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writes:My wife and I have been married for 4 years and have 1 child together and a stepson. We had our ups and downs. I love my wife more than anything in the world besides the kids. This makes the second time that she kicked me out and this time it has been 8 months. Most of our arguments was over not having enough money which i was the only 1 working. I got laid off 3 times and couple of times they was no money comming in. I was looking for work but was not having any luck. So she started looking for a job and found 1, which her ex was working at. she went back with her ex and just recently announced that she is engaged. We are still married and i still want her back. I still see her when i get my son and when she picks him up he cries for me. I just hate seeing my son like this and i havent seen my stepson in 7 months. I miss him so bad and i tried asking her if i could see him which she wont let me. If she is engaged already why is she still married to me. Getting the money is not an issue cause her parents which are not together will help her out with anything. So im lost and have no clue why were still married but im not to worried about it cause i want her back but its making my life so hard and im dealing with alot of problems from it. If anyone has heard or been in this situation before feel free to comment. i just need some advice.
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reader, firstlovelastlove  +, writes (20 February 2011):
 "Most of our arguments was over not having enough money which i was the only 1 working." "she went back with her ex and just recently announced that she is engaged. We are still married" "This makes the second time that she kicked me out"She complained about not having enough money but she wasn't working. She says she's engaged while still married to you but has not asked you for a divorce. The first thought that comes to mind is she is incredibly selfish.You say she has kicked you out of your house twice. Like an alcoholic where is your "rock bottom"?It has been my experience that it doesn't matter how beautiful the woman is there is always someone tired of her. I believe she is using the children to hurt you. I would have a divorce lawyer advise you of your rights as soon as possible. In my opinion this has the potential and probability of being a nasty drawn out divorce. Protect those children and protect yourself.
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