After everything that's happened we want to be together again but I don't know if I can trust her
Q. Plzz help me i am in a very difficult situation.I was in a relationship for 6 yrs and i used to love her alot.I done everything for her everything.Both of our parent was ready.And i was very possesive for her.Everything was going great but before 6 ...
A. 20 August 2012: "I got her off my drugs (or so I thought)," This typo is very embarassing and laughable. I meant "I got her off OF drugs." I should reread my posts before I press enter.
Anyway OP, you should never resort to physical confrontation with your par... (read in full...)
After everything that's happened we want to be together again but I don't know if I can trust her
Q. Plzz help me i am in a very difficult situation.I was in a relationship for 6 yrs and i used to love her alot.I done everything for her everything.Both of our parent was ready.And i was very possesive for her.Everything was going great but before 6 ...
A. 20 August 2012: Wrong, OP. There is nothing you can say that can justify your behavior. You became physically abusive towards her. THAT is a THOUSAND times worse that what she did to you. And yes, I too have been with someone for a long period of time. I met my... (read in full...)
Are women put off by skinny men?
Q. I know everyone has different tastes and personal preferences, but in general, are women put off by skinny men? I'm 23, and while I eat like a horse, I just have never been able to put on any tangible weight, and have virtually little muscle a...
A. 15 August 2012: There's no such thing as "eating like a horse and not putting on weight". I know this because I use to be you seven months ago. A 23 year old, 165 pound male. Now I'm 189 pounds. I've been on a bulking diet and weight training for the last seven ... (read in full...)
Are guys immediate about pursuing a girl or do they go away to think it through before they make their first move?
Q. I am a very conscientious person and as a result I tend to over analyse and think my way out of things. when it comes to getting to know a guy I tend to hold back at first and observe his behaviour and actions rather than (like many women) pounce a...
A. 14 August 2012: Never try to convince anyone to like you. This is always a one sided battle. I've tried this several times and it never works. The only time it yielded results was when they thought they could use me for money. If they aren't willing to put some ... (read in full...)
Are guys immediate about pursuing a girl or do they go away to think it through before they make their first move?
Q. I am a very conscientious person and as a result I tend to over analyse and think my way out of things. when it comes to getting to know a guy I tend to hold back at first and observe his behaviour and actions rather than (like many women) pounce a...
A. 13 August 2012: Don't do the mistake MANY girls do and not show any interest. Girls seem to think that it's always the guy's responsibility to make all the first moves. I usually hate it when a girl will wait for me to show interest before she reciprocate.
My fi... (read in full...)
How should I deal with online friend who proposed to me recently, but was uncomplimentary about my face? Should we break-up?
Q. My friend proposed me last week on friendship day. I'm 16 and he is 18. I accepted his proposal and we started dating. We know each other from 2-3 months. We had never met or talked before. I never showed him my pic before. I'm suffering from marf...
A. 13 August 2012: Break up, break up, break up, break up. I don't care what he says or how much he says he loves you. There is NOTHING that can be salvaged out of this situation. I'll be the first to say that my LD ex was not the prettiest girl I've ever dated ... (read in full...)
Recently broke up with Bf. Who says he still loves me. Now his friend is interested in me. Is it too soon to go with the other guy?
Q. I recently broke up with my boyfriend, but he says he's still in love with me. And one of his close friends, let's call him X , recently was left by his girlfriend, but still has some feelings for her. So this brings me to my problem: I've be...
A. 13 August 2012: Do you have any idea what you're doing to these guys? You're jumping from one friend to another. Seriously, it's one thing to leave a guy but to also start talking with his close friend? Oh and I do use the term "close" loosely. I don't have any ... (read in full...)
I have been nothing but nice to her. What are the chances that she will start to like me sometime soon?
Q. There is this girl that I like who doesn't like me the same way back. (Classic, I know right?) I've been nothing but nice to her, and I try to smile and say hi when I see her. How much of a chance do I have of her feelings changing over the cour...
A. 13 August 2012: Haha, it's funny because I'm in EXACTLY the same boat as you. There's this girl that I like. I'm nice to her everytime I see her and yet I feel as if I'm nothing more than a potential friend to her. I honestly don't know if being NICE ALL THE TIM... (read in full...)
My brother left his wife for a younger woman -- and it looks like he's in over his head
Q. help! my brother left a perfect marriage with a woman who treated him like he was some kind of king. for a girl half his age. this girl moved in with him, she doesnt work. hes always taking her to the golf courses, takes her out to eat almost ...
