Why does he behave this way?
Q. Iam a married woman and developed a friendship with a married guy in one of our projects.This guy is very religious, which actually made me his friend as i too have an inclination to spirituality. But every now and then he stops calling or seems to ...
A. 25 October 2010: He's avoiding temptation and wants to stay away from you but can't. It's nothing personal against you that he wants to stay away; it's him and his inner conflict with temptation.... (read in full...)
How can I know if she wants me?
Q. My neighbour lady is 35 years old. She is always showing her cleavage by bending down in front of me. I don't know it is accidently or not. We are also friends. I likes her very much and wants her. But i don't know if she wants me or not. How can ...
A. 22 October 2010: Make a move. Women know what they're showing, when, and to whom.... (read in full...)
How can I be hospitalized for my anorexia (please help me)?
Q. Hi I have anorexia and have been struggling with it for about a year. I was just a low enough weight to be put in hospital, but they didn't because they wanted to try other ways to help me recover. Now I've put on 10kg since then, and I have 4...
A. 19 October 2010: I'm glad that you realize the therapy isn't really working. Tell someone. Tell your parents or your therapist or anyone who can help you. Explain all the things you've just explained to us and that you need additional help, the therapy alone isn't ... (read in full...)
Dating a cop who behaves very strangely, should I flee??
Q. I am dating a cop... started out great, he told me he was crazy about me - dated a few months, we were very much into each other and things turned REALLY weird. On one date, he actually was a complete jerk -I purchased expensive tix to a football ...
A. 19 October 2010: He's not going to change and suddenly start being the man you want him to be. The longer you stay, the harder it will be to leave. His behavior issues are his, and no matter what you do to adjust to it or do the "right" thing to make his life ... (read in full...)
Is this just what girls do?
Q. My girlfriend have been having a rough time ever since we bought a house together 2 yrs ago. Recently we have been really trying to reconnect. We had a serious discussion of what we wanted and about making things work. One of the main things ...
A. 19 October 2010: It's just what girls do, especially if they're feeling really connected at the moment, maybe have a common problem or something else where they feel bonded.... (read in full...)
Why do you answer to these questions?
Q. I just want to know something, why do you guys answer to these people? what do you plan to get out of it? do you think "God" will reimburse you for your efforts and "love"? do you feel better by helping others you don't know? I really don't see any ...
A. 12 October 2010: I hope to make someone's life better or easier by providing words of wisdom, encouragement, and support to people who need it and are facing obstacles I've faced. Often by the time someone is posting a question on this site they have exhausted their ... (read in full...)
Oral sex question for the ladies... workin' on technique!
Q. So, I have a short goatee... not 5 o clock shadow just a tad bit longer that can create a nice maybe sandpaper feel lol.... do ladies like this if im goin' down on one? Like if I rub my trimmed beard against their clitorus? I'm workin on technique ...
A. 7 October 2010: Not this lady. I like to feel it on my face and neck while kissing, but I don't like it down there.... (read in full...)
She likes porn now... so what's the problem???
Q. 9m relationship - fantastic - my girl shes hotttt, crazy about me (brings a long stem rose to the airport), very very hot (did i say that lol - 50kg, great ass, cute waiste, etc) loves to dance, (when im with her), just a bubbly vivacious girl (and ...
A. 7 October 2010: It's not too good to be true. She's found something she likes, and it's just new right now. Don't do anything when you get back except continue this great thing you've got going. This is not a red flag of any kind...she's just a passionate woman who ... (read in full...)
Am I looking way too much into her text? Or is she giving me an opportunity to call her and talk?
Q. Hey: My ex girlfriend broke up with me about 3 weeks ago because I was studying for my medical boards (the 6 months prior) and she grew apart due to the time away (saw her once a month during that time and very stressful for me). The last...
A. 5 October 2010: You're not looking way too much into her text. Girls often want to explain themselves, get an explanation, and don't like things just hanging out there unresolved. Yes, she is giving you an opportunity to talk. If you want to reconcile, then don't ... (read in full...)
How do I smooth things over so I can be part of my neice's life?
Q. I just found out that my brother's girlfriend is pregnant. Her and I had a falling out at the beginning of this year over her cheating on him with our step brother. Well, he forgave her and they stayed together but she's not over it yet and is ...
