He uses the same pet names for me as he did with them
Q. Need some help to see sense about finding lots of old messages from my bf to ex-gfs/hook ups of his. Basically, he gave me his old mobile phone to use. I was loading up all my info, and loads of his old messages (from a few months before we met) ...
A. 4 March 2012: 17 months is a long time dating! Honestly i can understand your frustration but his past shouldnt bother you. I know that is hard because i can relate. But it really doesnt matter. You cant change the past. The fact that he calls you the same names ... (read in full...)
Dry humping but not yet kissed!
Q. There's a guy who I fancy like hell, he's very sweet and kind, but we've only known each other for about 2 weeks. I've slept over at his house 3 times now, the first night we had company but he showed the first indications of being interested in me ...
A. 4 March 2012: lol it just means hes shy! and i think its kind of funny you two started dry humping before kissing!... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is a virgin and wants to have sex. Advice to make her first time special?
Q. Hi my girlfriend recently said to me that she felt she was ready to have sex. She is a virgin while I am not so I was really excited. The problem is I've never had sex with a virgin before and I am really nervous about being her first. I mean I love ...
A. 4 March 2012: I think you should bring her into the room and have some candles. Maybe give her a massage loosen her up, make her feel comfortable.. and it gets her turned on get some massage oil turn her on her back massage her back ,naked, if you feel ... (read in full...)
How can I tell if my friend likes me as more than just friends?
Q. We've known each other for nearly two years, I've always liked him from day one but he had a long term gf so obviously done nothing about it but they broke up 6months ago. Now we are both single we spend a lot of time together hanging out and we ...
A. 3 March 2012: I think you should tell him. but i would make sure he is over his Ex. If you rush into it and hes not ready hes going to just blow you off. You may want a relationship. You havnt been in one for a while, but he may still be dealing with his ... (read in full...)
Is it normal that my boyfriend masturbates when he sees me on Skype?
Q. hi everyone! im in a long distance relationship. we talked on skype with my boyfriend for a year now. is it normal that sometimes he masturbate when he see me in camera? but i pretend that i dont know what hes doingwe just keep talking.. i have ...
A. 2 March 2012: Yes! Guys jerk it!! I mean wouldnt you rather have him masturbating thinking about you then some other girl??... (read in full...)
What should I get my girlfriend for her birthday?
Q. Ok, I know this isn't a major issue but I'm curious what you guys think... I've been dating my girlfriend for six months now. All of her special days fall right on top of each other (Christmas then V-Day then birthday in March) and I'm not sure...
A. 2 March 2012: I think you dont have to impress your GF bye constantly buying her gold, flowers jewelry exc.. Get her something funny or nice or random! For example, I got my gf jewelry and little things, i didnt want to keep giving her jewelry, thought it was ... (read in full...)
I have a sexless marriage and my husband is a sex addict! What do I do?
Q. I desperately need help. I have no one who I can talk to about this and I'm afraid it's going to destroy me. I've been married for 26 years. There is no question it's not a perfect marriage. There are two issues that I am fighting and feel like I'm ...
A. 2 March 2012: First congratulations for loosing the weight that is an amazing an very inspirational to many woman to not only loose it but maintain it.
When i was reading your add you said your husband left his job to watch your investments. Right when i read t... (read in full...)
Are we official boyfriend and girlfriend? Or will it only be official when I get back?
Q. hello again! :) so me and my crush got together a week ago. we went out for a drink and then went to the movies. i think he did try to make a move but i was too scared and looked tense. i didn't even give him a kiss goodbye...just said: 'thanks!...
A. 1 March 2012: No you are not yet. You are what they call a "thing" both are getting to know each other but not in a relationship yet.... (read in full...)
I'm afraid this model-gorgeous girl will steal my thunder at my wedding!
Q. Hi everyone! I know this is gonna sound childish and all but here's the thing: I'm getting married in a few months. It's gonna be a very intimate ceremony with just my fiancé and I plus the witnesses and a bunch of friends. Problem is, my fiancé's ...
