My boyfriend wants me to use dirty talk in the bedroom and I have no idea how to do it.
Q. I'm quite embarrassed about asking this, but i have no one else to ask... i'v been going out with my boyfriend for about 6 months now, and we started having sex, but he never manages to finish 'if you know what i mean' and he told me he'll only ...
A. 23 April 2012: LOL!!! do the laundry haha!!! i am a simple lover too. all that stuff is just fun at times but every time is hard to think of stuff... I got a good orde to tell him. shut up and kiss me lol... (read in full...)
I feel it's too late for him, but I don't want to hurt him either
Q. Okay, hi everyone! :)...... Hope you can all give me some good advice, as I'm in a very confusing situation atm. I'v been with my boyfriend 3 years. We've had lots of ups and downs. Mainly downs. He can be very difficult. Jealous and controlling....
A. 14 February 2012: this sounds alot like me. I had alot of trust issues with my girlfriend. I dont know why I did. I just was always scared of her cheating on me. Or being attacked and i wasnt there to protect her. She felt the same way you did. Hated it, couldnt take ... (read in full...)
I messed around with a jock at a party 4 days ago, and haven't heard from him since. I have feeling for him, but am afraid he was just playing with me...
Q. My friend asked me to go to a party with her.. I went. I met this guy. He was really cute. A real stud.. graduated and was a popular football player. We did a lot of stuff together and he seemed like he cared. Which i'm stupid to think he would, ...
A. 14 February 2012: Sorry I am a football player. I dont wanna sound like a jerk but I mean its not just football players that do this. Guys hook up with girls. and thats that. No call no nothing. But its knda messed up that hes 5 years older then ... (read in full...)
Its been 6 months and I'm still not over my 1st boyfriend
Q. Hi :) In December of 2010, the boy I liked asked me out. He wasn't my first boyfriend but he was in a way. My first boyfriend was in 5th grade and we dated for 5 hours. My second boyfriend was also in 5th grade but we only dated for 2 days. And my 3...
A. 14 February 2012: I recently broke up with my girlfriend on my one year! I felt like shit and i think of her all the time. She has moved on and I have moved on. I still care about her and would do anything for her. To get over my break up I hung out with alot of ... (read in full...)
How can I get him to understand why I messed up and get us back to how we were?
Q. This sounds really pathetic considering I am so young, but hey, relationships are a big deal at my age. So here are my questions: 1. I have always had a soft spot for two of my closest guy mates and now I know one of them has developed even m...
A. 8 February 2012: Its hard to do at a younger age but i know at 13-15 i couldnt do this but just straight up tell him. dont beat around the bush. dont drag it on. Just tell him the truth. If the truth doesnt get him to understand, I doubt a lie will or anything else ... (read in full...)
How can my FWB partner accuse me of cheating when we aren't together?
Q. Ok so I went out at the weekend a man that I have been having sex with for 11 months was working on the doors as a doorman this is some background so you know the full story you might understand why I did what I did we met nearly a year ago I really ...
A. 8 February 2012: Your situation needs some clarity, are we dating or are we not needs to be answered. You can say its not cheating cause it seems like u arent together. And what u did was just hurtful. I dont think what you did was wrong because both of you knew ... (read in full...)
Ex contacted me and wants to have coffee. Should I go or keep the NC rule going?
Q. So ive asked many questions in the past about my first girlfriend who is also my only girlfriend and we were together for 8 years. So i am 22 now so that means we were together since we were 14. we have grown together and i truely belive that we are ...
A. 7 February 2012: I think she misses you and wants to see you. She is going to do this when she is sad or wants to be around you. This is how i've noticed/experienced how girls cope with break ups. They still hold on. You said she hasnt been dating or been seeing a... (read in full...)
I want to trust him again!
Q. hey, how do you know when you can re-trust someone? I ask because i still feel troubled from time to time about my bf of 16 months. Everything's great right now, but i caught him sexting an ex-workmate at 6 months, confronted him right away and was ...
A. 26 January 2012: okay this is exactly like me ex gf and me. I was sexting a girl online and she caught me. I only did it once and i was wasted but she could not forgive me. I dont blame her. I was going away to college and she was 4 hours away. there was no way s... (read in full...)
