How do you initiate morning sex?
Q. How do you initiate morning sex? I always notice my fiance has morning glory like any healthy man but I have never had morning sex with him as I have to wake up about 2 hours before him for work. He comes home for a week or so in a few days and I ...
A. 19 April 2012: One of the best memories of my life was when I returned home with jetlag and passed out - in the early hours I was woken by a rock hard erection and my then fiance's warm lips rubbing up and down. Once she heard an appreciative groan from me she ... (read in full...)
My 31 year old fiance has lost his sex drive, how is this possible?
Q. ok my fiance is 31 and his sex drive has gone. how can this happen???...
A. 19 April 2012: OP, we need more info to give any useful advice. Is he as loving and kind as always but doesn't initiate sex? Does he have erection problems? Is there problems at work?
He should be your best friend, find a relaxed moment to talk gently about your... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is horribly selfish in bed!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for a while now and I dread having sex! Previously sex consisted of him pushing my head between his legs. He would lie there groaning while I gave him oral. He would rub his hand up and down my back, eventually when my ...
A. 12 April 2012: You don't say how old your bf is and if he is really young he probably doesn't really know what he is doing. If you can't talk with him closely and intimately about each of your feelings then why are you having sex it the first place? 2 strangers ... (read in full...)
Do girls shave their pubes when they have sex?
Q. I'm a virgin still at the age of 19, I've had plenty of flings but I'm waiting for that right guy to lose it to, and I reckon it will be soon. One thing - do girls shave their pubes when they have sex? I know this sounds ridiculous but i...
A. 12 April 2012: From my limited experience I would say that being shaved helps a woman get more feelings in the important areas! Or maybe it just makes it easier for a guy to know what he's touching lol!
I would recommend a waterproof battery trimmer - a bit like... (read in full...)
Is my high sex drive normal for a 47 year old male?
Q. I'm a 47 year old male and I've been seeing the same girl for about four years now. It seems as if my sex drive is only increasing in intensity, although I have always had a high sex drive. Is this normal for a man my age? We have sex about 2...
A. 10 April 2012: The real question is does you partner have an orgasm 2-4 times a week? Sounds pretty normal for a healthy male.... (read in full...)
Do I talk about our drunken one night stand? Or let him bring it up?
Q. Ok, so I got really drunk and slept with my best male friend. This has brought out feelings for him and got me thinking about being with him. I have known him for years and although we have our differences and we both have other close friends,...
A. 5 April 2012: Drinking helps you do you wanted to do all along. It may let you do things you wouldnt do when sober.... Talk to your friend. Thank him for helping you get over your ex. Say that you are not a ons girl so he better invite you out soon! ... (read in full...)
Minty tingles while giving head?
Q. dear cupid, soo, i've heard that if you chew gum while giving head or suck on a breath mint or something like that right before you do it, the mintiness will cause a kind of tingling sensation for the guy. what i want to know is, does it actually...
A. 5 April 2012: Looks like it is everyone to their own! Toothpaste definitely gives a cool tingle but I am not too keen on it. Now a nice warm cup of tea in her mouth is heavenly! :)... (read in full...)
I am healthy, but have erectile dysfunction, without a reason, what should I do?
Q. I'm a healthy guy in my late 40"s. But I have some pretty disturbing problem, and I don't know what to do.So I have erectile dysfunction, and I have no idea why. I had a very high sex drive, but now, I have no wish to have sex at all, and when I ...
A. 5 April 2012: Yes definitely second opinion time. Have also heard good reports about cailis. Also, do work out? I had a bad spell and cut down coffee alcohol and bad food, started exercise and I feel like a teenager again, well almost!
Make sure you keep your... (read in full...)
Should I just have a one night stand?
Q. I'm a female in my mid twenties and haven't had sex in over eight months. I am constantly horny and masturbate almost everyday. I have never had a one night stand with a guy because I always feared stds and what not as well as my reputation because ...
A. 5 April 2012: Sorry for being negative but I know a few people that have been in your situation and they regretted it afterwards. And if you carry on there is a risk that you will only be attractive to guys that like ons girls. I don't think that is really what ... (read in full...)