A. 13 August 2012: Some people are just very desperate for love. They need to have the feeling of a very attractive young person trailing after them, creating the illusion that they still "have it". I know the feeling. I may only be twenty four but the same girls that ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend's behavior normal or did he just use me?
Q. Dear cupid I am in LDR with my bf for past few months. I stay in a different country cause of work. I traveled 2 weeks before to my place to visit my parents and my bf. We had a very good time. He asked me to buy him few stuff from here, whi...
A. 13 August 2012: Well there you have it, OP. He gave you his answer when you called him and in my opinion, he doesn't care too much about you. A REAL boyfriend would have taken the time out of the day to give his departing girlfriend a call. I can understand if he ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend's behavior normal or did he just use me?
Q. Dear cupid I am in LDR with my bf for past few months. I stay in a different country cause of work. I traveled 2 weeks before to my place to visit my parents and my bf. We had a very good time. He asked me to buy him few stuff from here, whi...
A. 12 August 2012: Well, to be honest I kinda have to disagree that he might be an intentional jerk. I've been caught in a similar situation like this before. One of my exs (when she was my gf) tried to get in contact with me but my phone was on mute. She left a ... (read in full...)
My fiance cheated on me because he jumped to conclusions, please help!
Q. My fiance were supposed to get married april 2013. I was planning a surprise trip for his bday in october. I have a male friend who is a travel agent and since it was a surprise, went through him to buy the tickets book the hotel. I paid him cash ...
A. 12 August 2012: Wow, I know it's already been said but this has truly been an eye opener for you hasn't it? Sure, to him it may have seemed like you were cheating but can his suspicions really be justified by such an atrocious reaction? I personally know guys like ... (read in full...)
What is your personal definition of love?
Q. Recently, a few of my classmates and I have a talk with this male teacher. He is 33 this year and neither married nor dating anyone. So we asked why isnt he getting married. And he suddenly got really quiet and just said softly "what is your ...
A. 9 August 2012: To me love is extreme pain and blinding care. Forgiving the unethical and suffering through absence of the prime subject. To me love is something that a lot would want to experience but very few can keep it alive. ... (read in full...)
My best friend's girlfriend didn't like our friendship and now he won't talk to me!
Q. I had a Friend who was one of my best friends. In fact he was more like the little brother I never had. About a month or so ago, he got back with his ex, who had cheated on him in the past. He said at the time, he felt like he was making a huge mi...
A. 7 August 2012: Let's be honest, would you like it if your fiance had a friend who was a girl calling him "boo" or "love"? I know you think it's unreasonable for her to think that you too have something going on but if anyone of us was in her shoes, we might have ... (read in full...)
I want to cause upset but it's not in my nature! what should I do?
Q. OK I've a dilema here that I need some advice on because i'm on the brink of doing something I may well regret. About 10 months ago I found out my now ex, who I had lived with and we had both talked about marriage etc had been texting/flirting...
A. 6 August 2012: I would have to agree with BondGirl72. If your were really done with her then you wouldn't need to know these sort of things about her. I KNOW my ex is a cheater. I KNOW she's doing the same thing to her current boyfriend that she was doing to me. I ... (read in full...)
He chose to be with somebody else, even though he doesn't like her!
Q. He wont go out with me because he says Im too good for him, that he wouldnt make me happy, and Id end up finishing with him. We both like each other alot, and everyone knows it. Im a model and I do get alot of attention. He is unemployed and has ...
A. 29 July 2012: I'm sorry but his story sounds like bullsh*t. I dont know any guy who would turn down a girl they like just because she's too good for him. He is obviously spinning game with you. It's either that he doesn't like you as much as he says he does or he ... (read in full...)
After everything that's happened we want to be together again but I don't know if I can trust her
Q. Plzz help me i am in a very difficult situation.I was in a relationship for 6 yrs and i used to love her alot.I done everything for her everything.Both of our parent was ready.And i was very possesive for her.Everything was going great but before 6 ...
A. 24 July 2012: You think the parents were wrong for calling the police on you because you hit thier daughter? From that statement alone, I can tell you have no remorse for striking her. You have no bussiness being with a woman if you display your anger in such a ... (read in full...)
I'm only friend material!
