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How can I reduce how wet I get during sex?

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Question - (2 July 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 4 July 2010)
A female United States age 22-25, anonymous writes:

Okay, so I get extremely wet while having sex, almost to the point where I can't feel the pleasure anymore. My boyfriend tells me that I get too wet, but we continue to have sex anyways. Is there anything I can do to not get so wet?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2010):

*this is the poster

i'm not actually 13-15 i just picked a year. but its been going on for awhile now and my boyfriend says it might get better over time.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2010):

You're too young to be having sex. Your body doesn't know what to do. Stop before you get pregnant and ruin your life.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2010):

At your age I doubt you're feeling pleasure anyway. If you had any clue about sex and what you were doing, you'd understand that wetness is a good thing and not allow some guy to tell you otherwise.

Learn more about yourself and your body.

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (3 July 2010):

TasteofIndia agony auntWell, I don't think you can stop your body from producing what it wants to produce. But, you can not use lube (all though I assume you don't), and keep a towel next to the bed, so you can periodically wipe yourself off.

Good luck!!

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A female reader, prgirl71 United States +, writes (3 July 2010):

Keep a towel by the bed and do a discreet wipe before you have intercourse or find a guy who loves how wet you get. Half the problem is that your bf doesn't like it. If he loved it and got super turned on by it I bet you'd feel the pleasure more. ;)

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A female reader, KeighleySky United Kingdom +, writes (2 July 2010):

KeighleySky agony auntUsually wetness is a good thing, but i perfectly understand where you come from, i tend to be the same but rarely.

Try having little foreplay, and lube can sometimes cause the bad wetness affect so try not to use that.

Also if you do get too wet i always find that getting ontop ensures that it it still feels pleasurable for me.

Try that and i hope it helps :) x

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