They say you shouldn't settle but if you don't, maybe you end up alone??
Q. Trying to keep this really short... Fell for my female best friend, really heavily. She didn't feel the same. We've kept the friendship and are very close and I couldn't imagine life without her (she has said same to me). I have tried dating ...
A. 10 April 2012: 1.She CAN see a life without you in it. She only said she couldn't to keep from hurting your feelings. If she doesn't love you the same way you love her then it's not hard to imagine a life without you.
2.You compare many women to her because ... (read in full...)
FWB relationships: would the man never date you because you're not his type and he just wants sex?
Q. I had a FWB relationship for over a year, very easy going no love job or complicatiions It just fizzled out and that was it. I get a random text sometimes. Today I bumped into him for the first time, I was in a rush but he spoke so I stopped for a ...
A. 10 April 2012: There are different kinds of FWBs. I've had some who I would date but the circumstances weren't ideal, only sex was. And then there was FWBs that I could never see myself dating but I did lust for them physically.
It really depends on the acti... (read in full...)
Men & Women: How long have you gone without sex?
Q. How long have you gone without sex with another person? ...
A. 9 April 2012: Three months. The last time was with my ex when we had 'goodbye' sex. It was actually the best sex we ever had. It lasted longer and there was a lot more affection involved. Unfortunately, we already know the sex between us were good, our ... (read in full...)
It took a lot for us to get together, and now her feelings for me seem to have faded away
Q. Hello everyone, I'm so sorry for making this a long read but I must tell someone. When I was 15 I met a girl on an online game. I had a crush on her but she lived too far away. She on me as well but thought I wouldn't like her like that. Seve...
A. 7 April 2012: Unfortunately, I will have to agree with the first two posters on this. I've been in a similar situation just over a year ago. I know exactly how you feel, man. You feel like she truly wanted you instead of him. That she only stuck with him because ... (read in full...)
I have red hair & very fair skin, I am always the subject of jokes, do people really find this unattractive??
Q. Okay so I am cursed (or blessed depending on how you look at it) with naturally red hair and super pale skin(even if I get sunburnt it just becomes even paler) and I was wondering if people actually find this to be such a bad thing. I have had to ...
A. 5 April 2012: Are you kidding?? I think pale skin and red hair is hot! It's unique, one of a kind, simply hard to find. People like to make fun of you because you stick out, they blend in. They don't like when someone looks too different from the herd. Take my ... (read in full...)
What are the meanings behind a guy's hug?
Q. What are the different types of guy hugs and their meanings? ...
A. 3 April 2012: Well, I guess everyone is different with the hugs they give to people. I give side hugs (hip to hip, shoulder to shoulder) to people I'm not particularily interested in. i give dude hugs (right shoulder to his left shoulder and shaking hands) to guy ... (read in full...)
I don't think I want to keep a tennis buddy who doesn't trust me with her phone number
Q. I met this woman in a tennis class about 6 months ago. We've been playing tennis on and off since then. We exchanged e-mail addresses, and I e-mailed her my cell phone # but she didn't give me hers. Recently she stood me up for a tennis game, and...
A. 3 April 2012: Why is it so important for you to have her number? It doesn't seem like a big deal that she refused to hand hers over to you. Maybe she has a past of men abusing the privilege of having her number. Maybe she now thinks you're trying to make a move ... (read in full...)
My wife has finally had enough of me, but I have finally come to my senses! Is it possible to win her trust and love back?
Q. My wonderful wife is ready for a divorce after many year of neglect. I have cheated multiple time and it has nearly killed her emotionally, I cant imagine why she has stuck with me this long but, its coming to an end. She is ready for a divorce. ...
A. 3 April 2012: Even if it was possible to win her back, I hope you don't find it. Sorry to say, but I believe there are way too many men out there that can treat her better than you ever did. You don't deserve a good women when all you ever thought about was ... (read in full...)
The three-way relationship seems to be slowly excluding me.
Q. Need advice on a three way relationship. I am a straight guy dating a now bi girl, another girl came into our life and we both took her into our relationship. Only she's more gay than bi so her and my gf spend a lot more time together than I do with ...
A. 29 March 2012: I would have to agree with iAmHereToHelpYou.
It must have sounded great on paper or even in words. Two girlfriends, no boundaries, right? You can't cheat if they both agree to share you, right? I bet you didn't think about them taking off with eac... (read in full...)
My boyfriend will be in prison anywhere from 15 years to life. How do I handle it?
Q. My boyfriend is doing 15 to life he has no specific time for release I love himi just don't know how to handle it can u help? ...
A. 29 March 2012: This one is easy. MOVE ON. There's nothing you can expect from a guy locked up for the rest of his life. . .or even most of it. You would most likely be in your sixties if he was to get out in fifteen years. Do you really want to waste such precious ... (read in full...)
How can I tell if a girl could be potentially checking me out?
Q. Hey aunts. I need some SERIOUS help. I'm having trouble telling if a girl likes me or not. I've only had two girlfriends in my 24 years of living. I think the reason for that is because I never step out of my comfort zone. When I see a girl I like, ...