Q. Guess I’m looking for whatever advice I can find. I just don’t know what to think anymore. Here’s my problem. I’m a 26 year old guy and I get no interest from girls. Physically I’m 5’9”, 145 pounds, average build, blue eyes, and short brown ...
A. 23 July 2012: Haha, and here's your first lesson in not believing what girls say. I'm about to let you in on a little secret. . .THEY DON'T WANT THE NICE GUY! Trust me, I've been on both sides of the fence. I found that when I'm less caring and considerate, the ... (read in full...)
Guys, would you be disappointed to know that the girl you're dating had hair loss and wears a wig? Any ladies out there who have gone through this?
Q. This is a question for guys mainly (or for any girls in my situation or who have been in my situation). I have androgenetic alopecia, I'm 23, so I feel I'm too young for this! :( Anyway, for those who don't know, it means I'm losing my hair. ...
A. 23 July 2012: I personally would be disappointed. Not because she doesn't have long luxurious hair, but because she didn't feel secure enough to show me her real side. To be honest, I'm a guy who isn't really picky with what her real hair looks like. I've dated ... (read in full...)
Should I contact an ex who's been in an accident?
Q. My ex-girlfriend broke up with me almost a year ago. At first, I had a hard time dealing with it and even tried to get her back a couple of times to my own detriment. I finally gave up and haven't spoken to her in several months. Yesterday, a mutual...
A. 23 July 2012: No, in my opinion it could be a very bad idea.
Example-
My mother was in a bad accident a few days ago. I was at work. When I heard about it, I rushed to the hospital to see her. My ex was already there by her side. I was furious and joyf... (read in full...)
Was my note to a co-worker I like too slutty?
Q. I've been working at this place for about 4 months. About 2 months ago a new guy got hired. I thought he was cute from the first day and always said hi and kind of casually flirted. Recently we've been working together a lot and I've heard through ...
A. 22 July 2012: Ps. It's also funny that the females responses say that it was too much and the guy replies thought it was perfect. Just goes to show you that women don't really know men after all, lol.
The note was great. He'll definitely come around if he tr... (read in full...)
Was my note to a co-worker I like too slutty?
Q. I've been working at this place for about 4 months. About 2 months ago a new guy got hired. I thought he was cute from the first day and always said hi and kind of casually flirted. Recently we've been working together a lot and I've heard through ...
A. 22 July 2012: I honestly wish more women would do this! I'm sick and tired of this mentality where most women think it's the guy's responsibility to woo her. I'm ok with doing it most of the time, but we guys want to feel wanted as well. We want to feel desired. ... (read in full...)
I want my boyfriend to look "girly" during sex
Q. okay here goes! I want my boyfriend to wear black eyeliner (around the entire eye) and have sex with me. just once. maybe very occasionally since it's very weird but it's a fantasy i want fufilled! i don't know how he's going to feel about this, ...
A. 19 July 2012: You should just ask him. The weirdest thing my girlfriend ask me to do during sex was wear a skirt. She had a fleeting moment of shemale fetish. I did. . .Because I loved her and wanted to fulfill her fantasy. . .also she swore no one would know.
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I did the wrong thing. but so did she by flirting and cheating. Where do I go from here with the relationship?
Q. Hi, i have been in a relationship with this girl for 3 good years. i recently started suspecting something as she never wanted me to touch her phone. i kept it cool till one day i decided to just grab it and see what was the reason. what i found wa...
A. 14 July 2012: Dude, not cool. You dont deserve her forgiveness. You put your hands on her. I think you should let her go. As a man I can never respect another man who hit a woman. You.are scum, plain and simple. I hope she finds a good man who can treat her ... (read in full...)
My friends broke up and I like the guy. Do I go out with him? I don't want to hurt her
Q. Where to start.. A couple I am friends with broke up a couple of weeks ago. I have been friends with the guy for just over 3 years and have been pretty much best friends with the girl since she moved to town about 2.5 years ago. My problem is the g...
A. 2 July 2012: I'm not sure if any females are wiser to the fact that. . .GUYS USE THEIR EX'S BEST FRIENDS TO CUT THEM DEEP. There are many guys out there that would admit (to another guy) that the best way to get back at thier ex is to date her best friend. Yo... (read in full...)
HELP! I think my boyfriend's brother has a crush on me!
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 7 months and I love him so much! But we went on a date recently and his younger brother and friend dropped us off. No biggy. That's normal. The real problem was when his brother picked us back up. I was ...
