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How come my boyfriend wont stick up for me?

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Question - (21 November 2007) 10 Answers - (Newest, 19 June 2009)
A female United States age 22-25, *eangirl101 writes:

k well i cant get this outta my head and i really need your help. my boyfriend is always hanging out with his friend like 24/7 seriously and this one guy is always staying the night and i really dont even like him but when i try to call my boyfriend he answers and stuff he calls me a b*** and my boyfriend dont even say anything bouts it that really makes me mad...i confronted him about it and all he said was dont listen to them an i have been asking him to tell his friend to stop calling me names and hitting me all the time but he says no and gets really angry if i say please and stuff. he NEVER sticks up for me. So my question is How come my boyfriend wpnt stick up for me?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2009):

really if your boyfriend does not stand up for you and you tried to confront him about f@#4 him curse his friend out because you don't care about his friend and when you done cursing his friend curse your boyfriend a@3 out leave the situation up to you to handle it cuz it's obvious your boyfriend is a punk a#4 b^78@ and he don't care what his friends do to you as long as he gets to have sex with you. i figured it out i found my boyfriend wasnt a hard a$5 after all he let his friend call me a bitch while he was talking to me on the phone twice and he aint do shit punk but if it was his brother he probably would have handled it but you need to let him know you shouldnt let anothr male call your woman a b#46& at all regardless of what she done to you GROW UP BOYS PLEASE If he dont come around kick his ass to the curve cuz he aint worth the trouble if he dont realize that has hurt you by now and your boyfriend not sticking up for you is ridiculous and outrageous.

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A male reader, dickhead United States +, writes (23 April 2009):

Your boyfriend is afraid of an ass-wupping. That's why he doesn't stand up for you. And there isn't anything wrong with him being afraid. Have you got your ass wup by a bunch of guys? Don't think so!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2007):

I have gone through the same thing. I think you should talk to him and tell hiim how u really fill. If he doesn't stick up for you now he wont respect you and he will end up calling you the same stuff as his friend. You nead to tell him to grow up and protect you if he wants to be with you. You are the girl and you nead to fill safe when you r with your boyfriend and his friends. I hope I helped you@

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A female reader, Msblessed United States +, writes (21 November 2007):

Msblessed agony aunthe's a loser what kind of boyfriend doesn't stand up for his girlfriend he probably doesn't wanna tell off his friend because he's afraid of what his friend might say or think guys like that you don't need tell his friend off by yourself since he wont do it then and then dump his ass...wait no thats really mean tell your boyfriend you need someone that respects you and your wishes so he needs to talk to his friend or you'll take matters into your own hands

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (21 November 2007):

Collaroy agony auntHe is not a man , pure and simple.

If you cannot stick up for your girlfriend you are not a man in my book.

Dump this loser, tell him he can cuddle and kiss his boyfriend seeing as they are so close.

There is no hope for you with this guy , I know what "the boys" are like, I come from a small town where woman are treated like dirt , this behaviour is ingrained in the male mentality and you would do yourself a favour to dump this guy and meet someone who will respect you. He doesnt have any respect for you as he lets his friends insult you, what type of man does that?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2007):

oh man.. my ex was like that. he never stuck up for me. i always defended myself, him, and our relationship. I let him go because i dont need a little boy, i want a man! im with my current boyfriend now and he's not afraid to tell anyone that im his baby. If anyone says anything bad about me, even a little, hes not afraid to put them in their place. So, hun, let that little boy go and get yourself a real man, one that respects you and will stand up for you and be by your side constantly. :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2007):

oh man.. my ex was like that. he never stuck up for me. i always defended myself, him, and our relationship. I let him go because i dont need a little boy, i want a man! im with my current boyfriend now and he's not afraid to tell anyone that im his baby. If anyone says anything bad about me, even a little, hes not afraid to put them in their place. So, hun, let that little boy go and get yourself a real man, one that respects you and will stand up for you and be by your side constantly. :)

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A male reader, Jamer70 United Kingdom +, writes (21 November 2007):

Jamer70 agony aunti dont think its that he doesnt respect you. I think he just doesnt wanna tell off his mate. Theres a male saying "bros before hoes" (not that you are one) it means men before the woman. But youshould respect yourself enough to either demand he stands up for you or leave as its not worth it

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2007):

He has no respect for you. You should respect yourself enough to drop him & get a boyfriend that respects you and does not hang around with jerks like this. You know the saying "birds of a feather flock together"? Basically, his friend means more to him than you do & he's keeping you around for whatever reason in spite of the fact that his friend does not like you (probably for sex) but he sees nothing wrong with his friend hitting you & calling you names.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2007):

He has no respect for you.

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