While we were broken up, we both hooked up with other people. Now that we're back together, I cant bear to think of her doing something with someone else!
Q. My girlfriend of 11 months and I broke up around Halloween of last year. We were having issues, I liked her more than she liked me, and I felt I was the only one putting forth effort in the relationship. We were both obviously upset by the ...
A. 26 January 2012: You are bothered so much because you care about her. Honestly this has happened to me before. i didnt get over it and started to date my x again. it didnt work. i couldnt get over it. If you two start to date again and arnt over what she did when... (read in full...)
I want more freedom
Q. I'm a straight A honors gifted student. In the 9th grade I am taking a college course already. My parents have always been strict, but I want them to know they can trust me more than they do and that I'm a really smart girl. Whenever I bring it up ...
A. 24 January 2012: To be honest you are a girl. A young girl. You may be smart, but people out there in the real world are not smart. Your grades, in a safe secure school environment have nothing to do with real world situations. People take advantage of girls. Stuff ... (read in full...)
Not sure what to make of this
Q. I may be over analyzing this but i just want a woman's perspective. Its pretty simple i asked a girl out that i met awhile ago through some friends. She said she would love to go but she is busy this week (friday i asked her to go out). She said ...
A. 23 January 2012: Thank you very much for all of your advice and help!!! i really appreciate it! As for the date we did decide to go on the movie date. it was planned and everything she said she was excited to go. literally an hour before i was going to pick her up ... (read in full...)
I just can't read him, it's hard to know if he likes me the way I like him or not.
Q. Hello there cupids, I shall try and keep this as short as I can. I had to come to all of you for your advice as this is driving me nuts! So basically, I really like this friend of mine, we shall call him 'bob'. Me and bob used to go to school t...
A. 14 December 2011: i say dont let him initiate contact you do it! Guys are dum (im a guy and can admit/say it) we dont always know what signs we are giving and what we are receiving. Let him know how you feel. once you do that we start to act on it. and I agree with ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is into the "it's not you, I just have no interest in sex right now" phase. How do I handle this?
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for 2 months. Im 28, hes 34. When we met all was well and we were intimate but shortly after we met, he lost his full time job (he had 2 jobs a FT and PT)now he just has the pt which is barely anything, and his car died/ ...
A. 13 December 2011: Your relationship is just starting. He is having problems. I think Now is the time to support him through this hard time and not worry so much about the sex. ... (read in full...)
How do I get over it? Nothing hurts more than realizing she meant everything to you, but you meant nothing to her.
Q. I broke up with my girlfriend 2 months ago. It was my fault we broke up. I take full responsibility. I was drunk went on the computer and talked to this girl inappropriately and she looked through my stuff and found the conversation. We broke up and ...
A. 24 November 2011: Thanks for your responses. Funny thing is i went to a football game on the 18th and she had her friend ask my friend if i was gona be there. Then I went tho this party the next day It started at like 8 and a i showed up at 845. at 11 the paarty died ... (read in full...)
Could this be a sign of cheating?
Q. I am constantly flirting with my husband. I send him sexy text messages, I shower him with hugs and kisses. He very rarely sends any messages back to me, and I don't get the same affection in return. Is it possible that he is cheating on me?...
A. 17 November 2011: No its not. Stop trying to put stuff in your head and make stuff up. Its just going to make your relationship difficult... Idk y u want to add drama to your relationship. But your just going to make things worse. start looking through his stuff and ... (read in full...)
Broke her heart and lost her over Facebook, no excuses. But is what I did truly unforgiveable? I still love her.
Q. I Broke up with my girlfriend 2 months ago. I sexted a girl on facebook when i was drunk. It was wrong and it was the only time it happened even though i dont remember doing it and my facebook was hacked when this was happening. Multiple sex stuf...
A. 10 November 2011: Well now it doesnt matter as of today she is in a relationship with another guy. The guy she kissed and rubbed in my face. and told me he is better then me today. after i woke up to text messages telling me shes in a relationship. fml... its been 2 ... (read in full...)
Is it too soon to say ILY?
