, largentsgirl89  +, writes (20 November 2010):
 Because of your insecurities? WTF?! Big red flag. If he loves you, then he wouldn't need to talk to her and I don't think it's right for him to ask his EX girlfriend advice on you and his fights. Thats letting her know that you two are having a tough time in your relationship.
Would he be ok if you were doing the same thing? "My babe and friends?" I don't think so.
I would tell him that what he is doing is highly inappropriate, if he wants to be her friend, then he needs to be her friend and not refer to her as his wife or his babe. He has a girlfriend and that's you. If he can't do that, then I would leave. Obviously if he can't let an ex ( of years) go, then he is lost and there is no helping him
Don't do that to yourself and find someone who will love you like you deserve.
I hope this helps. Keep me updated ok.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2010): They're in love, leave.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2010): there's nothing wrong with keeping in touch and staying friends, but this guy clearly has two girlfriends! he KISSED HER!!! you don't do that when you have a girlfriend. he is a loser! dump him and find a real man who won't sit on the cheating line with his foot on the other side!
Abby 15
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reader, muffy +, writes (19 November 2010):
 Well sweetie,he was with her for some time and he probably fell in love with her.It's hard to forget about someone you love hun.The point is that he's with you now and if he says he loves you then he does.Getting jealous over him talking to her is a bad idea.It will make him angry and he'll end up thinking that your immature and he won't wanna be with you.Take it from me sweetie,I did the same thing and it was all bad. Just let him talk to her. And as for him saying that she's tight and a virgin that's his bad.That's disgusting and if he tells you that again,tell him you don't wanna hear it.Stand up for yourself but don't let your jealousy or anger show.If you need anything,let me know sweetie.
Love and kisses,
Muffy33
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