Age gap relationships and family pressure
Q. i met a guy 17 years younger than me on the internet 2 yrs ago. im 43 hes 26. hes catholic and unconventional and lebanese (lives there). we had a passionate two year relationship talking every night on cam and on phone each day. we were ...
A. 5 October 2011: Honestly if you love him age shouldnt matter. I have a question. have you met his family? Do they know who you are or? Do they know what you look like? If not why dont you just say you are 30? Who cares about age. but if its a big thing for his ... (read in full...)
I need her back!! But her Tumblr account scares me..
Q. I miss her so much and I know she misses me. She texts me all the time and I dont answer. She calls me occasionally at night and I ignore it. I dont know what to say to get her back. I feel if I talk to her I am just comforting her. That she will be ...
A. 4 October 2011: SORRY THIS IS LONG BUT PLZ READ I DONT KNOW IF THERE IS HOPE.. I am currently in college and my girlfriend is back home. Over this past Labor Day weekend I took a train down to visit my girlfriend for our 11 month. Our relationship has... (read in full...)
Can you be friends with your ex?
Q. Are there signs that your ex might want to give you another chance. I dont think mine is like the typical ex. but then again i dont know. she messaged me today so we talked a little bit but she kept asking me questions. and I got annoyed and said is ...
A. 4 October 2011: Its been a month. She contacts me everyday. i have not once. We talked and she said I want to be on good terms and be friends. I told her I could never be your friend I love her too much. SHe has told me she loves me and has feelings for me ad will ... (read in full...)
I'm worried about how I will handle my first relationship. Can anyone give me any tips?
Q. Hi. Okay, so I'm sixteen and I've never had an actual relationship before. Like, I've liked a guy and they've liked me back but its never gone as far as that, kinda like a 'flirtationship'. I'm scared that when i eventually get into a relation...
A. 4 October 2011: Best thing I think that will help is if you are sexually active. Dont have sex with him for a couple months (at least). it shows u mean more to him then sex. and that he really likes you for who you are. ... (read in full...)
Gyno thinks the pill is a good idea, but I don't want to tell my mom I'm sexually active
Q. So today i went to the gynecologist and she said that the only thing that would help with the issue i have is birth control. My mom does not know that i am sexually active and isnt sure about the idea... I on the other hand want to go on the pill ...
A. 4 October 2011: Say you are having cramps and your gynecologist says it will help... I know this because my girlfriend told me lol... (read in full...)
Guys -- looks or personality?
Q. Hello all I have a question for the guys out there. Would you rather have a super hot woman with a pretty face and nice bod but dumb and needy. OR Would you rather have a sweetheart with a kind and generous heart but average looks and weight. ...
A. 4 October 2011: She has to be attractive but personality and chemistry means alot more then just a super hot girl.... (read in full...)
Married and cheating but I don't want to put my children through a divorce!
Q. Ok. Here goes. I am totally depressed. I have been married for 13 years and have two wonderful kids. We haven't been happy in 6 years when I felt he had an affair. He would not admit and still denies but in my heart I know he did. But that's not ...
A. 3 October 2011: Your married. U knew what u were getting into when you got married. Stop being selfish. Fix your marriage. stop cheating on your husband. Dont ruin your kids lives. There going to grow up knowing what your doing sooner or later if it continues. You ... (read in full...)
How do I overcome the fear of trusting someone?
Q. Hey guys, I really need some advice or perhaps just a lot of encouragement lol. It's to do with the way I hold back too much when it comes to men. I'm incredibly stubborn and have always stuck by the traditionalist view that men should do all th...
A. 3 October 2011: Text him!! and if u go into this relationship..if it happens.. you have to trust him. You cant go looking through his stuff trying to find something to incriminate him. if u find yourself doing that, your gona find something thats probably not even ... (read in full...)
Do we tell the parents of my son's girlfriend that we walked in on them having oral sex?
Q. My husband and I walked in on my 17 year old son performing oral sex on his girl friend who is 16. My husband and I disagree on what we should do. I think that we should call her parents and tell them what happened. My husband on the other hand said ...
A. 2 October 2011: I am not a parent but dont be the lame parent, be the cool parent!! Bye telling your sons girlfriends parents what happed your son is going to hate you and not tell you anything. He is going to hide stuff from you and you. Forget about it!... (read in full...)
Why is she texting me, giving me mixed signals, and calling me? does that mean I have a chance. Or does she just want me around while she grieves?
Q. My ex and I broke up about 4 weeks ago. Its hard for me to talk to her because it was my fault we broke up. She is still mad that I facebook chatted this girl I want, suppose to talk to while I was drunk and we talked, then turned to sexting. I hone...
