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anonymous
writes:Hi, well me and my b/f have been dating for 2 years, and we foreplay but we are BOTH virgins...and when i give him a hand job, blow job etc. everything is fine, but when he fingers me i get tight all of a sudden after the first minute and it really hurts, i dont know what to do, i've done it before with him and this was never a problem, he stops cuz he doesnt wanna hurt me, but i cant help but wonder if something is wrong with me, what should i do...
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reader, Jendorset  +, writes (23 March 2007):
I ment to say that nothing is wrong with YOU, not me. lol, typo.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys...really helped
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reader, Jendorset +, writes (22 March 2007):
Nothings wrong with me, all thats really needed here is lubrication and relaxation. You just need to not worry, and you need to experiment so you can find out what feels good for you.
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reader, Dos_Vinci +, writes (22 March 2007):
 Sex(all forms) are like being in the relationship itself. The key is communication. You need to talk while he's doing it kind of coaching. Also, never do it dry make sure to have enough foreplay and the right foreplay to get you wet, that believe it or not can be a big issue in this subject. A good way to start is by having him rub the clit a few minutes before inserting.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2007): I think at your age, when your body is still growing you shouldn’t worry about it. I went through a stage when I was 18 when it hurt too. I went to the doctor and they did some tests but everything was fine. After about 6 months it just went away. If you are worry though don’t be embarrassed to go to a doctor. In the UK we have special sexual health centers were you can just drop in. Maybe there’s something similar in the US?
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