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| | *irstlovelastlove's profile:I have lived to see and experience a lot in my brief 47 years. Some days I feel 16 and some days I feel 160. Currently, I call Canada home but have lived most my life in the U.S. I am fully committed to my soul mate and moved more than 1,000 miles to be with her. The meaning of life is to love and be loved, unconditionally. Communication and sexual chemistry are the bedrock of a lasting relationship. I am a full time student of the love of my life and being with her gives the hell I've been delivered from meaning. I am not a religious man I'm a musician. But I do know God is God and through her He changed my heart and my mind and life truly is amazing. Early 2010 we both nearly lost our lives in a horrific car accident. To be alive truly is amazing and this is 'one of our songs'.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yGCLubIDPfE
Kim Mitchell -- Aint Life Amazing
I believe in God, pray often and know one day I will be judged by Him and Him alone. If I can help someone I do and if I can't, I know someone else will be put in their path who can. |
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I missed his call!! Do I call him back, now?
Q. Hi All, Please help!! I told my ex I loved him a week or so back by text, as I do and I miss him terribly!! Anyway, I felt a bit emabarrsed after I had said it by text, so I sent another one saying ' Sorry about the mad texts, I was feeling a bit ...
A. 1 March 2011: "he did not leave it with any arrangment, or whatever," He was on vacation and relaxing. It'd been a while since you called back. He was probably just seeing how this conversation went.
"am I expecting to much?" To expect a date from this tele... (read in full...)
I missed his call!! Do I call him back, now?
Q. Hi All, Please help!! I told my ex I loved him a week or so back by text, as I do and I miss him terribly!! Anyway, I felt a bit emabarrsed after I had said it by text, so I sent another one saying ' Sorry about the mad texts, I was feeling a bit ...
A. 23 February 2011: You sure do think a lot. "Somehow and stupidly, I need to know what;s going on in his life!!" I don't think it's stupid and I don't think you 'need to know' I think you're just curious. How much history do the two of you share? Are there children... (read in full...)
I missed his call!! Do I call him back, now?
Q. Hi All, Please help!! I told my ex I loved him a week or so back by text, as I do and I miss him terribly!! Anyway, I felt a bit emabarrsed after I had said it by text, so I sent another one saying ' Sorry about the mad texts, I was feeling a bit ...
A. 22 February 2011: "I'm actually starting to feel.... different, peaceful" Grab hold of this "peace" with both hands and don't let go. I'm happy for you!... (read in full...)
I missed his call!! Do I call him back, now?
Q. Hi All, Please help!! I told my ex I loved him a week or so back by text, as I do and I miss him terribly!! Anyway, I felt a bit emabarrsed after I had said it by text, so I sent another one saying ' Sorry about the mad texts, I was feeling a bit ...
A. 21 February 2011: "what's 'tag your it' by the way?" Wow, ok, there's this child's game called "tag". I thought it was a universal game but apparently I'm wrong. Here's how it goes: A little boy goes up to another little boy and touches him on the arm or back, ... (read in full...)
I missed his call!! Do I call him back, now?
Q. Hi All, Please help!! I told my ex I loved him a week or so back by text, as I do and I miss him terribly!! Anyway, I felt a bit emabarrsed after I had said it by text, so I sent another one saying ' Sorry about the mad texts, I was feeling a bit ...
A. 21 February 2011: What does this mean? "Sorry about the mad texts, I was feeling a bit emotional" I've lived all my adult life in the U.S. To me "mad" means angry. If I called someone and didn't speak to them it's "tag, you're it". Then if I got an email from ... (read in full...)
How do I tell him that I won't be around to grow old with him?
Q. I don't really know how to phrase this but I've come here for advice before and I'm really hoping someone can help me. I'm dying and have no idea how to tell my boyfriend. We're 18 and have been together for two years. I have been diagnosed with ...
A. 20 February 2011: If he were you, what would you want him to do?
Just so you know my mother was diagnosed with "terminal cancer" and far out lived the time she was given. Someone once told me a joke: How do you make God laugh? Tell him what's going to happen tomo... (read in full...)
My husband has been leading a double life, he promised he would go to counseling but is it just another lie?
Q. I recently found out my husband has been leading a double life. We have been together for 7 years. Married just 2 1/2 months. He has had a girlfriend for the past 3 1/2 years. He was a co-worker with her. She did know about me, but he said I had ...
A. 20 February 2011: I believe you want to save this marriage. His actions will tell you if he wants to save this marriage. If both of you want to save this marriage both of you will follow the guidance of a good marriage counselor and make the necessary changes in ... (read in full...)