A. 30 September 2011: Thank you very much! I think Im not going to push her but let her make the moves and see what she wants. I think she may be mad but maybe give her a little time to calm down.It may be jsut me but I think that how much we love each other we can fix ... (read in full...)
The stress she's under is making it difficult for me
Q. Dear Agony Aunts I don’t know what to do; I’m so in love but equally distressed and tired. I’ve been in a relationship for 7 months with what has got to be in my mind the love of my life. Together we’ve become best friends, loves, colleagues ...
A. 30 September 2011: It seems like its her parents are putting a lot of pressure and stress on her. For being with you. Your relationship was pretty good until they found out that she was dating you. If they dont like you and that seems like its where a lot of the ... (read in full...)
Why is she texting me, giving me mixed signals, and calling me? does that mean I have a chance. Or does she just want me around while she grieves?
Q. My ex and I broke up about 4 weeks ago. Its hard for me to talk to her because it was my fault we broke up. She is still mad that I facebook chatted this girl I want, suppose to talk to while I was drunk and we talked, then turned to sexting. I hone...
A. 30 September 2011: thank you soo much for your kindness and your help. You have no idea how good this makes me feel. I really appreciate the time you took to read my blogg and respond and be nice and understanding to my situation. I have posted another add and some ... (read in full...)
Why is she texting me, giving me mixed signals, and calling me? does that mean I have a chance. Or does she just want me around while she grieves?
Q. My ex and I broke up about 4 weeks ago. Its hard for me to talk to her because it was my fault we broke up. She is still mad that I facebook chatted this girl I want, suppose to talk to while I was drunk and we talked, then turned to sexting. I hone...
A. 29 September 2011: I have apologized many times. She is really hard headed lol but shes really amazing and I love everything about her. I wrote her a couple love letters and she got them and she tells me she loves me and we talk but she always says stuff to put me ... (read in full...)
How much trouble would we be in if we have sex at a movie theatre and get caught?
Q. I am 19 and I have been with my bf Brett for 2 yrs. Our 2 yr anniversary is on wednesday and I wanted to do something special so I asked him what he would like to do. I was kinda shocked when he sadi he had 2 things he had always wanted to do the ...
A. 29 September 2011: I work at a movie theater. We have to check the movie a couple times when it is playing. If its a small theater they will kick u out a larger theater they can press charges.. I wouldnt save it for the bedroom... (read in full...)
Am I overanalyzing, or is he interested?
Q. Ok so I have a crush on someone right? And the funny thing about this is that this is probably the first REAL girly girl crush I've had since like the .....sixth grade and its really ridiculous.... So this someone I've been talking to him ...
A. 29 September 2011: If he likes you he will ask you out. Guys flirt alot. and u said he talks to other girls so does he act like that to other girls or just you?..and alot of guy friends do that to girls at school. its really no major sign he Likes you, like a crush on ... (read in full...)
Do all guys use girls?
Q. Why do all the guys i know say they like but just want to use me for sex? Then the guys i do like will like my friends or just stay long enough to get wat they want then wen they do they stop talking to me until they want something else? Are all ...
A. 29 September 2011: No. you give it up to easy thats why. If he likes you then wait a while. Dont just have sex with him right away. u have to wait like months to see if he really likes you... ... (read in full...)
Is a one-sided fling okay?
Q. So I am living in Hawaii until December. I came out here for school and intended to leave earlier. I met a guy who told me he's falling in love with me. I like being around him and compared to my previous boyfriends, he doesn't annoy me. There ...
A. 29 September 2011: PlZZZZ dont date him! If he is falling in love with you and you have no intention of staying with him later you are going to hurt him. But if you must date him bring up that you are going to leave in december. Let him no your situation. Its so ... (read in full...)
I'm totally unlike anyone my boyfriend's been with.
Q. I made a huge no-no. As a little preface, I'm currently dating a guy who is far more experienced than me. Part of it comes from an age difference (nearly a decade) and another part comes from the way he's lived his life up until now (he's done a...
A. 29 September 2011: Honestly from what it sounds like and how old he is he is either not the type that will ever settle down or he wants to settle down now. From what it sounds like you have changed him around. That seems like a good sign to me. If your looking to ... (read in full...)
I've been waiting for 2 and a half years for my boyfriend to talk to me! Is he worth it?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for 5 years and a month. (Since I was 12, and now I'm 17.) After 2 and a half years together, he moved across the US from me. Before he left, everything in our relationship was GREAT! He was the perfect ...