She has destroyed my life with her sexual past that I never knew about.. Just to marry her!!
Q. Ive been married 13 years, have 2 children. my wife has been very good to me all 13 years. but never thought in a 1,000,000 years this would happen to me.. I feel like my marriage was nothing but a fairytale. So this is what...
A. 4 April 2012: Whats the issue here OP? racism, the number 5?, or the lie?
The only thing you have a right to be mad about is the lie. What she did or let guys do to her as a teenager obviously didn't damage her as she is such a good wife. Maybe it helped her ... (read in full...)
Was I wrong to discredit all the good we had in our relationship? Did I take it all for granted and basically throw a good thing away?
Q. Just wanting to know people's opinions.... I asked a question about this before, but there is new information now... My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year. From the beginning, he has been very loving towards me, tel...
A. 3 April 2012: He loved his ex and as you are discovering now it is hard to leave someone you love. At the beginning of a relationship there are often insecurities and the snooping you did is understandable. But then it sounds like he really fell in love with you ... (read in full...)
I need help to get past a bad sexual experience
Q. Hi everyone. When I was 15 I had my first experience with sex. It was with a guy that was a few years older than me and took advantage of me. I didn't want what was happening to happen but I couldn't say no because I was scared. When he asked if I ...
A. 3 April 2012: You need someone to help you work out what is troubling you. Whether you are angry with yourself for what you let happen, or angry with the guys that did this to you. I am sad to say that many young women have had similar experiences as you and it ... (read in full...)
Ended up having sex with another man while at my bachelorette party at Vegas!
Q. ***Before I begin, please don't judge me for what I did, I already know it was wrong, and I feel horrible*** I am enganged at an amazing man who I love very much, our wedding is about a week away. This past weekend my girlfriends and I went to Ve...
A. 3 April 2012: I am amazed in this day and age where sex is the cheapest commodity around and casual sex with total strangers is pretty much then norm that here on DC morality still has a chance, good on us, aunt and uncles, I hope the world is a bit better off ... (read in full...)
How likely is it to get pregnant if you use condoms correctly?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and we've both been wanting to have sex for awhile now but I am deathly afraid of getting preagnant and yes, we have condoms but I'm scared they'll fail and I can't get birth control because we have ...
A. 3 April 2012: If condoms were only 96% safe I must have over 20 children by now. If used properly they really do work. Cheap unknown brands can break, I think only sharp finger nails would break one from a reputable brand. More risk is from them coming off, this ... (read in full...)
Ended up having sex with another man while at my bachelorette party at Vegas!
Q. ***Before I begin, please don't judge me for what I did, I already know it was wrong, and I feel horrible*** I am enganged at an amazing man who I love very much, our wedding is about a week away. This past weekend my girlfriends and I went to Ve...
A. 2 April 2012: One more point, what about these girlfriends you were with? did they goad you on or were they all looking for a one night stand? You may get sympathy for the mess you are in but you did it. It is like a drunk who gets into a car and crashes into ... (read in full...)
Sent my FWB some pictures of me, should I ask him to delete them? Or should I trust that he wont show anyone?
Q. okay i don't really know where to begin, but i met this guy 3 months ago, and after talking for a few months, we decided to be Fwb( this was mid Feb) we have seen each other once since we agreed to be fwb although we have not actually had any sexual ...
A. 2 April 2012: Well unfortunately if he is the sort of guy that might pass your photos on then asking or telling will probably make it worse. You gave the photos to him so I think he has a right to do what he wants unless you explicitly made it clear they were for ... (read in full...)
Questions after taking emergency contraception
Q. dear cupid, a week ago today, i was hanging out with this guy that i used to "talk" to. we got a little carried away and ended up having intercourse. he didn't have any protection, and we don't think he came inside of me...buuut just to be sure,...
A. 2 April 2012: Well, at least you are not pregnant. You should ask the doctor or pharmacist where you got the pill about the side effects but it sounds about right. In future you should take responsibility for your body and always have condoms. And make sure he ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to spank your kids?