Q. So im back..again. I know someone is going to tell me that if I have to ask, then I don't, or am not ready. But I have to ask because I want to know, mostly from the lady folk, what you think she wants, and what she thinks. So me and my g...
A. 25 October 2011: I was sitting in bed with my gf just laying and looked into her eyes and said I love u around 3 moths and she said it back. Like if u can tell she is really into u and stuff she will say it back. I think girls like to hear it from the guy first. ... (read in full...)
I found out my husband fathered another child! What should I do?
Q. I'm so confused. I've been married to my husband for nine years next month, and we have two boys together, who are five and three. We were a happy family up until last night when my husband told me that he'd fathered a child, another boy, with ano...
A. 24 October 2011: WEll was this before your marriage. Or did he cheat on you?
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Since starting university, I go from missing my B/f terribly and wanting nothing more than to be with him to wanting to ring him up and end things, several times a day!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly two and a half years. We're very close (I consider him my best friend as well as boyfriend), love spending time together and still find each other just as attractive as we did when we first started ...
A. 24 October 2011: I dont think you are insane at all. A lot of couples go through the same things you are going through. There is always that time when you dont feel completely normal. But trust with time you will either adjust or have to try something new.... And ... (read in full...)
The girl I'm dating says "Just enjoy the ride" she doesn't see us long term. Should I keep dating her?
Q. Hi I've been dating a girl for 5 months now, i often mention long term plans, but she always says she doesn't think we will be together long term, as she feels she will sabotage the relationship at some point without knowing it, she also says th...
A. 24 October 2011: She is purposely going to "sabotage the relationship"... like she is going to cheat on you or something just to end it? Thats messed up. I would break up with her. There is no hope. She even said it... (read in full...)
I like him, not sure I love him. What should I do?
Q. i met a guy online am 16 and we started chatting and he gave me his phone number to text him, i texted him n later he sent me his pic and he told him he was cute P.s hes really nice and he told me to send him my pic i sent him n he told me i waz ...
A. 24 October 2011: Have u even met him in person yet?
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My dad made me break up with my boyfriend and I need some help
Q. Ok so im 16 and i was in a relationship with an 18 year old polish guy called bercik for about 11 months this november .i was crazy about him and we did everything together.I was drinking before i met him and now my dad is blaming him for it .i lost ...
A. 23 October 2011: Move to the United States... Your dad sounds like a nut. Your dad is trying to protect you and be your father and yada yada yada.. But dont let any one stand in your way of happiness. You only live once. dont have any regrets. Or "What if I"... ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is focusing more in her ex's problems and I feel like she isn't paying attention to much else. What should I say about my feelings?
Q. Okay, so I've been with my girlfriend for 6 months now. She has always kept in contact with her ex. I haven't had a problem with it too much because I know she really doesn't want to be with him and he lives on the complete opposite side of the ...
A. 23 October 2011: Ya i agree with Caring guy... I would not let her talk to her ex. Its either you or her ex. Not both. I told my girlfriend I dont want her to talk to her ex and she said she didnt want to be with her ex and wanted to be with me so it worked out ... (read in full...)
Did my ex miss me? Does he still love me? Should we be friends?
Q. I want to know how to go about a situation. I used to date this gemini guy in high school, 9 years later we started talking again and we clicked from the start. he made me happy and I know I made him happy. everything was perfect we started getting ...
A. 19 October 2011: I hope you enjoy the movie. Are you two living far apart? How far apart are the two of you?? Because that could be the reason he is acting like this. He obviously still is thinking about you. I believe he doesnt want you to give up stuff to be with ... (read in full...)
Did my ex miss me? Does he still love me? Should we be friends?
Q. I want to know how to go about a situation. I used to date this gemini guy in high school, 9 years later we started talking again and we clicked from the start. he made me happy and I know I made him happy. everything was perfect we started getting ...
A. 19 October 2011: Have you seen the notebook the movie? If not please watch it! This reminds me of it sooo much... He loves you. I dont know your whole story but what i got from what you said is he didnt want you to give up everything for him. So he broke up with you ... (read in full...)
I feel no matter what I do I will never be able to pay my wife back after she did so much for me! How can I make sure she never has any complaints in life?