A. 29 September 2011: I honestly am confused... Is this for real? U havnt talked for 2 years and you think your going out?? What kind of relationship is that?... (read in full...)
Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all... But if I never loved I would have never lost. and would not feel the this way..
Q. My ex girlfriend and i love each other alot. Im not putting words in her mouth she has told me that she loves me even tho we are broken up. Its my fault why we broke up. I was drunk and went online and sexted another girl. I honestly didnt know what ...
A. 29 September 2011: CIndy I am doing both. But shes telling me we wont get back together(for years) and shes telling me she loves and texts me and calls me and all this stuff you shouldnt be doing if you break up. So what should i do. I feel like if I show her I want ... (read in full...)
Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all... But if I never loved I would have never lost. and would not feel the this way..
Q. My ex girlfriend and i love each other alot. Im not putting words in her mouth she has told me that she loves me even tho we are broken up. Its my fault why we broke up. I was drunk and went online and sexted another girl. I honestly didnt know what ...
A. 28 September 2011: I dont think she needs to show more self respect.. she needs to move on if she thinks im a terrible guy not keep me around. Its like respecting yourself. ... (read in full...)
Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all... But if I never loved I would have never lost. and would not feel the this way..
Q. My ex girlfriend and i love each other alot. Im not putting words in her mouth she has told me that she loves me even tho we are broken up. Its my fault why we broke up. I was drunk and went online and sexted another girl. I honestly didnt know what ...
A. 28 September 2011: I dont think she needs to show more self respect.. she needs to move on if she thinks im a terrible guy not keep me around.... (read in full...)
Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all... But if I never loved I would have never lost. and would not feel the this way..
Q. My ex girlfriend and i love each other alot. Im not putting words in her mouth she has told me that she loves me even tho we are broken up. Its my fault why we broke up. I was drunk and went online and sexted another girl. I honestly didnt know what ...
A. 27 September 2011: So i was talking to my ex girlfriend yesterday I said I was sick and she immediately thought it was because I was hooking up with other girls. I didnt text her back. I was actually really mad at her for thinking that. Then again she probably... (read in full...)
Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all... But if I never loved I would have never lost. and would not feel the this way..
Q. My ex girlfriend and i love each other alot. Im not putting words in her mouth she has told me that she loves me even tho we are broken up. Its my fault why we broke up. I was drunk and went online and sexted another girl. I honestly didnt know what ...
A. 27 September 2011: So i was talking to my ex girlfriend yesterday I said I was sick and she immediately thought it was because I was hooking up with other girls. I didnt text her back. I was actually really mad at her for thinking that. Then again she probably has a ... (read in full...)
I left in the middle of the night after sex, now he never wants to hear from me!
Q. Hey everyone, about a month ago I started seeing this guy and he was an absolute sweetheart to me and things were going well... Anyway, last night we went on a date and we planned that I would stay at his house for the night. We had sex multiple...
A. 26 September 2011: You need to tell him why you left. I have done that before and frankly I dont think its a big deal. Just be straight and honest. If he doest understand move on!! its better that this happened early on in the relationship rather then later when you ... (read in full...)
I sexted another girl. my girlfriend dumped me but says she will always love me. I don't understand these mixed signals
Q. I dont understand my break up at all. My girlfriend broke up with me because I screwed up. I was drunk and went on my computer and facebook sexted a girl I wasnt supposed to talk to at all. I wasnt aloud to talk to this girl so I didnt. I wasnt ...
A. 25 September 2011: Deactivate my facebook. Stop drinking. Be smart and think things through.... (read in full...)
I have only had sex with my current boyfriend, am I missing out on experiencing sex with other guys?
Q. ok so i am currently in a relationship with my boyfriend. im 23 and hes the only person ive had sex with and dated! and hes 24 and i am not his first, im his 13th sex object. right now in our relationship were happy, i know he loves me, he was the ...
A. 25 September 2011: Sex is sex. I mean a penis is a penis right. so really you arent missing out on anything except being used for a 1 night stand. If u are feeling the urge to have sex with a guy that doesnt care about you at all and will never call you back, make ... (read in full...)
Ever since we had sex, I am an emotional wreck!
Q. So i am 16 and i am a junior, and I have been dating my boyfriend for about 5 months now. We are very much in love, and he is extremely special to me, so a few weeks ago we had sex for the first time. I ended up having to take a morning after pill ...
A. 22 September 2011: I think you rushed into having sex. And for the things you are feeling and going through, are just due to the fact that you are feeling guilty. Tell your boyfriend what you are feeling and going through. Hopefully he will be understanding and not ... (read in full...)