A. 27 March 2012: Thank you for all of your advise. I've learned a lot from each of your comments. Sometimes the fear of the unknown is too much for me handle but I have to realize I only live once and I won't be young forever. Time to get a move on!... (read in full...)
He is looking for his ex and pictures of other girls online....
Q. I need some advice. My boyfriend and I have been together since may 2010. We have had a very happy relationship, no one has ever come between us, we have never argued or had a "break". We have been totally content and in love since day 1. But ...
A. 27 March 2012: Well, in my opinion. . .IN MY OPINION. Looking up ex's through face book is no big deal. I've done it plenty of times for the exact same reason your boyfriend has stated. I wanted to see where I stood in life compared to where I was back then. I ... (read in full...)
I don't think I'll ever see my co-worker again. Should I leave him a note or forget about it?
Q. I want some quick advice please as this is make or break should I do this or not. I started a fun kissing thing with a guy I stated a new job with. It didn't come to much as he has a girlfriend. But i have really fallen for him. I was off sick for 2 ...
A. 27 March 2012: To laura_pops_87
Sorry if my response came off as a bit cold. It's a little harsh love from one your your uncles. I would hate to see another girl ignore the clear signs of dishonesty and fall into a trap devised by a man. You'll find someone ... (read in full...)
Why aren't men more loyal "til death do us part"?
Q. I know that Shakespeare writes that man always has "one foot on shore and one on sea," although he says it more poetically, and he continues that women must say, "Hey nonny, nonny!" and try to accept man's nature. However, not to disagree with the ...
A. 27 March 2012: To QuantumModulus
I believe that it's all about upbringings and their enviroment. I can honestly say that in my short life of relationships that I have never cheated on any of the girls I've been with. Though, every single one of them have ch... (read in full...)
I don't think I'll ever see my co-worker again. Should I leave him a note or forget about it?
Q. I want some quick advice please as this is make or break should I do this or not. I started a fun kissing thing with a guy I stated a new job with. It didn't come to much as he has a girlfriend. But i have really fallen for him. I was off sick for 2 ...
A. 27 March 2012: I completely agree with Wisdom. Your heart is so completely blind with attraction that you seem to forget that he kissed you while being in a relationship. This is certainly a guy that doesn't put much value on his partner. Yea, I know what you ... (read in full...)
He wants me to put me on ice while he plays the field! Should I hang around or walk away?
Q. There is this guy I really like and we are good friends. I like him more than a friend. He got out of a long term relationship last summer. His girlfriend left him for another guy. He has been dating but isn't involved seriously with anyone. He is ...
A. 26 March 2012: "It's like he doesn't want to take a step forward with me but he doesn't want me to walk away or end up with another guy either. This really sucks!!"
It's called having your cake and eating it too. He doesn't want to take a step forward because ... (read in full...)
I'm dating a girl who sleeps in the same bed as her male friend and doesn't see anything wrong with it
Q. This is a bit long winded but I just want to give you as much info as possible so bear with me. I started seeing a girl (shes 24, I'm 28) and we had been on like 3 or 4 dates. I was also seeing her most nights after work as we live very close. W...
A. 26 March 2012: I would definitely call it a day and move on with your life, man. It's one thing to talk to a different guy that fancies you. But it's a whole other level to share your bed with a straight man. I have NEVER slept in the same bed with a woman that I ... (read in full...)
I don't have a great sense of humor. Is this why I have trouble with women?
Q. Ok, here's the problem. As I'm writing this, I apologize if it sounds a bit ranty. I'm fresh out of the situation that made me. . .jealous. Right after work, me and my buddies stood around and talked/laughed for a while. We were having a good time, ...
A. 26 March 2012: Well. I would like to thank you all for your honest advise. I do have a problem with letting my walls down because I was emotionally devastated in the past. But I see that's only keeping me from moving on. I actually do envy my friend. I know there ... (read in full...)
I want my revenge!
Q. I am going crazy because of his sexual past. I think its because it happened while we were broken up. I feel as though, if he hadn't messed up the way he did, none of it would have happened. We wouldn't have broken up and it wouldnt have happened. ...
A. 25 March 2012: Perfect. I can answer your question with accurate honesty. That feeling you're having. You know, the sinister emotion that tells you "Why shouldn't they feel the same pain I feel?" I've been there. I've felt the pleasurable thoughts of inflicting ... (read in full...)
I just used her for sex so how do I end it and still look good?
Q. I started screwing, nothing serious, around with this chick from my job when I'm home from college. She was a rebound girl from my last relationship and i wasn't being to pick when i choose her. I'm not saying I'm a great catch but I'm way out of ...
A. 25 March 2012: Well dude. . . sigh. Just know this. Someday you'll fall for a girl that unfortunately was just using you to fill the void until her next REAL heart-throb comes along. Only then will you know how completely selfish of a person you were. Did you ... (read in full...)
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