Q. In May 1996, while I was on visit visa to States to attend one of my cousins wedding there, I fell in love with 15 years old school going American girl and I was 18 then. Upon my return from there, we kept it going through phone and transferred it ...
A. 19 October 2011: She is an angel! hearing about how she helped you is an amazing story. Just think of where you would be if she didnt support you financially. Thats honestly amazing! Love her and be there for her. Nothing you physically give her can make up for ... (read in full...)
Do I have anything to be worried about? How can I confront her without letting on that I snooped?
Q. Okay, so I've been dating this girl for about 5 months. We live together now and everything. We've had very little problems so far and everything has been amazing. I'm a very insecure person because I've been cheated on in the past - and this ...
A. 19 October 2011: A month ago my girlfriend went through my facebook and snooped around and found stuff I didnt even know was on there. i told her the truth and well we brook up because of it. she didnt trust me enough to not look through my shit. and she had past ... (read in full...)
Worried about girlfriends genital irritation
Q. Hello over there... I am very worried of my wife who of late told me that she is having an irritation on her genitals since last month! Most of the time that we have sex she may go dry and saliva comes to aid... My worry is ..is it the contraceptive ...
A. 19 October 2011: If your wife is around your age and isnt wet!.... you need to see a doctor... even if she is not, you still need too go see a doctor.... (read in full...)
How many men think sex isn't good unless a BJ in involved?
Q. How many of men consider that sex is not good without blowjob? Is intercourse alone not enough to satisfy a man? How many women would perform oral sex on a stable partner vs a casual sexual encounter?...
A. 17 October 2011: since I am the only guy responding to this so far; Most guys like blowjobs!! As long as the guy finishes it really doesnt matter whether its oral sex or just sex. It is a lil better with a blowjob. Like you dont have to make him cum. Just for a lil ... (read in full...)
How long should I date her without a sexual relationship?
Q. I am a male with a high-sex drive in my mid twenties. I have had a lot of partners and dated even more women, but only one previous lover. I met this new girl who I am absolutely attracted to in multiple dynamics and hope her to be my next love....
A. 17 October 2011: I did the exact same thing you did when we frist started to date and tryed to get sexual.No bueno. My girlfriend had the same insecurities as your girlfriend. I waited 3 moths after asking her when we frist started to date and she asked me. So my ... (read in full...)
She used to be a dancer, but I proposed anyway
Q. Recently, my girlfriend told me that she used to be Striptease Dancer gour years back. She remained in that professional for one year before dumped it once she fell in love with me. We are together since July 2008. Even before she told me, two ...
A. 17 October 2011: Yes you have made the right choice. And dont let her past effect your relationship. She didnt know you then you cant change it. But you did make the correct decision. and i am pleased you didnt let her past effect your decision to marry her! ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my GF I ended up having sex with my ex?
Q. So here is the question. To tell or not to tell? Before everyone jumps to answer this the second they read it, take a moment to chew on it. So I met this girl, we had been going out for about 2-3 weeks before I went back to school. I...
A. 13 October 2011: Your girlfriend does deserve to know. And even tho you may not tell her and think she wont find out she probably will. What if your ex tells your girlfriend? Or she hears it from you exs friends. The thing that is good is that your relationship is ... (read in full...)
No condom for anal sex? Is it safe?
Q. My boyfriend is my second boyfriend.. I am still virgin... and he is too. At this time, He wish something for his birthday. He wants anal sex :| at first I really do not agree about it but I love him I want to make him happy. I am a little bit ...
A. 12 October 2011: Use a condom. and it is safe but seriously im not even joking i just herd this but, this girl from my friends school had anal sex. During sex they ripped the skin from there vagina to there anus. I did not know that was even possible to do but I ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my ex I'm coming home for a visit?
Q. I broke up with my girlfriend a month ago. Well she broke up with me. She wants to be my friend I said no I wont. She texts me all the time and 99%of the time I dont respond. I want to get back together with her but she said no.(at the beginning of ...
A. 8 October 2011: She just texted me "I love you". I know she still loves me. I still love her. But i feel if i show any sort of emotion she will be like; he still likes me he still likes me. and that will just comfort her for a couple more weeks or moths and then i ... (read in full...)