A. 1 March 2012: After watching like brides mades and well any movie with a wedding, I am surprised that she is even on your mind!!!! lol I think you have more things to be worried about like the cake, or family coming, or your dress, or the future, with your soon ... (read in full...)
Is going to the gym scary?
Q. Hiyaaaa, Well, I've got to a stage in my life where my body isn't going to go any slimmer and as in 6th form (college) we stopped having P.E lesson even though it wasn't exciting I still had fun and its you know exercising! I wanna start going ...
A. 29 February 2012: No the gym is not scary at all!!! I love the gym! my whole family goes an hour+ a day. Dont be scared. Advice though, if you go and i hope you do, if you use a machine and its a busy day at the gym with alot of people, you see an open machine and ... (read in full...)
She constantly believes I'm cheating on her!
Q. Hello people Now I have a really really big problem I love my fiancé to death I never ever want to lose her but the problem is always that she constantly believes I'm cheating on her. The problem here is that she says her proof is her friends...
A. 29 February 2012: your getting married to a girl that doesnt trust you at all. Your Finance would rather listen to other people then to listen to you. First you should talk to her and just lay it all on the line. because if she doesnt trust you whats the point to get ... (read in full...)
Why is he looking at sites with girl's underwear???
Q. I know I'll probably be raked over the coals for this one because snooping is such a big invasion of privacy and betrayal of trust but here it goes. My boyfriend of four years has been over my apartment recently and he uses my laptop when I go to ...
A. 29 February 2012: Its snooping if shes on his email... Im a guy and first off I think that it is more of a fetish. Or maybe he was getting it for you. Because if he was cheating on you, I think you would have noticed something more obvious. Like him not hanging ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend impregnated another woman... what do I do?
Q. good day, please advise on my problem. I have a boyfriend of 3 years that i love so much and we have a baby 18 months baby boy, we had our ups and downs in our relationship but we always talk about them and solve them. I just recently found ou...
A. 29 February 2012: Wow... I texted a girl drunk and my GF dumped mee... and your BF knocked up another girl and you want to support him... I cant even believe you are considering staying with him. How does he show he wants to be with you? Hes cheating on you.... I ... (read in full...)
I can't imagine leaving my family to move to be with my boyfriend!
Q. Hey all, I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now, he's a US Marine and is currently stationed in Hawaii and I am in NY. He is done with his contract around the same time I am graduating from college. He has asked me to move to North Dakota ...
A. 29 February 2012: Awww i started reading this and and thought for a second you were debating moving to Hawaii!!!!!!!!!!! And thought is this a joke lol!! But anyways I think you should move out and try something new. i am in college far away from my home. I wasnt ... (read in full...)
I was trying to be friends with my ex, then he started yelling at me!
Q. So i was dating this guy and we dated for about 3 months then we broke up and we agreed to be "friends" as almost every couple do and then about 2 weeks ago he text-ed me saying shut up because i said hey sup then we went on and he just kept ...
A. 29 February 2012: well why did you guys break up? ..U gotta give us more to work with because we can say the obvious and be like well dont talk to him lol
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Should I pursue this beautiful girl who has a boyfriend? Wait and see what happens? Or run?
Q. I have been talking to this girl for a couple months. She is really nice and it seems like she likes me. The way she talks to me in person and when we text seems like she does. Its just really flirty.The thing is I did not start the flirting. She ...
A. 29 February 2012: I asked this girl to hangout before i knew she had a BF . I asked her because she was going to a funeral and my grandparents died like months ago so i know how hard it is and i wanted to be there for her if she needed anything and she said yes she ... (read in full...)
Never so much as hugged a girl, and I'd like to change that
Q. Hey guys, well basically i’ve got a question regarding myself. It’s a bit embarrassing, but is it normal for a nineteen year old to be a virgin. I’ve never done anything with a girl, never been kissed, never even held hands with anybody. In fact now ...