A. 4 October 2010: Tell her that you are very excited about the baby and that you want to have a fresh start with her. Continue to be friendly toward her. Hopefully when the baby comes and she sees how much you love her, she will get over whatever issues she has with ... (read in full...)
I've tried and tried to get her back but nothing is working, what should I do now?
Q. i am 20 right now, and i used to be dating my best friends sister which he was fine with, but then one day for no reason at all she decided she wasnt interested in me anymore and i was left heart broken, i loved her so much and for the next month ...
A. 4 October 2010: Stop pursuing her. Stop going to your friend's house so much. Stay away from her as much as you can and try your best to focus on something else. She will come back to you if she wants to, and the best way to see if that's what she wants is to ... (read in full...)
If your fiance cheated before proposing, would you want to know?
Q. Would you want to know if your fiance cheated on you before he proposed...would you want to know before marrying, or would you rather remain "ignorant" if he is no longer cheating? Would you rather have honesty and a "true" relationship, or a rel...
A. 4 October 2010: I would not want to know.... (read in full...)
How should a FWB situation end?
Q. Hi there I have been in a FWB relationship for several months. A long distance one but we travel to see each other kind often. At the beginning he seemed really interested and now he is more distant and i start to feel cheap. Just not good enough....
A. 1 October 2010: A quick text saying it has to end is all you need to do. Be prepared for it when he doesn't contact you as well as for when he eventually does. It's not going to be easy, but the only way to end it is to END it. Tell him it's over then stop all ... (read in full...)
He cheated and got her pregnant; do I give him another chance?
Q. Okay. So me and my boyfriend been together for 8 months. We are very much in love and are the best things that ever happened to each other. The whole 8months of our relationship so far we've been keeping everything faithful and we trust each other. ...
A. 1 October 2010: Dump him now. It will only get worse, and you will wake up one day and wish you had left him long ago.... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I once had an abortion?
Q. Hi fellas.i need your advice once again.i had an abortion 4yrs ago (6weeks).even my then boyfriend didnt know i was pregnant(i missed my period,took pregnancy test then ran straight for abortion).i found an excuse for leaving my then bf.i gave ...
A. 1 October 2010: No, do not tell... (read in full...)
Is this a lost cause??
Q. For the past several months, I have had an ongoing "thing" going with a fellow colleague. We are both Senior Managers, both married, and yet whenever we meet, there is a clear spark. The way he looks at me is unsettling, and I find myself also ...
A. 27 September 2010: No. Do not pursue it.... (read in full...)
Do I get this massage from my teacher or not?
Q. Hey need some advice, my teacher has recently passed his masseuse course. And he gave out these 50% off vouchers to work mates. I was helping out in his class as I often do and I don’t know if it was in absent mindedness or not, but he gave me one. ...
A. 9 September 2010: He knew exactly what he was doing in giving you the 50% off voucher. Do not get a masssage from him. It's just icky.... (read in full...)
Would an amusment park be a good first date?
Q. hello i just need ur opinions about something, is it a good idea to take a girl to an amusement park in your first date ? i mean some games might be scary and the girls might not like getting that feeling in a first date lol but im just wonderin...
A. 30 August 2010: I think it's a GREAT first date!... (read in full...)
If I keep my cheating secret, will it come back to bite me later?
Q. What might be some negative consequences of marrying my fiancee without telling her that I cheated on her a year ago? We were clearly in a committed relationship back then, and I had sex with another woman--who you can say I had somewhat of an ...
A. 26 August 2010: As long as you've had no issues with this other woman since the fling, then I can see no negative consequences or ways that not telling her could backfire. If you're leaning that direction, let me advise you - DO NOT TELL HER. It's a non-issue at ... (read in full...)
I felt something was wrong so I looked at his phone, he does not know this, what do I do?
Q. recently my husband went on a trip with the boys. which he often does. I have always had great trust in our relationship. He called and texted everyday to check in. Upon returned, he asked if the washing machine was empty while he was still in ...