Q. My mother thinks im cruel because i spank my two year old. I am not ashamed that i do. I only spank him on the rump when hes doing something he knows he shouldnt do. For instance getting into the trash, taking silverware out of the dishwasher, ...
A. 2 April 2012: Generally spanking is a pointless act carried out due to frustration in the parent and teaches your child a very bad lesson. However with a two year old and potentially life threatening situations it could be a last resort. Probably pointless with ... (read in full...)
Did I have sex with him too soon?
Q. Sex too soon? I am a 30 year old woman who has been single for 2.5 years. I've never really been the type of girl who always had boyfriends (I've spend 6 yrs out of the last 9.5yrs single), though it's not through lack of trying. I'm at...
A. 2 April 2012: You sound like you are being too nervous and you have to try and chill a bit. Yes, definitely ask if he wants to do something, maybe at a weekend when you can do something together and get to know each other. Dinner and sex is fun but its not ... (read in full...)
Would stretching the hymen lessen the pain?
Q. Hi, I'm still a virgin... I recently bought myself a dildo. I plan on breaking it on my own.. also bought myself some lubricant as well and I just had a first session, but I did not break... At least I don't think I did. Now my question is.....
A. 2 April 2012: Well OP, there's a fair chance I've known a few more vaginas than you and the one thing that is for sure is that you don't push anything inside one until its owner is well turned on and there is plenty of lubricant, either from you or from a ... (read in full...)
Ended up having sex with another man while at my bachelorette party at Vegas!
Q. ***Before I begin, please don't judge me for what I did, I already know it was wrong, and I feel horrible*** I am enganged at an amazing man who I love very much, our wedding is about a week away. This past weekend my girlfriends and I went to Ve...
A. 2 April 2012: If both you and your fiance have a number of casual sex partners in your past that there is a chance that he can accept what you did. Any other situation and you owe him the chance to meet another woman who doesn't do what you did. If he meant that ... (read in full...)
I wanted to lose my virginity to another virgin, but they are hard to find. Should I use a prostitute instead?
Q. Ok, so my situation is that I'm a virgin, and I always wanted to lose it to another virgin, but I'm almost 20 and girls like that are very hard to come by, this is very important for me, because I wanted to be able to be each other first. I kn...
A. 31 March 2012: ...... continued from below, hit send accidentally.
Sometime looking is the hardest way to find that special person. Relationships happen when two people lives cross and decide to entwine. We try to go places where we can meet people but from my ... (read in full...)
I wanted to lose my virginity to another virgin, but they are hard to find. Should I use a prostitute instead?
Q. Ok, so my situation is that I'm a virgin, and I always wanted to lose it to another virgin, but I'm almost 20 and girls like that are very hard to come by, this is very important for me, because I wanted to be able to be each other first. I kn...
A. 30 March 2012: OP I too have tried to read everything on this thread. Miamine has just summarised the meaningful comment perfectly.
I think the reason you have got into so much argument is the way you posed your question. I interpreted your question as "I am gett... (read in full...)
Blow job with a condom?
Q. I want to give this guy a blow job but I can not stand semen! People tell me to spit it out but even the thought of having it in my mouth makes me wanna throw up. What should I do? Is it OK to give a blow job with a condom so that the semen doesn't ...
A. 30 March 2012: Do you want to give him a bj rather than have sex? To be honest I always prefer to put my penis in a vagina - for one there are no teeth - but my wife really gets turned on giving a bj so I consent. If there are any health doubts then a condom is ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my gf that my ex is pregnant when I'm not sure its mine?
Q. Should i tell my gf that my ex is pregnant when i'm not sure its mine? I have a grIfriend right now, she became my girlfriend in february, when my ex found out that i have a girlfriend, a few days after, she told me that she was 1 month pregnant and ...
A. 30 March 2012: Are you 100% certain about using the condom? There was no playing around before? i.e. Half way through you put the condon on? It didn't slip off or break? If your answer is no then it is really unlikely you are the father. Condoms when used properly ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is videotaping other girls at the beach
Q. Hi, I went on a vacation with my boyfriend to an all inclusive resort he brought a video camera and I noticed he videotaped other girls at the beach... He was panning in on their breasts and butts and just videotaping girls. There were other video...