A. 28 February 2012: I was on the same boat a couple years ago. For me personally I changed my wardrobe, got rid of my glasses, and hit the gym. I was alot more confidant and when people saw me after summer i was like a new person. Kinda like starting from scratch. I ... (read in full...)
Two years on and things are a lot less physical
Q. Hello everyone.. :) Well, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years over. Our relationship are great. He is caring, lovely and responsible. But lately I realise that we have less physic contact, he sure hug and kiss me a lot, but he seldom go ...
A. 28 February 2012: This happened to me in my relationship. I was like your bf. And my gf was pretty much exactly like you lol. well my gf talked to her friend about this and they went out and got the sexiest lingerie! I didnt say too or knew about it she surprised me! ... (read in full...)
I'm scared that things are going to change when my boyfriend goes to college, or he'll fall for some college girl, or his feelings will change
Q. So, I'm now 17, and my boyfriend is 18. As everyone should know, school will be coming to an end soon, and he will go to college. The thing is he will be going to college out of the city, (155mi away). I know it's not a big number, but I don't know ...
A. 28 February 2012: This is exactly what happened to me this year. I am a year older then my girlfriend and she is 17 still in highschool. I know this may be hard thing but I just want to share this. break up with your boyfriend before he goes to college. Do it so you ... (read in full...)
I told my best friend that I like him and now he won't talk to me
Q. Hello, I told my best guy friend of 6 years that I liked him. He is shy as am I so I told him by txt. His reply was 'really? how long have you felt this way?' I told him about a year and now it has been nearly 3 weeks and he has not called,fb or...
A. 28 February 2012: I think he is in shock and you shouldn't abandon your friendship!!!!! You need to talk it over and see why hes acting like that... But he may actually like you and who knows he may be mad that you have liked him for such a long time and hadnt said ... (read in full...)
He stopped contacting me after things got sexual, now we are talking again but is he ever going to ask me out again?
Q. Why would a man pull back when you get physical with him? I have been dating this guy and I know that we are not exclusive ..but I did some sexual things with him. I noticed that he texted me less after that. He used to text and say good morning ...
A. 27 February 2012: You messed up. You wanted a relationship with this guy and the first thing you do is have sex with him. A guy will like you, notice you and do things to get you to like him. We want to have sex with you! That is why we do that! The thing is the more ... (read in full...)
Is being able to cook a turn on?
Q. I work as a cook in a kitchen for the last 3 years and recently (like the last year) my work load has gotten larger because I went through a semi-promotion if you will. Because of the work load I've lost 40lbs. The work load entails a lot more ...
A. 27 February 2012: The quickest way to a mans heart is through his stomach. Yes it is a turn on! I dont think they notice your cooking unless u cooked for them. Sooo i think they are noticing your weight loss.... (read in full...)
How can I help my boyfriend get over my past?
Q. I have been seeing a guy for about 3 months who I am completely in love with. Everything was going great until about a week ago. He found out that I had slept with a guy in his group of friends around 7 years ago. He had always told me he has ...
A. 26 February 2012: You just have to tell him that guy means nothing to me. I cant change the past. He doesnt mean anything to me because if he did I would be with him. But he doesnt and I am with you! For guys it is hard to get that out of your head esp when you care ... (read in full...)
Being told you're beautiful during sex, does it mean anything?
Q. Just want to get an idea what the general consensus is on telling someone they're beautiful during sex. If during the early stages of seeing someone, they say you're beautiful, can this still be quite a casual statement, or do you think it's a ...
A. 25 February 2012: usually when someone says your beautiful during sex, its because hes turned on and its in the moment. If he says it just to say it, like going on a date, when you dont expect it maybe just sitting down on the couch then i think it means more. I ... (read in full...)
I can't get the nerve to ask this boy out
Q. so i like this guy and i cant get the nerves to ask him out. for one all his friends are not the most nice people in the world. so i need help to get the guts to ask him out or even talk to him. if any advise please help me! :) ...
