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What else I can do to please him besides blowjobs?

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Question - (30 July 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 3 August 2008)
A female Ghana age 26-29, anonymous writes:

i have a boyfriend but i dont really know how to please him. all i ever do is give him blowjobs. he doesn't complain but i know he feels something about the situation. i want to know what else i can do to please him besides blowjobs.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2008):

I think that the real question should be what can he do to please you! Too many times women take on a "caregiver" attitude and end up forgetting about themselves. If he is not happy with what you are doing for him now he will let you know, if he dont let you know then its his loss. Once you take care of yourself everything else will fall into place.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (30 July 2008):

Well firstly why not just ask him what he wants from you?

As for suggestions on how to please him.... have you tried stimulating anywhere other than his crotch?

What I mean is, although going out with a faceless sex object who always has her head in your pants must be fun, perhaps he wants conversation once in a while. Do you ever talk about things with him? Do you challenge him and discuss things?

You could also do things like make him a nice meal or add some variety to your sex life by letting him ask for different things rather than just heading south all the time.

Good Luck!! xx

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A male reader, saltwater United Kingdom +, writes (30 July 2008):

saltwater agony aunt"he doesn't complain..."

I bet he doesn't.

Does he not try to please you in any way?

You don't need to be physical with him to please him, you should be doing things together to please the both of you; these don't have to be sex related; and at your age sexually related actions shouldn't be advised anyway.

Just giving your boyfriend blowjobs is extremely crass.

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A female reader, muffy United States +, writes (30 July 2008):

muffy agony auntHunny,this is simple.Just ask him!!!

Hope I've helped

P.S.-If you have any questions just message me

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