A. 29 March 2012: Hmm, not many male comments here, I wonder why. I must admit to casually panning across a nice beach with my video camera. And modern mobile phones make videoing anything pretty easy. If you were there and didn't notice the filming then at least he ... (read in full...)
I wanted to lose my virginity to another virgin, but they are hard to find. Should I use a prostitute instead?
Q. Ok, so my situation is that I'm a virgin, and I always wanted to lose it to another virgin, but I'm almost 20 and girls like that are very hard to come by, this is very important for me, because I wanted to be able to be each other first. I kn...
A. 29 March 2012: Hey, older and experienced aunts and uncles, here we have the OP, a young guy, with a conundrum (sp!) about sex and virginity asking for help and all most of us do is load him with ridicule and sarcasm. Yes, we may mock his naivety, but the issue he ... (read in full...)
Is wearing a sheer or see thru bathing suit OK?
Q. My boyfriend (of many years) asked me to remove the lining from a couple of my bikini's, so that when we go to the beach they will be see through. I did this to one of my darker suits, the results being not too dramatic. More noticible on top, but ...
A. 29 March 2012: Yes do it, but first get you bf a really tight swimsuit and enjoy watching him deal with his erection on the beach! :)... (read in full...)
Looks don't matter, or, are men really this shallow?
Q. Well, I know that people always say that looks don't matter to guys, or that they're not the most important thing, but are they just being polite? 'Cause I read an article and it really made me lose a bit of hope in men... http://livingw...
A. 29 March 2012: My wife has small breast and cellulite on her butt and her answer was to have so much sex that my eyesight is failing! But seriously, nearly everyone has cellulite, and large or small breasts you are a lovely person whose real problem was the jerk ... (read in full...)
Could my husband really have went to a massage parlor and not have gotten hard?
Q. Here is my dilemma with some background: I've been married almost 21 years. Late last year I had sex with someone else one time. Felt bad and my husband could tell so when he asked I confessed instead of lying. He promptly kicked me out. We ...
A. 29 March 2012: It may well be that he made this up to get back at you. What you did was not good and telling him even worse. Did you not think he would be devastated? It would have been better if you had lived with your guilt. Now you need to concentrate more on ... (read in full...)
What are the biggest reasons for divorce?
Q. I was wondering what are the biggest reasons for divorce. Or I could call it cause for divorce. My husband is not intimate with me anymore, Is this very common after 20 something years of marriage? I know ,there are some marriage, what was ...
A. 29 March 2012: I agree with all post below. Living can take the meaning out of life! Can you get it back? Yes definitely but only if you both want to. You need to rediscover yourselves, both as individuals and as lovers. The first point is helped by getting more ... (read in full...)
I wanted to lose my virginity to another virgin, but they are hard to find. Should I use a prostitute instead?
Q. Ok, so my situation is that I'm a virgin, and I always wanted to lose it to another virgin, but I'm almost 20 and girls like that are very hard to come by, this is very important for me, because I wanted to be able to be each other first. I kn...
A. 29 March 2012: OP, your preferences, values, beliefs, wharever you call them are valid and at your age I shared most of them, still do to a certain extent. Somewhere you said you can't change them, which is also ok, so then how does using a prostitute fit in?
Y... (read in full...)
I can't let it go that my b/f had sex with his ex
Q. Should I split up with my boyfriend? To give you a bit of background knowledge, I started seeing my boyfriend after a drunken works night out and it very quickly turned into a boyfriend/girlfriend situation. At the time I was living with my b...
A. 29 March 2012: I think a lot of exes meet for for sex after splitting up, somehow part of the process when two people drift apart instead breaking up. Maybe your bf wasnt sure he really wanted to leave his ex? Even though drunk he was the one that called her - ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend shouts he loves me during sex, what does this mean? And what is the difference between making love and sex?
Q. Hi All, I would like some opinions please!! the last two times me and my BF have had sex, it seems different somehow. He kept telling me he loved me when we were doing it. When a guy says this during sex, does it mean he loves you , or loves th...