A. 1 July 2012: I'm thinking the same thing as the first poster. How old is the YOUNGER brother if he can drop you guys off and pick you up? Also, just because a guy decided to be nice to a girl doesn't mean he has a crush on her. It could just mean he had a good ... (read in full...)
How do I get my online LDR girlfriend back? She broke up with me because she said being gay was against her faith.
Q. i'm lesbian and two weeks ago my girlfrind broke up with me after nearly three months. Its a long distance relationship. At first our relationship was great but there were issues. She'd tell me i upset her or made her angry because i didn't a...
A. 29 June 2012: I would let her go for good. To be honest it sounds as (if she's using religion as a crutch to end this relationship. She was religious before she met you so why bring it up now? She realized that she wasn't truly happy with you so instead of ... (read in full...)
Any advice on how to handle these unwanted situations?
Q. I m 19 years old and I m constantly hit on by men the age of my dad or even older. My dad is 46. It's not just sometimes they hit on me, it's a ratio of 80/20 comparing to guys my age group. Not only it's embarrassing for me, I also don't know how...
A. 28 June 2012: To the OP, no it is not disgusting to ALL young girls. It isn't fair of you to assume that. I know girls personally who like older guys. At my work place, there's this 21 year old who absolutely loves this 40 year old guy. There's also this young ... (read in full...)
Everything I do seems to be yet another painful reminder.
Q. So here is my situation: I got dumped exactly one month ago, by my girlfriend of two years, who I dated throughout high school and into university. It was completely unexpected,I had no idea what was coming up, she simply stated that she didn't ...
A. 27 June 2012: I too have been down this road before, TWICE. I know how difficult it can be to let go of that person that seemed to be THE ONE. I know how agonizing it feels to be replaced so easily. You must be aching tremendously on the inside. I'm afraid ... (read in full...)
Should I just consider her gone from my life forever?
Q. My ex now broke up with me like 3 months ago and is now with someone else but still think about here every day and i'm not sure if is hould contact her because before when i emailed her she didn't reply and she delated me from facebook. and has ...
A. 26 June 2012: Consider this a blessing dude. Not many of us have the luxury of having our ex disappear completely from our lives. I know it may not feeling like a gift, but think of her feeling the exact same way she does now (not loving you) and still seeing h... (read in full...)
Is this the right mindset?
Q. I'm not too into relationships. In fact, I don't even think I mind if I never have another relationship again. After my last relationship with a girl I dated for 3 years, I'm not too eager to jump back into one. I find myself not attracted to the ...
A. 19 June 2012: "Think of yourself before and after OP, if you're different now than you were then that means the relationship is still effecting you and you're still not over it." Nope, I'm pretty much the same. There is only a handful of girl I actually find ... (read in full...)
Is this the right mindset?
Q. I'm not too into relationships. In fact, I don't even think I mind if I never have another relationship again. After my last relationship with a girl I dated for 3 years, I'm not too eager to jump back into one. I find myself not attracted to the ...
A. 19 June 2012: I'd have to disagree, Cindycare. I know for a fact that I am over my ex. She has tried to get into contact with me but I have yet to reply to any of her messages. Infact, seeing pictures of her barely ignites the warm feeling I use to have with ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend asked me for a mmf threesome with my bestfriend
Q. My girlfriend's engaged friends starting having threesomes and this sprung curiosity in her.but As a result, she told me that she would like to have one with my best friend. I admit immaturity in my response, but I flipped the fuck out because the ...
A. 17 June 2012: I WOULD NOT DO IT. I've had a friend who went through this exact situation. She had a FMM with her boyfriend and one of his close friend's. At first he thought it would be adventurous. Well, that was one of the biggest mistakes in their ... (read in full...)
I'm feeling extremely insecure about my girlfriends stripper past and it's tearing apart our relationship. What can I do?
Q. Well, to start off me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost a year now, and all of a sudden her past is bothering me. When we started dating, she told me she was a stripper. No big deal I thought, and I shrugged it off and told her it didn't ...
A. 13 June 2012: You may not have been one of the lucky few to see her naked. You may indeed be 1001 in the line of men to touch her. But if my calculations are right, you ARE the lucky one who gets to be intimate with her without paying. And that my friend is a ... (read in full...)
This girl wont text me back..what should I do?
Q. I meet this girl online and she gave me her number to text her so i did and we had a nice little chat then i asked her if she wanted to meet in person she said yes and she also said she is available all the time and I then said how about this wee...