Am I doing the right thing by breaking up with my boyfriend?
Q. I'm breaking up with my boyfriend today, and I just need some support that I'm doing the right thing. My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. In January we moved in together. He and my other roommate really didn't like eachother and ...
A. 7 October 2011: Maybe you should give him a choice to stop doing those things or loose me... Did u tell him anyhting like that? Kinda seems like he loves you if hes going ring shopping... and if that bothered u so much why did you stay around for two years?smoking, ... (read in full...)
She contacts me all the time. I ignore her. I am heartbroken. How do I move on? How do I forget her?
Q. I Just recently broke up with the love of my life. We broke up about a month ago. I cant stop thinking about her. I want to so badly. I broke her heart and i want to forget her. I cant. I thought maybe I can get her back, But i realized the...
A. 6 October 2011: There is no talking to this girl at all. She is so stubborn/hard headed she doesn't listen to me at all. She just wants to talk. She didn't listen to one word I had to say when we were fighting and breaking up. So I wrote a blog. saying exactly w... (read in full...)
B/f says he doesn't watch porn anymore but won't get rid of his collection!
Q. Hey there, So my bf and I have been together for about 9 months, and our relationship is great, sex is great, and we're pretty much best friends. I was just curious about his watching porn, so we talked about it. I'm not opposed to porn necessar...
A. 5 October 2011: Even tho this bothers you it souldnt. Watching porn or masterbating is normal. My advice is to believe what he is saying since he is your boyfriend and trust breaks or makes a relationship. And i hope you trust your boyfriend.... Plus I dont see the ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him that in the past I slept with his cousin?
Q. is it wrong, dating a guy whom in the past like five years ago u slept with a guy, who happen to be his cousin, but u didn't know back than....only discoverd now after dating this guy that they are cousin with the one u slept with in the past, but ...
A. 5 October 2011: Tell Him now!!! If this waits, the longer you date when he finds out it will get worse... and trust me he will probably find out. Sit down be really calm and be like I need to tell you something I just recently discovered. This is really hard for me ... (read in full...)
LDR--Going to see b/f and want to make it more exciting
Q. My bf and I are long distance. Usually, he comes to my town and spends a week with me about once a month but since he went back to school, it's harder for him to do that and so, I'm going to his city for a night this weekend. We're going to rent a ...
A. 5 October 2011: TRUST ME! Lingerie idea he will love!! Its like every guys fantasy.. well not every guy but im gona say at least 99%. If any girl, got rejected, especially a girlfriend.. its simply because he is gay. Dont tell him you got Lingerie let it be a ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to use dirty talk in the bedroom and I have no idea how to do it.
Q. I'm quite embarrassed about asking this, but i have no one else to ask... i'v been going out with my boyfriend for about 6 months now, and we started having sex, but he never manages to finish 'if you know what i mean' and he told me he'll only ...
A. 5 October 2011: Thats really weird not gona lie. he wont finish??? its not that hard to talk a little dirty but he seems like he may want something really dirty.. Guys like it if you tell them there peeppee is BIG!!! so say that alot and be like f me hard, your ... (read in full...)
I think my b/f wants to break up with me and I don't know what to do
Q. Dear Cupid My bf of 3 years is avoiding my lately, cause of that we had a fight. I called him and we made up, but he avoding me more now. I have a feeling that he wants to break up with me, not sure why he hasnt done that yet. I am trying to ha...
A. 5 October 2011: This is what you should do. Go out get the sexiest outfit u can find that looks good on you. Tell him you are coming over. Reconnect with him, try something new... This is just an idea.. You have nothing to loose right.. and what guy wouldnt like ... (read in full...)
Age gap relationships and family pressure
Q. i met a guy 17 years younger than me on the internet 2 yrs ago. im 43 hes 26. hes catholic and unconventional and lebanese (lives there). we had a passionate two year relationship talking every night on cam and on phone each day. we were ...
A. 5 October 2011: Honestly if you love him age shouldnt matter. I have a question. have you met his family? Do they know who you are or? Do they know what you look like? If not why dont you just say you are 30? Who cares about age. but if its a big thing for his ... (read in full...)
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