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writes:Hello Aunts.I've been thinking; I'm 18 years old, and I want somebody to spend my life with. Someone I can wake up to in the morning and cuddle up to at night, somebody I can talk to about anything. Basically somebody I can share my life with.But tell me, Have I got the wrong idea?I came out of a serious relationship at the start of the year (as stupid as I feel now, I thought she was the one for me), and since then, my friends have told me that looking for just ONE girl to spend my life with is the "wrong way to look at it", and that I should take advantage of my youth, by going out with as many different girls as I can.I'd like to have what I'm looking for, but now I wonder if I'm missing out in the long run.Is going out with as many girls as I can be what I should be trying to do, or should I hunt to be with the one girl of my dreams, knowing there is a chance I won't find her?Please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, Msblessed  +, writes (20 November 2007):
 don't go out hunting for the right girl your young and like your friends have told u u should enjoy your youth date around and when the time is right you'll find her
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reader, flower girl +, writes (20 November 2007):
 Hey,
If you hunt you will not find, just go out and have fun and don't put so much pressure on yourself to find the right person for you, they will turn up when you are least expecting it.
Take care.xx.
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reader, whiteshadow +, writes (20 November 2007):
 go for whatever you think is right, Go for the girl you fancy and whatever happens..happens. if it is just a fling then let it be that or if it is a serious relationsip let it happen. You can be inbetween this and take each day as it comes =)
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