A. 11 June 2012: To be honest, It sounds like it was WAAAY to soon to ask her to meet in person. You said you had a nice LITTLE chat then you asked her to meet in person? I don't think it was enough time to build up a solid trust in the friendship. The internet is a ... (read in full...)
Is drinking too much pop bad?
Q. i am 16 and i drink a lot of pop...a lot of people say its bad to drink it,so i'm not sure if i should be drinking it...sometimes i have 1 or 2 cans a day...is that bad?...
A. 10 June 2012: Yes it is bad for you. I stopped drinking it altogether over a year ago when I noticed my face was breaking out into pimples. I haven't drank a can yet since then and my skin is pimple free. ... (read in full...)
I'm jealous of my friend! Its not fair that she gets the perfect boyfriends, the perfect looks, the happy life, everything!
Q. So, I have this friend, and basically I'm really jealous of her. She's drop dead gorgeous. She's a model, and it seems like she gets everything she wants. On top of that, she's probably the sweetest, funniest, most caring person anyone has ever ...
A. 8 June 2012: Hahah, welcome to the story of my life. My friend is exactly the same as yours. He gets all the girls that turns me down. He even gets them to post half nude pics of themselves and send it to him. I couldn't even get them to stop for a conversation. ... (read in full...)
I'm embarassed that he rejected my friend request and acted like h didn't know me
Q. i met a guy in my college...my friends said that he liked me...he would stare at me often..we had many eye contacts and smile exchanges..bt we hadnt talkd.. i really wantd to be friends with him and even more... then our clases ended.. i sent him a ...
A. 8 June 2012: Um, it might be a simple thing as WHAT your facebook pic was at the time you sent the friend request. You did say that you and him never talked so maybe you guys haven't had a proper face-to-face yet. He probably didn't recognize the pic of the ... (read in full...)
I walked out of the room, came back and my friend was having sex with the guy that I like!
Q. so there was this boy who liked me and i felt the same way but we never really acted on it.so recently i invited him over to my place and we ended up sleeping together.so later my bestfriend came over and we were just chilling when i went to get ...
A. 7 June 2012: You're kidding right? How could SHE do this to you? It doesn't sound as if you're putting much blame on the guy at all. In fact, you make it sound as if it wasn't his fault a girl came on to him. He had no free will right? He couldn't possibly ... (read in full...)
Was I wrong for letting my 17 year old daughter sleep in the same bed as her male best friend?
Q. I let my daughter's male best friend sleep in her bed with her - am I a bad mother? My daughter and her best friend are 17 and I completely trust my daughter's trust in him. I know she wouldn't do anything because she's too insecure for anything ...
A. 6 June 2012: Speaking from experience, it could be intercourse waiting to happen. I was in the exact same situation a couple years back. I traveled to new york for the summer to visit my 16 year old girl friend, I was 17. Her mother LOVED me and trusted me with ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to be single and happy?
Q. Hi everyone, just looking for some advice from anyone who's been in a similar situation. I'm single and have been for a while, which does particulalry bother me, except a lot of my friends have recenently got into relationships and im starting to ...
A. 2 June 2012: Yeah, you can definitely be single and happy. I use to think that I needed. A girlfriend to feel fulfilled in life. That was until I actually got one. Sure, we had fun times, but I didn't enjoy the times after she cheated. The constant worrying ... (read in full...)
My friend likes the guy I'm dating and told me not to get with him, so how do I tell her that we are together?
Q. Last month I ran into a guy I went to high school with that I have not seen in ten years. We exchanged phone numbers an have been seeing each other ever since. We have a lot in common and I have never been happier. My problem is that a week before I ...
A. 31 May 2012: I'm curious as to know how you guy are falling for the same guys over and over. It sounds like you two are going mainly on physical attraction, which also tells me that you didn't know the guys on a deeper level prior to liking him. Also, Like ... (read in full...)
My friend likes the guy I'm dating and told me not to get with him, so how do I tell her that we are together?
Q. Last month I ran into a guy I went to high school with that I have not seen in ten years. We exchanged phone numbers an have been seeing each other ever since. We have a lot in common and I have never been happier. My problem is that a week before I ...
A. 30 May 2012: Well, to be honest, A TRUE friend would let the guy go in favor of her best friend. They say girlfriends and boyfriend come and go but a real friend is hard to come by. It sounds like neither of you are great friends at all. You already knew you... (read in full...)
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