Should I move on? am I being played? He's re-opened his dating profile. What could possibly be going on in his head?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am so upset and confused. I really appreciate any and all advice that you guys offer me. This might be a bit long, but I will really appreciate it if you stick in there and help me out. Thanks ahead of time. I've been dating my b...
A. 21 September 2011: I can relate to this. When I was in my relationship with my girlfriend I always did stuff that would make her mad. Stupid things, Kinda like playing xbox over her. She told me she didnt like it and of course I herd her. But I did not unde... (read in full...)
I sexted a girl when drunk and my girlfriend found out...
Q. I am currently in college and my girlfriend is back home. Over this past Labor Day weekend I took a train down to visit my girlfriend for our 11 month. Our relationship has had its ups and downs at the beginning. My friends told me most ...
A. 20 September 2011: Here is the email I sent her because I dont have a facebook or phone. I dont want to give up on her but I dont know what to say or talk to her. Its like our first date i was scared and could barely talk to her.. I feel like that I dont know how to ... (read in full...)
Am I cheater? Is this really that bad? I need help
Q. I was in a relationship with the girl of my dreams! She was seriously the most amazing person on this planet and we had so much fun together. I Miss her so much. I would kill for her and die for her in a second. She means the world to me. I wanted ...
A. 20 September 2011: I dont know if i should send her the link to this when everyone is basically bashing my head in the wall. I dont see how thats going to help.. Everyone seems to say about the same thing. u messed up, U emotionally cheated on her, take it as a ... (read in full...)
Am I cheater? Is this really that bad? I need help
Q. I was in a relationship with the girl of my dreams! She was seriously the most amazing person on this planet and we had so much fun together. I Miss her so much. I would kill for her and die for her in a second. She means the world to me. I wanted ...
A. 19 September 2011: I did like this girl as a friend. she did help me through a tuff time and well I did enjoy talking to her. I was never attracted to her. And my gf said the same thing out of all the girls u had to do this girl but this is the only girl (that was a ... (read in full...)
Never reached orgasm through penetrative sex!
Q. Hi everyone, I've slept with 3 men in my life. My current partner is 30 next month. I'm 22 years old and have always had a very active and healthy sex life. The problem is, I've never been able to orgasm through penetrative sex. I've tried all d...
A. 19 September 2011: My girlfriend and I had the same problem and she told me about it. I was actually in shock and it made me go online research and do all sorts of stuff just to get figure out how to giver her an orgasm. I actually really liked how she was comfortable ... (read in full...)
Losing trust... am I over-reacting?
Q. Over the weekend my husband got new parts for his computer. He didn't realize he was going to have to re-install his whole operating system and did so without doing a backup. Once it was too late he said, "I bet I lost somethings." But he doesn't ...
A. 19 September 2011: I really think your over reacting. Just because my dad has received pictures of his co workers posing with there heads photoshopped on like a really sexy body that doesnt look like them at all or a really young body when they are alot older... I ... (read in full...)
Guys are stupid, I am the king...
Q. I just want to know how bad this is. I was drunk and sexting a girl on facebook, I was not aloud to talk to her. There were rumors that me and this girl hooked up months before I went on Facebook, but we never did. now she thinks those rumors are ...
A. 18 September 2011: It was the first day of being on your own at college..... (read in full...)
I sexted a girl when drunk and my girlfriend found out...
Q. I am currently in college and my girlfriend is back home. Over this past Labor Day weekend I took a train down to visit my girlfriend for our 11 month. Our relationship has had its ups and downs at the beginning. My friends told me most ...
A. 17 September 2011: I have talked to her and this is what she said "l***** u broke my heart. u made this mistake at s** r***s party. and said it was a mistake and will never talk to her again. yet u do and its worse now.. i dont trust you one bit. and u know thats ... (read in full...)
I sexted a girl when drunk and my girlfriend found out...
Q. I am currently in college and my girlfriend is back home. Over this past Labor Day weekend I took a train down to visit my girlfriend for our 11 month. Our relationship has had its ups and downs at the beginning. My friends told me most ...
A. 16 September 2011: How am i ever going to get her to trust me again?... (read in full...)
I sexted a girl when drunk and my girlfriend found out...
Q. I am currently in college and my girlfriend is back home. Over this past Labor Day weekend I took a train down to visit my girlfriend for our 11 month. Our relationship has had its ups and downs at the beginning. My friends told me most ...
A. 16 September 2011: Thank you so much for reading this and responding... Some answers to your questions. I dont know how she got onto my computer and how she got onto my facebook.I think her reading that on my facebook when it was off shocked me the most. She stopped ... (read in full...)
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