Like being from 2 different worlds and dating
Q. I am a 30 yrs old girl, in relation with a 40 yrs old guy. He is divorced and since it's an issue in Egypt for Christians to be divorced i was shocked and disappointed in the beginning then i thought to give it a chance may be he is the right 1 for ...
A. 20 February 2011: From what I've read I don't think you're happy and I don't think the different religions have anything to do with it.
"He says he loves me" but "initiation by calling me, passing by to see me things like that....This should be the normal but i fi... (read in full...)
I'm 31, and I don't want a girlfriend right now. Why do others give me a hard time about this?
Q. Hi everyone. I am back and I've got a really important question. I guess all questions on this forum are important. It hasn't happened for a few months, which is good, but sometimes people insult me when I say I don't want a girlfriend. They either ...
A. 20 February 2011: "I say I don't want a girlfriend." "ask if I'm gay" "Should I never speak to them again? Or is that being childish?"
This used to happen to me. I just ignored them and was able to either limit my interactions with them or cut them off alto... (read in full...)
Mental health relationship problem
Q. Hi I don't know if I'm on the right forum for this but I need advice please..My girlfriend of over 7 years had a mental breakdown about Christmas time, her second in 12 years..I have no experience of mental health problems so I didn't see any signs, ...
A. 20 February 2011: You must be devastated to not be able to visit and comfort your sweetheart.
"I have no experience of mental health problems" "Since then she has been admitted to hospital I saw her twice but she didn't seem to want me there, she seems scared o... (read in full...)
My girlfriend likes to be held down during sex and pretend its rape?
Q. I have been dating a woman for six months. For the first 4, it was more or less normal. We both work in demanding jobs so it's taken a few months to spend enough time to become more emotionally intimate even though we've been sexually involved all ...
A. 20 February 2011: "I have been dating a woman for six months." "I even find myself fantasizing about women at work submitting to me; I always found these women desirable but never thought about forcing myself on them."
I ask myself 'what was I thinking about 7 ... (read in full...)
I missed his call!! Do I call him back, now?
Q. Hi All, Please help!! I told my ex I loved him a week or so back by text, as I do and I miss him terribly!! Anyway, I felt a bit emabarrsed after I had said it by text, so I sent another one saying ' Sorry about the mad texts, I was feeling a bit ...
A. 20 February 2011: Take a deep breath and call him. I can't speak for your ex but I think most men would agree the fewer words the better. Maybe say something like "It has been crazy busy for me. When can we sit down and talk?" And just wait for his answer. I wish ... (read in full...)
In love with a married man...what do I do?
Q. dear cupid, I been searching a sites that can answer my problem, i know that is common problem but i dont know yet the answers. i been falling inlove with a man that is married. we been dating and no commitment for this situation. Why he dont tell...
A. 20 February 2011: Everyone deserves the full and undivided attention of their partner. I would say take a step back and see who else is around you who can and will give you what you need and deserve.... (read in full...)
Is she losing interest in me? Or am I over reacting?
Q. Hiya - I have been dating a girl for a year. It has been a wonderful year. I have noticed (or maybe I am reading into things) that she seems less interested. She has always been very generous with her feelings. We don't live together but try and see ...
A. 20 February 2011: From what you've written I would say you are a romantic. Her? Not so much at the moment. "she says she loves me and actualy wants me to move in and marry her!" Do you think she is telling you what you want to hear or was she the one to first ... (read in full...)
Should I consider dating my deceased cousin's husband?
Q. My cousin died of cancer two years ago. She was married with four adult children and a teenager. Recently at a family gathering, her husband expressed interest in dating me. We have no prior history as I have lived across the country and moved back ...
A. 20 February 2011: "I am unsure how my family will react or their children for that matter. Should I consider going out with him?"
It has been my experience that some people will be happy for you and some people won't. Other people simply won't care. What is ulti... (read in full...)
I want my wife back...what should I do?
Q. My wife and I have been married for 4 years and have 1 child together and a stepson. We had our ups and downs. I love my wife more than anything in the world besides the kids. This makes the second time that she kicked me out and this time it has ...
A. 20 February 2011: "Most of our arguments was over not having enough money which i was the only 1 working." "she went back with her ex and just recently announced that she is engaged. We are still married" "This makes the second time that she kicked me out" She co... (read in full...)
How do I get over all my securities? My guy says this could ruin our relationship if I can't
Q. how do i get over my insecurities? My insecurities hold me back from a lot of things as far as my relationship with my boyfriend. i feel embarrassed at times when we make love and when we partake in other intimate activities. he constantly tells me...
A. 20 February 2011: Beauty truly is in the eye of the beholder. I would say without a doubt that when you look at yourself in the mirror you do not see what he sees. If only we could see each other through our partner's eyes. While I am not insecure about the way I ... (read in full...)
