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30-35,
*rahamssssssss
writes:I meet this girl online and she gave me her number to text her so i did and we had a nice little chat then i asked her if she wanted to meet in person she said yes and she also said she is available all the time and I then said how about this weekend she said maybe.I then texted her saying when would be a good time and she did not respond so i sent her the same kind of text the next day and still no response. I also have her as a friend on Facebook.Not sure what to do.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (11 June 2012):
 sometimes texts don't get through.
important things need to be done verbally with a phone call or face to face...
give it a few days then touch base by phone call if possible and see what she says.
but be prepared to accept that she was just online flirting which to some folks is a safe kind of game...
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2012): You could email her on Facebook and ask if she needs longer, or whether she has changed her mind. It could be that she is panicking about meeting someone new.
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reader, grymsoul +, writes (11 June 2012):
 To be honest, It sounds like it was WAAAY to soon to ask her to meet in person. You said you had a nice LITTLE chat then you asked her to meet in person? I don't think it was enough time to build up a solid trust in the friendship. The internet is a risky place as it is, but to take it a step further and meet someone you barely know anything about? Sounds way to risky for comfort. As a guy, you would find nothing wrong with this. But for a girl, all of her alarms would probably ring off on how this could be potentialy dangerous for her.You may have also came off as a bit hasty and desperate. Instead of chatting for a few days or weeks to establish a foundation of trust, you instead jumped the gun to see her in real life. She may have seen this as a sign that you weren't interested in talking but rather something else.Also there's the option of her not being who she said she was. Maybe the pictures she posted wasn't hers. When you asked her to meet in person, she paniced. Like I said, the internet is already a risky place to meet people. You never really know who you are talking to.
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