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He never defended me, he has used things I told him in confidence, against me! What should I do about this guy?

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Question - (30 January 2007) 7 Answers - (Newest, 20 March 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

i have noticed a question on this site that i believe relates to me,well for everyone whom has judged me how about the truth. My xpartner allowed his xwife to call me the most disgusting words and never did he defend me,everything i have told him in confidence he as used against me as a weapon,he accused me of taking items from his house yet he wont reveal what they are,he has read my personal diary and accused me of flirting on line,yet he takes his fone to the toilet with him and its turned off if hes with me and its the same for his house fone only on when hes alone,always late by 2 hours or more arriving at my house,and this is a guy whom suppose to love me,he`s never given me 100% in the entire 3 years yet i gave him 101% and more

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A female reader, Jendorset United Kingdom +, writes (20 March 2007):

You dont make any sense laburnum. And why are you sending me messages saying i am immature for a 42 year old and calling me enid. My names jennifer and im 17. Bit of an odd one you.

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A male reader, laburnum94  +, writes (31 January 2007):

laburnum94 agony auntjendorset i know your the person who`s hiding behind ananimity. And you call me a coward.

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A female reader, Jendorset United Kingdom +, writes (31 January 2007):

This mans obviously just said that you were caught cheating so he can make himself look better. The fact is that hes a coward and cant stand to his ex wifey. Who wants to be with a man thats scared of his ex. Dont bother with him. We all know he talking rubbish, and even if you did cheat on him. It would be because he couldnt give you everything you needed. Just thank god you got out of this relationship now rather than later. You can message me if you ever want to.

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A male reader, laburnum94  +, writes (30 January 2007):

laburnum94 agony auntyou was on the phone shouting the odds at her,next thing you were in tears.she`s on the other side of the world,what could i do? I turn my phone off because ur suspicious if it ever rings. you showed me your personal diary.i was late at your house because you are overbearing and demanding. time for us both to move on.You was caught cheating,end of story.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (30 January 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntWell since he's an EX then you just need to move on with your life and hopefully if you find someone you won't have to waste three years of it before you find out he's another jerk. You have learned something here and you'll take it with you. Don't settle for less than your true love who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2007):

Yes, dump this thoroughly nasty man!

He doesn't deserve another second of your time and energy. Tell him not to call, email or contact you ever again. You don't owe him any explanations.

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A female reader, Jendorset United Kingdom +, writes (30 January 2007):

Dont give him any warnings. Just dump him. How DARE he accuse you of all the things he has. And how DARE he let his xqife speak to you in the manner that she did.If im honest i think hes still shagging her.

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