A. 24 August 2010: Whatever you think you saw, get it out of your head. Get it out of your head and don't look in his phone again unless you're prepared to deal with what you might find. If you confront him he's going to explain it away then be mad at you for ... (read in full...)
My wife recently gave birth to twins but it's driving me crazy that all I can think of is this other woman!
Q. Hi everyone I have a really big problem I just can't handle anymore. 5 years ago I got married to a woman, my first and only girlfriend I ever had. I really love her and always have. However about 3 years ago I met a woman I was wildly attra...
A. 20 August 2010: Try to invest the energy you're putting and have put into the other womn in your wife and twins. Although you've tried to avoid her, which seems only to make the longing worse, I think you should try harder on that front. I know from experience how ... (read in full...)
Is it out of line for me to ask to see the engagement rings he gave to his ex's?
Q. He's been engaged before and he still has the rings, is it ok for me to ask to see the rings or is that out of line?...
A. 14 July 2010: Yes, that's out of line.... (read in full...)
Emotionally isolated in marriage - the husband's fate?
Q. This is a question for married women I suppose. How can ur husband express his emotions, lead a full emotional life, w/o u losing attraction for him? I live a life like many husbands. My wife has many girlfriends, at work, in the neighborhood, fr...
A. 29 June 2010: Being honest and open with your wife is the only way to express your emotions to her. It's actually incredibly wonderful when my man shows his emotions and talks about things instead of me having to figure out what's going on with him. A man having ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's reason for breaking up doesn't make sense!
Q. My girlfriend recently dumped me but I can't seem to understand why. Her reason was that when she was with me she was happy but when she was not she was really down. This seems really strange and sounds like she is not giving me an honest reason why ...
A. 22 June 2010: I agree with *brea//babby...she wants to be able to spend more time with you and keep that happy feeling all the time, but for whatever reason she can't. Instead of battling the ups and downs and being unhappy that she's not with you more, she'd ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend that I cheated?
Q. Should i tell him that i cheated? i have been with my boyfriend for 11months now and about 3 months into our relationship my ex came over to mine to give me back some old revision notes, i didn't know what was happening but next thing i knew he ...
A. 16 June 2010: No, don't tell him. Don't think about the ex telling your current bf unless and until that happens...you can cross that bridge when you come to it. You may want to have a good story ready for if that happens, but do not volunteer any info.... (read in full...)
Is 18 too young to buy the sex toy called a "bullet"?
Q. Is 18 too young to buy a bullet? As in the sex toy. I feel like dildos and vibrators are for much older women - but I've never had an orgasm :(...
A. 15 June 2010: No, you're not too young, and you WILL have an orgasm.... (read in full...)
Does age matter in a fwb relationship?
Q. Last Summer, I pulled a 25 year old chick at a music festival. It was my first sex for about a year and apparently, she enjoyed it too. I'm only 19 and I think the age difference made it even hotter. Since then, I've been a sorta 'booty call' for...
A. 11 June 2010: Um...what? If she keeps calling then you ARE satisfying her and isn't concerned at all about your supposed lack of experience. You should try not to be as well.... (read in full...)
She may have cheated, but it was early in the relationship. What do I do?
Q. I have been with this beautiful woman for 9 months, it started out as an affair and the relationship has grown into a strong love for each other. I have lived with her now for 4 months. We are strongly considering marriage, but I have only one ...
A. 10 June 2010: Choose to believe she didn't do anything and enjoy the happiness you've found with her. Sometimes you just have to put certain things out of your head and move past them. This is one of those things.... (read in full...)
She has become distant while getting divorced. Should I wait it out, or see it through?
Q. I'm writing on here again because I've been seeing someone for the last two months and after things took a turn to become serious I'm now getting bad vibes from her. She is in the process of going through a divorce, (been separated since September) ...
A. 7 June 2010: See it through. Although she's been separated, the actual final act of divorce stirs a lot of emotion. Give her some time, and hopefully at the end of the week she will have some answers for you.... (read in full...)
Do you think more people get away with cheating than get caught?
Q. Do you think more people get away with cheating than get caught? What criteria do you think makes for a more likliehood of being caught or not? I've read some statistics sites that state that people who have cheated their partners didn't find out 70 ...