A. 25 February 2012: Try to talk to him and get to know him better. Before you ask him out. at (13-15 years old) his friends will probably be an influence on his decision. If you know him and get to know him better hopefully he can think for him self.
Just get to know... (read in full...)
He claims they are just friends but he has told me she is prettier than me, should he stop seeing her and stop texting her?
Q. Dear all, I am in a serious relationship for a year now. 3 years ago in 2009 I broke up with my ex and was very depressed. During that time I even had to see a councillor. And he advised me on what I should have in mind for my next bf. that year, I ...
A. 23 February 2012: I think you need to let him talk to who ever he wants to talk to. If hes friends with her, why not let them talk. Dont you have guy friends?
As for the lunch dates, i would say to him that it bothers you. and i think any one in a relation... (read in full...)
Is it just too soon to start a new relationship?
Q. This shouldn't be this difficult. I broke up with the ex January 2nd. The last 3 weeks I've had a really nice, sweet, caring guy in hot pursuit. I've told him several times that I'm in no shape emotionally or psychologically to get into anything ...
A. 23 February 2012: You still have feelings for your last BF. Yes it does past. My Gf broke up with me and a month later she was with another guy. I am more like you and still had feelings for her and knew I couldnt start another relationship right away. In my opinion ... (read in full...)
I cant go to senior prom with my G/f because of the age limit and so her ex is taking her but I know he still has feelings for her. I don't trust this guy and I don't know what to do
Q. hi agony aunts, i am in a relationship with an 18 year old girl. I am 22. the problem is that her senior prom is coming up, and we can't go together because her school has a stupid age limit, you can't go if you're over 21. so anyway, a gu...
A. 23 February 2012: Get a fake ID and be 21....booom problem solved... (read in full...)
We're over. Should I try to make things right so there's no tension?
Q. Hey everyone, so I have a small issue. Well, it all started in December. My ex and I were still dating but... We were very distant. We hardly ever got together and I wanted to break up with him, but I didn't know when or how. I never loved him, ...
A. 23 February 2012: wow. you dont love him, you think hes a looser... no wonder why he didnt spend his money on you... You dont even care about him. Theres no tension with him. he moved on. I think u have feelings for him and now that u see your looser bf with another ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is seriously misinterpreting stuff from my Facebook
Q. My boyfriend is upset over a message he found on my Facebook. I went to starbucks a couple of months ago and a friend I had not seen in a while was working there, he asked to exchange numbers and then contacted me shortly on Facebook. We would ...
A. 23 February 2012: This is exactly like what happened to me. I met this girl i havnt seen in forever and started to talk to her on facebook. It was harmless and the conversations werent that long. basically saying we should hang out catch up go to a party... And my GF ... (read in full...)
Men and fidelity.....
Q. do men always secretly want to have sex with other women when they are in a relationship/married...to be specific when they are in love with their partner. are the faithful men faithful because they are obliged to? is it that men have to control ...
A. 22 February 2012: Men do dream about secretly having sex with other woman. And girls do too. Faithful men are faithful because well they are in love. And they dont want to ruin that. So i think your bf is just using you for sex. It doesnt sound like he cares about ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend posts pornographic photos "girls of the week" I don't like it!
Q. My boyfriend posts up photos of porn girls and promo models in weekly blogs that he makes for his gaming group and stating that they are "his girls of the week." I find this so disrespectful towards me but is this over reacting? He claims the ga...
A. 22 February 2012: zxcsdiana.... 100% agree... (read in full...)
After 20 years, I am tired and leaning towards just getting the hell out of this relationship! Need advice badly!
Q. Hello People! I am having a small dilemma that I cannot talk to friends or family about due to the nature of this situation...so I am relying on unbiased strangers opinions. Here we go... I have been with my significant other for 20 years. ...
A. 22 February 2012: I honestly cant comprehend how you lived like that for 20 years. Life is so short. why waste it being miserable. You need to get out of this. You can go on and on, people trying to say you can make this work, do it for the kids, advice that could ... (read in full...)
