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writes:i think im falling for my boyfriends brother!we went out at the weekend and my boyfriend went home poorly so i stayed with his brother, he walked me back to my house to check on my boyfriend but we ended up going back out, as we got into town we walked through a dark alley and he started putting his arm around me and grabbing my hand and wanted me to stay down there with him but to prevent anything from happenin i just carried on walking until he followed. he kept shouting me back but i knew nothing could happen then when we were walking home he kept putting his arms around me and cuddling me but touching me and pulling at my dress and rubbin my legs, i carried on walkin and he just kept pullin me back. He started telling me how much everyone he worked with likes me and that he doesnt blame them, i dont know what to do he told me his partner couldnt find out he walked me home and he also told his brother not to tell her but he didnt look into it i cant tell him because his brother is his best friend HELP,, ive been with my boyfriend nearly 3 years we're going through a real rough patch at the minute and to top it of ive known his fiance for 8 years were really good friends and theyve got a baby together help me please.x
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reader, KeighleySky +, writes (21 March 2011):
 I'd listen to DrPsych if i were you.This guy is a low life, and it does sound as if he's jealous of his brother. Maybe hes chasing you because he feels tied down and your not. He'll use you if he can, just distance yourself from him, if not physically then emotionally. Dont be alone with him, stay as far away from him as you can. He has a child and a fiance and yet he is chasing you, his brothers and bestfriends girlfriend. He is Not trustworthy. Even if your relationship with his brother is failing, stay away from the guy, you wont just be causing yourself pain you'll be hurting his fiance aswell.Hope i helped x
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (21 March 2011):
 Boyfriend's brother is one nasty piece of work. If he is pulling up your dress in public places then it suggests he doesn't have a great deal of respect for you. He is treating you like some kind of tramp who can be grabbed as he likes. Stay away from him. He is in some kind of sick competition thing with his brother and getting with you would be some kind of 'trophy prize' in his mind. He is perhaps jealous of his brother and this is his way of expressing it. The fact that he is prepared to compromise his relationship with his girlfriend and baby just goes to show him to be a low-life. You could never have a decent relationship with him...he would be down the lane with his brothers new girlfriend at the earliest opportunity. I suggest you stay away from him even if your relationship with the brother doesn't work out. Don't see this as some romantic mills and boon episode. The brother of your boyfriend has no integrity and is prepared to step over the feelings of everyone close to him to get what he wants...sex in your case, not happy ever after. It is telling that he has so little respect for his brother that he is willing to over-step the mark with you. This is supposed to be his close pal after all!
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