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Forbidden love with my best friend! Any advise?

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Question - (11 June 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 11 June 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *elp=( writes:

Im 16 and Ive had a boyfriend for 5 months now.I dont believe i understand the full meaning of love at this young age so i think its fair to say im not 'in love' but i do have alot of feelings for him.he is always on my mind and he makes me tingle when i see him. he's great he treats me like a princess and our parents get on good too. everything is almost perfect really except one thing. i think i have fallen for my best friend! its taken a while for me to realise as i thought we were just really close friends but i now think i have developed something more for her. i dont feel this way about any other girls and im not gay but the way she makes me feel sort of fills a part of me that seems to be missing when im with my boyfriend. i havent told him and i especially havent told her either. im kind of scared because i know she doest feel the same way were just really close and best friends and i dont want to jepordise that or what i have with my boyfriend.i have no idea what to do... any ideas?

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A female reader, misfitschik66 Canada +, writes (11 June 2008):

misfitschik66 agony aunt i would tell her how you feel if the feelings get stronger explain these feelings to her and explain that you dont want to jeprodize your friendship with her ever girl at one point or another gets an urge to possibly experiment and its usually wanting to do that with a close friend its normal

this may change in time so like i said give it a few months or even a year and see what happends if the feelings get stronger you should like i said tell her how you feel

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