5 months dating is too early to say I love you, isn't it?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months now, and saturday night he told me he loved me, I didnt respond and he went quiet but then we said nothing about it since. The thing is I have thought that I am falling in love with him, I do h...
A. 22 February 2012: I dont think there is a time limit to say i love you. Its when you feel it and you really just know. I know i told my gf after 3 months i loved her and I told her why i did. she said it back but i know she didnt mean it like I did and she told me ... (read in full...)
I think he masturbated on me thinking I was asleep!
Q. Hi... My boyfriend courted me for almost three months (said he's okay with it and he's glad to wait). I told him that if he ever break my trust, I'd break up with him. I also told him that I don't want to break my family's reputation becau...
A. 22 February 2012: I think maybe he wanted you to wake up and maybe he was trying to turn you on.. despite being kids in the room i know i have done it with my past gf on her couch, under the cover with her whole family in the kitchen directly behind the couch. You ... (read in full...)
He is so nice to me. But My friends talk him down. What do others make of this situation?
Q. my boyfriend and i was broke up for 3 weeks i begged him to get back with me he said no he didn't want a relationship. Then i stopped talking to him ignored him and then he was the one who was wanting to be together again he said he loved me so much...
A. 20 February 2012: wow...... thats a sign of cheating... "Too nice" I dont know where u are from but usually that means he loves you...You dont have a kid, you dont spend money on a girl you dont talk about marriage and being with her unless you love her.. How did u ... (read in full...)
He wants a threesome! Isn't a twosome enough?
Q. So my boyfriend keeps telling me about a fantasy he has of having a threesome. It'd be something like he would have sex with me and I fool around with the other dude at the same time. But that just seems so odd to me, I wonder why he wants to bring ...
A. 18 February 2012: why would he want another GUY to star in his show???? Are u sure he doesnt want a GIRL?? I feel like guys fantasies are three somes with two girls not two dudes.. But whatever... Just say no. If u dont want too.... And i also herd from people/ also ... (read in full...)
Does this mean he is over me?
Q. So i think im going a little over board with this, it started out at christmas time. i got him a few gifts he said thank you and that was it he gave me nothing in return i was hurt but at least got a thank you so i got over it, now valentines just ...
A. 17 February 2012: sounds like a runner.... ... (read in full...)
I'm new to online dating, how can I let this guy down nicely? Or should I offer to meet up anyway just to see if I was wrong about him?
Q. I've just recently started to try online dating. A few people have requested contact but I wasn't really interested so I politely declined their requests. One guy who contacted me seemed like he might be interesting to get to know him so I said I ...
A. 16 February 2012: When he asked u too meet up with him what did u say? If u said yes then I would go. Because if you blow him off like that even tho he is a "big boy" it still hurts to get shot down like that.
and why do you want to date someone exactly like you... (read in full...)
Please tell me this is fixable!
Q. good day, i am seeking advice and possibly comfort that there is a solution to this. I can`t move on, and i dont think i want to move on after the break up. I want to get her back! its been 4 or 5 days since she broke it off with me. i know every...
A. 16 February 2012: Yes this is fixable. you didnt destroy any chance of getting back with her. (cheating exc). MY ADVICE IS TO GIVE HER SOME TIME. Dont contact her. it only pushes girls away. Dont show her your sad. dont beg her back. But this is a good time to ... (read in full...)
I feel it's too late for him, but I don't want to hurt him either
Q. Okay, hi everyone! :)...... Hope you can all give me some good advice, as I'm in a very confusing situation atm. I'v been with my boyfriend 3 years. We've had lots of ups and downs. Mainly downs. He can be very difficult. Jealous and controlling....
A. 14 February 2012: this sounds alot like me. I had alot of trust issues with my girlfriend. I dont know why I did. I just was always scared of her cheating on me. Or being attacked and i wasnt there to protect her. She felt the same way you did. Hated it, couldnt take ... (read in full...)
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