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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:One day my husband mentioned to me he was going to get a will. Sometime later a lady called and mentioned that she was my husband attorney for writing of a will she said has he beeen discussing everything with me about the will and us coming together talking about what he and who he wants to give things to. I told no he hasn't well any way he came in from work and heard the conversation and snacthed the phone from me and was talking about later she said that remember you don't have to leave anyhing to your step kids but the will cannot be put in the house for your wife might get to it put in a bank or somewhere else ..later we argued because i asked are we going to talk he said no it's my will and i don't have to tell you anything wife or no wife you will find out after my death. Later, weeks later he mentioned in an argument my kids are going to my sister. i know you are wondering there is a lot not mentioned ...but our relationship is a loving one we have had our bad times but they came and went. My heart is broken inside to know he feels like this. If I was to write a will, why would i want to keep it a big secret of my wants with all i own ..to the one i love ...his will is over at his mother's house in her safe he told me later.but still he refuses to share it with me that is all i ask. Why would the love of my life do me like this? His property is my property from kids to furniture, bank account, you mean to tell me he gets to have his say with all we have since we acquired in our marriage....where are my rights ...just in case he does pull a wammy. Reply to this Question
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reader, Jendorset  +, writes (18 March 2007):
Well your right, for all you know, hes giving away things that you both own. This does sound really sinister. Perhaps he is planning to leave you with nothing, If the will was split equally to the kids or everything was left to you, then he wouldnt hide it. He could just want his privacy with his will, which he has a right to. But to keep it from and the manner he is useing, he is definately hideing something. Your his wife and you shouldnt stand for this, ask him what hes bloody hideing and why hes being so secretive.
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