Have you ever left someone even though you loved them deeply, since you just had different beliefs?
Q. I come from a big family. We were very close but I feel a little far from them now. My boyfriend was an only child. There is a birthday at least every 2 months in the family, and especially if it's the kids we like to have a party. There are also...
A. 26 July 2011: Single children often grow up expecting to be put first and are good at making you feel guilty if you do anything else. My father was like that and try as hard as she could my mother suffered a lifetime of guilt and grief. Sounds like you risk the ... (read in full...)
Is cybersex cheating?
Q. I have a cybersex habit. I had it before I met my wife and I still have it. I have a very high sex drive and my wife just doesn't keep up with me by any stretch. To me it is just a step beyond jerking myself off. In fact, that's what it is. Some...
A. 21 July 2011: I suggest you invest a little more of you time in making your wife happy, if you do it right the benefits will be far greater than you'll get from your cyberfriends.
For those of us with no first hand experience of a cyberrelationship what act... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 21 July 2011: OP, a great thread. The anon poster just below summarises very well the symptoms of obsessive behaviour. The causes can be varied. Reading through the threads and adding my own experience I recognise some distinct groups. 1. Contadicting beliefs.... (read in full...)
Husband says he didn't buy extras at a strip club, but he spent a lot of money.
Q. My husband went to a strip club (more than once) and spent alot of money. He says he had beers and a few dances, but no extras. I'm having a hard time believing his story, but don't want to end our 38 years of marriage, if he is telling the truth. ...
A. 20 July 2011: OP, I won't try and make excuses for your husband. All I can add is that men, like women, have moments of weakness and irrational behaviour. I ended up one night in a well known establishment with mates, downstairs there were booths with young women ... (read in full...)
Husband says he didn't buy extras at a strip club, but he spent a lot of money.
Q. My husband went to a strip club (more than once) and spent alot of money. He says he had beers and a few dances, but no extras. I'm having a hard time believing his story, but don't want to end our 38 years of marriage, if he is telling the truth. ...
A. 19 July 2011: In 2011 a guy visiting a strip joint is hardly a mortal crime. After a few beers with mates its not uncommon to end up at a strip bar. The drinks are expensive and the girls very quick at removing all available cash. If it was a one off with a group ... (read in full...)
He asked about my sexual history and now he's become extremely jealous.
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for coming up on 5 months. We love each other very much and have been discussing moving in together. However,last night we had the conversation of 'past' relationships/flings etc. Before I was with this guy, I was married ...
A. 19 July 2011: First you have my sympathy, only real experience with this can provide useful help and I think some of the comments posted sound a bit too judgemental. This is a very complicated situation and your boyfriends reactions are not unusual. Age has... (read in full...)
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