I would like her back. But will she ever realise how good she had it?
Q. If i treat a girl like a princess and she thinks it's weird, because she has never been treated like this, will she come back?. I have cut all contact if she texts me, i don't respond. will she ever realize what she had? Will she ever come back...
A. 20 February 2011: "i treat a girl like a princess" "if she texts me, i don't respond." You wouldn't respond to a "princess"? I would start responding with either a happy face or something "short and sweet". I'd keep your texts light and fun. Humor goes a long way. ... (read in full...)
What do I say on a date?
Q. I'm going on a date. I don't know what I'm going to say. My dad says I should just say, "Tell me something about you," but I still don't know what I'm going to say. I actually never went on a date. Help! ...
A. 20 February 2011: First date, hundred and first date, this is something fun my baby girl and I do. If you go to a place where there are lots of people, point out a couple and say something like "I bet she's telling him ___ please don't order beer, you know what beer ... (read in full...)
Husband of 12 years admitted to an affair and a child
Q. my husband of 12 years have an affair. i confronted him and he admitted. he have a child there. this is the worst thing. he asked for forgiveness from me. i love his so deeply and i want him back and lead a happy family life with our only son who is ...
A. 19 February 2011: The way I see things what's done is done and realistically thinking about the future will give you some comfort. You say it's only been two weeks and I can't imagine what you must be going through. It has to be a miserable time in your life but ... (read in full...)
She dumped me all of the sudden, I'm not sure what to believe!
Q. My fiance had cheated on her husband and divorced. She still says the ex is her soul-mate. AFTER WE WERE ENGAGED! All the sudden she said we were through. She wants no contact anymore. Just 2 days prior we had sex and fun. But she couldn't sleep ...
A. 19 February 2011: Being "men of a certain age" I'm sure you know love means different things to different people. You say she was a "bad mother and selfish". If she can't "love" her own flesh and blood I'm thinkin' she doesn't love or respect herself. I agree with ... (read in full...)
What to think about my boyfriend's female-friend?
Q. My bf and I had just gotten to our 5 months when he had an emotional affair with a new female friend. Now all I ask is if he could tell me when he goes out with friends and I would do the same. Well during that whole period I found out he went wit...
A. 19 February 2011: Interesting. You are very patient. You must love him very much. From what I've read I'd say ask him about his relationship with his grandparents. Keep asking questions about stories/his relationship with his grandparents and you'll hear what it ... (read in full...)
Guy I'm seeing doesn't know who he is or what he wants., and I don't know how to deal with it.
Q. I've been in a complicated relationship with a guy. We met 3 1/2 years ago. It's been crazy and unhealthy, but I could use some help to figure this guy out. Firstly, we met and he was with someone else. I knew that. They were having a bunch of ...
A. 19 February 2011: I know some people who have had an on again off again relationship with the mormon church for more than 40 years. I know some people who have left the mormon church and get nothing but grief from their mormon siblings and parents. I also know some ... (read in full...)
I'm so lost and confused without her, will she ever come back?
Q. I had a fight with my girlfriend because I suspected she was cheating on me with several men and I put her out of the house. Then she called me saying that she loves me very much, wants me back and wishes to marry me. But I traced this phone call a...
A. 19 February 2011: As Ricky Ricardo would say "Lucy! You gotta lotta esplainin' to do". Your actions were horrible. In my opinion I don't think she'll come back.
BUT . . . if she does come back you need to restore her dignity and love her for the woman she is. We a... (read in full...)
Is it too soon in our life to have a relationship so serious?
Q. My girlfriend is 14, and I am 15. We're both very mature for our age. We both have a strong lead in Creative Writing and English Lit. We've been dating for a month and a half and we tell each other we love one another. I mean it when I say it, I ...
A. 19 February 2011: I met the absolute love of my life when we were 15. At 15 there were no mortgages, no car payments, no health problems. In other words, it was the perfect time for us to fall in love with each other. We dated. We split. 29 years and thousands ... (read in full...)
She wants a two week break, what do I do?
Q. I am 45 year old male, I've being dating a woman the same age, last week she told me she wants two weeks space. Does this mean she wants a clean break, I like her a lot and she says she likes me to but I'm confused. She won't answer my texts so what ...
A. 19 February 2011: She wants a two week break, give her three. Seriously, give her three weeks. Let her come back to you.... (read in full...)
Every time I fight with my husband I think about leaving him
Q. I am having a hard time because every time I fight with my husband I think about leaving him. I never say this too him (or to anyone really), but I actually start making plans in my mind to get an apartment and do something else. When we are ...