A. 28 March 2012: Well I always mean it whenever I have said it. But yes, you need more evidence outside the bed to know its really true. Try hard not to become as cynical as some women have though!!... (read in full...)
He got nasty when I got ill and couldnt have sex!
Q. Hi,I had terrible problems with my stomach including constant pain for a whole year and spent that time in and out of the medical centre. Then my condition worsened. For a while it looked like I was going to have an operation and I was absolutely ...
A. 28 March 2012: Sexual frustration can turn the nicest guy into a monster. This may be the reason your husband can be an inconsiderate jerk sometimes, but it certainly isn't an excuse for him though! If you really love him, try creeping to the bathroom early an... (read in full...)
Is there anything that can make up for a sub-optimal sized penis?
Q. If you are a woman who can have vaginal orgasms during penetrative sex (not g-spot orgasms), can you please tell me whether there is anything at all about a man that can make up for a sub-optimal sized penis during penetrative sex? E.g. for an av...
A. 27 March 2012: Oh good grief, I think most women join my wife in not giving a flying hoot where her orgasm comes from as long as it arrives before she is completely exhausted. And as for your sub-optimal penis OP, well join the club and most men are in it. The ... (read in full...)
Men..what do you want? Women..what turns your guy on?
Q. okay guys. i need to know what really turns u on. i want to get my bf really hard n to want me. okay we are pretty adventuris in the bedroom. we have done everything i can think of including anal and threesome. we've done lap dance, strip tease; now ...
A. 27 March 2012: The best sex isn't in the bedroom. Use your imagination.......... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is choosing to masturbate to porn over having sex me!
Q. hi i am 21 and my partner is 23. we been together 6 months but known each other 8 yrs. i am a mum to a 4 yr old. me and my partner used to have sex all the time.....about 4/5 times a week, now everytime i go to touch him or blow him he pushes me ...
A. 26 March 2012: Until recently I couldn't believe a guy would prefer porn to a real woman but you are the third woman to mention this in the last couple of weeks. It help much but I am sorry for you and can understand how bad you feel. I can only suggest that you ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for an attached man to pay for lapdances?
Q. Hi- I'm interested in guys' opinion on this one. Do ou think it's normal for a guy who has a gf to still go to strip clubs on the weekend with his guy friends and to pay for lap dances? I could understand the bachelor party thing and for single guys ...
A. 21 March 2012: Just as a point of order I would like to comment that as far as I have witnessed there is absolutely no physical touching but the girls are completely naked. Is it good or bad? After a few beers certainly ok! As I said earlier, all the girls I have ... (read in full...)
Can a girl get pregnant from being fingered with sperm on the fingers?
Q. so my girlfriend and i were having sex... i pulled out and came on her stomach... i got some on my hand which we wiped off with a towel and wiped off her stomach then about 2 minutes later i started to finger her again and fingered her for a while.. ...
A. 21 March 2012: Well aftet all the shock and horror posts the realitu is that it is very unlikely for a sperm to make it from the outside of the vagina to a receptive egg, but, it could. That is the wonderful thing about sex and the reason there are 7 billion ... (read in full...)
Is there any way to delubricate? I get wet easily.
Q. my bf and i. had a fool around kiss and touching. im scared that he finds out i get wet easily. if he kiss me i get wet easily. how will is stop getting orgasm and wet easily?? please i need some help!! and a dicharge after i get orgasm...
A. 20 March 2012: You getting wet is the most wonderful sign that you are turned on and want your man. Dont worry about it!... (read in full...)
Is it normal for an attached man to pay for lapdances?
Q. Hi- I'm interested in guys' opinion on this one. Do ou think it's normal for a guy who has a gf to still go to strip clubs on the weekend with his guy friends and to pay for lap dances? I could understand the bachelor party thing and for single guys ...
A. 20 March 2012: Most men, me included, wouldn"t consider this cheating and get absolutely no guilt about it although I am totally sure my wife wouldn't approve. It is very much a guy thing usually fueled with alcohol - and lets face it, most women have done a lot ... (read in full...)
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