A. 28 May 2010: I think more people get away with it than get caught. Carelessness and greed increase the liklihood of getting caught, just as with anything else. If you do it once without being caught, then you feel more at ease to do it again, and so on. People ... (read in full...)
Can you give a BJ to a guy with a condom?
Q. Is it possible to give a BJ to a guy who has a condom? Like what if the girl does not want to swallow or spit out? Also, you can get STDs from oral sex, can you prevent it with a condom?...
A. 27 May 2010: Yes, you can give a bj with a condom. You CAN get STD's from oral, and a condom will help prevent that.... (read in full...)
If you're called a broad, does that mean you're fat?
Q. I know this has nothing to do with relationships but What does it mean when a someone calls you a 'Broad' does it mean you're fat? because one of my bf's classmate called me a broad.. ...
A. 25 May 2010: It just means a woman. You're not being called fat.... (read in full...)
Losing the love of my life and feeling like I've been played with the entire time...
Q. well this will be long so i appreciate anyone who actually reads this in advance... from the begining ill start, i met this gorgeous girl 3 years ago through word of mouth by her. you see i have been in a pretty successful band for 7 yea...
A. 22 May 2010: Whatever help and improvements it seems she's going through right now with this other guy, rest assured that's a show. You can put that aside. What you described is so much what women have gone through for so long. It seems as though we're always ... (read in full...)
She knows I don't like it but she does it anyway...
Q. my girlfriend and i have been together for about 5 months. shes my ex best friends gf (i kno not a good start already). i really love her and i kno she loves me too.. problem is, she tlks to a lot of guys! and i notice guys are always tryna tlk to ...
A. 22 May 2010: Let go of it a little. Stop yourself from saying anything negative to her about it. She will notice and may even stop hanging around with them so much.... (read in full...)
Who do I trust, God or my friends?
Q. So I have been in a relationship with a gal for over 2 years. we agrued alot. till 2 months ago I stopped. after nearly 5 weeks of not fighting or arguing with her, she decided its over... My heart feels broken. Had dreams of mairrage ect.. I believ...
A. 21 May 2010: Your friends don't have to live your life. Let go and let God. You have to completely let go of her, however, to allow God to take over. Continue to pray for guidance, as I'm sure you are, and your faith will see you through this with clarity and ... (read in full...)
Why has my husband gone off sex?
Q. What are the reasons for a married man to completely gone of sex? I really don't know what to think.. This is my husband ,after 26 years... Around 4 years ago ,he stopped touching,having any sexual feelings all together. Almost feels like a spell......
A. 21 May 2010: Same thing happened to me, overnight it seemed. One minute he's chasing me around the house, and the next I'm the one chasing, but no response. Can't tell you why, but I can tell you it's happened to others.... (read in full...)
Would a girl say yes when you ask her out and give you her phone number if she weren't interested?
Q. I finally got the courage to ask out this girl I've had a crush on for a while. She said yes but said she was busy this week but maybe we could get together next week or this weekend sometime. I asked for her phone number and she gave it to me no ...
A. 21 May 2010: TimmD has it right. I will add that we are flattered to be asked out. If she wasn't interested AT ALL, then she wouldn't have given you her number.... (read in full...)
Dreading the upcoming conversation about anal sex!
Q. Hi there, I just read a question where the guy was worried his girlfriend was lying when she said she had never had anal sex before....I'm about to be that girlfriend. I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months now and I really really love him. We ...
A. 19 May 2010: Don't tell him... (read in full...)
Had sex with a co-worker, should I tell my fiance
Q. My fiance has been in jail going on three months now, his date to be released is May 28th. I love this man with all my heart and soul. We have been through so much with his probation officer and his time. I was able to see him twice a week and talk ...
A. 20 April 2010: Do not tell him.... (read in full...)
Whats the difference between these quotes?
Q. I'd like to ask, are there any differences in meaning when you say " I don't feel I have a right to give you advice" and "I feel I have no right to give you an advice"? ...
A. 22 March 2010: No difference... (read in full...)
What relatives are my boyfriend and I on the family tree?
Q. if my grandmother and my boyfriends grandmother are first cousins, what relation are we?...
A. 12 March 2010: 3rd cousins... (read in full...)
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