A. 19 February 2011: "every time I fight with my husband" "start making plans in my mind" "I want out"
In your mind you have already moved "out". The only thing left to do is physically move "out".
For me it came down to "have I had enough yet?" Once I moved out I re... (read in full...)
How can I hide from my husband that I'm not a virgin
Q. im not virgin and im going to married in 1 year and so how can i hide from my husband...
A. 19 February 2011: How would you feel if you were him? Why would you want to hide from him? Maybe you might want to find someone else to marry who you don't have to "hide from". There will be someone who loves you for who you are, insecurities and everything. ... (read in full...)
In the heat of an argument I slapped him!
Q. Okay so I posted a question earlier...It was a long story so I will make it short. I have been with a guy for six months, we are sooo into each other although there have been some issues. Valentines day didn't turn it good at all, it was terrible...
A. 17 February 2011: No matter how beautiful a woman is there is always some man tired of her. I know men who have walked away from "drop dead gorgeous" women, never to be seen or heard from again, for reasons far less than what you describe here. You are also ... (read in full...)
He is back on the dating site, where we met, and he won't add me on Facebook. Is he taking me for a fool, or am I reading too much into this?
Q. Help needed please, I'm going insane here - been seeing this guy for 6 months he lives an hour away from me and works afternoon shifts so I only see him once a week - sometimes twice, he texts nearly every day, says he is very comfy and happy with ...
A. 16 February 2011: "been seeing this guy for 6 months" have you agreed to be in a committed relationship?
If so, I would say he loves you and wants you to be happy. If you tell him kindly but clearly you are not happy about these things he should do whatever it take... (read in full...)
He verbally abuses me, but we have a son together. Should I stay with him?
Q. Ok, my boyfriend is 6yrs older then me we have a son together. we currently dont live together but we are in the process of buying a house and we plan on getting married. Yesterdayw we got into it, he called me mutiple names and told me i was a ...
A. 16 February 2011: I think you should stay with him but don't buy a house with him or marry him until the two of you can agree on a better way to resolve your differences. You will have differences and that's ok. What's not ok is the current way they are being ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to date your ex brother-in-law?
Q. Do you think it's ok to date your ex brother-in-law? We were related by marriage, I have been divorced from his brother for six yrs, and he was widowed over a yr ago?...
A. 16 February 2011: People are people. Some will be ok with it, some won't and some won't care. If you're happy go for it! Turn around once and there goes 10 years, twice and there goes 20. Carpe diem, seize the day.... (read in full...)
How do I get her back? I know I was in the wrong, so what next?
Q. Okay, here goes. What do I do? I really need some solid, sound advice. I (first) met my girlfriend when I was 21 and she was 17. When I first saw her I fell for her immediately. She was beautiful. At the beginning I took her out. I courte...
A. 16 February 2011: I too am with the most beautiful woman in the world I met when we were just teenagers. We are in our late 40s. We have both seen a lot.
"I then found out that the rumours were just nasty horrible lies. Why did these people do it? I still ha... (read in full...)
Why do I thrive off of pushing people away so much?
Q. My S/O have been having a great relationship. Drama free. Something happened on Valentine's Day and I really hurt his feelings. Knowing he was hurt and mad I was hurt, but I also immeadiately began trying to find ways to get him back. I have a ...
A. 16 February 2011: "capture him"?
No man wants to feel captured. They want to feel loved and respected as women should be loved and respected.... (read in full...)
We hardly see each other, and every time we do, he starts a fight! What's going on?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year, we have been working faithfully at keeping our relationship together and it's been a success as we live so far apart. We see each other every two months and the day before he leaves, for no reason ...
A. 16 February 2011: He's frustrated the two of you don't spend more time together. If you can put a date to when the two of you can see each other more often I think that would go a long way to easing his frustration. That's what we did and it worked like a charm.... (read in full...)
Two year age difference, does it make a difference?
Q. So I am 17 and have been seeing a guy who is two years younger than me. We really love each other but I worry about the levels we are on sometimes. help?...
A. 16 February 2011: Talk to him about what's important to you. Then ask him what's important to him and listen carefully to his answers. Now talk with each other about your answers. If your answers are on the same "level" age does not make a difference.
I met the ... (read in full...)
Did You Ever Talk To Serial Cheater Ex Again?
Q. Well, I recently found out that not only did my ex leave me for another woman and move right in with her and her 2 children, but that he had been cheating for over 3 years with numerous different women. Most of them didnt even know he was dating or ...
A. 16 February 2011: From a man's point of view:
"I am completely humiliated about all the people that knew this was happening and even more humiliated he was able to do all this without me catching on."
Trustworthy people trust. In my opinion you have nothing ... (read in full...)
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