I am so paranoid about having my period that I don't want to leave the house, cant concentrate at school, ...I even dream about it!
Q. Well my issue is that I feel like I'm the only girl in the world who is extremely paranoid of her period. It's always on my mind, because i'm always thinking about "well, what if i get it this day when i have to do this" and I also worry about it so ...
A. 10 February 2010: You don't say what pills you are taking at the moment, but have you considered birth cotrol pills? They aren't just to enable you to avoid pregnancy!... (read in full...)
I'm 19 and my bf has a 16 year old daughter who is doing everything in her power to split us up.
Q. my boyfriend has a 16 year old daughter. i'm 19 and he's 50 - she's had a problem with us being together for the whole year and a half we've been together. at first i tried to get on with her but she started being devious and trying to get him back...
A. 9 February 2010: Tyhe police OUGHT to take this seriously if threats of physical violenve have been made as that is technically assault - no need for punches to land, just the threat will do.
Also, the police are quite capable of checking phone records to asce... (read in full...)
Is he a pedophile for dating a 13 year old when he was 17?
Q. I am in a relationship with an amazing, mature and positive guy, who is also my age (27 -28 years old). We are inseparable and I feel happy when we are together. When we are apart (we live in different countries) for longer than 3 weeks, say, I ...
A. 9 February 2010: Sorry to disagree, Cerberus, but unless he was under 16 himself at the time, and he wasn't, a serious offence HAS been committed under UK law.
I have no idea what the law says in your country but it is quite specific here.
We are here to give adv... (read in full...)
How do I go about having sex with my cousin?
Q. ok so im 14 almost 15 and so is my cousin only she turns 15 a few months before me. ever since we were about 6 weve played sexual games like "show me urs ill show u mine" and doctor and we also watch porn together almost everytime we see each other. ...
A. 9 February 2010: Hey foldy roll, I smell a troll!... (read in full...)
Will it be a mistake to have sex with my sister-in-law?
Q. I have a sister in law whom is living with us in the same house. She wears clothes where her nipples are visibly mark, wears shorts where her most private part is also marked. I can't evade fantacizing her. Whenever the door of her room is open, I ...
A. 9 February 2010: Is she aware of your reactions and teasing you? My guess is yes, as well as being aware of your "secret" viewings and masturbation. This lady is dangerous to your relationship with your wife and could be just an example of sibling rivalry - trying ... (read in full...)
He has ejaculated in me numerous times and I still haven't gotten pregnant. Is it me?
Q. ok so i have been having sex for the last 5 months not very often but i will say like at least more then 8 times... each and every time the guy ive been with has ejaculated in me ...but i cant seem to get pregnant ... what may be the problem.....
A. 9 February 2010: Just keep practising!... (read in full...)
How long is an average 13 year old's penis?
Q. how long is the averge penus of 1 13 year old ...
A. 9 February 2010: How long is a piece of string?
Sorry to appear flippant, but it's impossible to answer, like the string question, because we all develop at different rates and never reach our final dimensions until puberty is over - so don't worry, you still have... (read in full...)
Is he a pedophile for dating a 13 year old when he was 17?
Q. I am in a relationship with an amazing, mature and positive guy, who is also my age (27 -28 years old). We are inseparable and I feel happy when we are together. When we are apart (we live in different countries) for longer than 3 weeks, say, I ...
A. 9 February 2010: Technically, yes, as the law states that anyone under 16 in the UK is incapable of giving consent so no consent is assumed - hence it is statutory rape.
If reported, he could be placed on the Sex Offenders Register, no matter how innocent or cons... (read in full...)
Does this explanation for the mysterious condoms sound reasonable?
Q. I recently asked what I should do because I found condoms in my b/f car that I have never seen before. I have ask him about them. At first he said I dont know. I ask him I have never seen them b4 and why are they in your car. He said he ...
A. 6 February 2010: What's that I can smell; it's very strong?..... B? Bull? Ah - BULLSHIT! He lies, then changes his story then talks bollocks about the cold affecting them. He has been playing away, or was planning to. I would check for more signs of infidelity, i... (read in full...)
My parents wont listen, I am 14 he is 24
Q. im 14 and going out with a 24 year old. We both love each other very much but my parents hate him.I can understand why but they cant accept that im actually happy. He still wants to be with me even though my parents have givin him loads of grief in ...
A. 5 February 2010: I'm sorry to add to the negative sentiments expressed here already, but it isn't often realised that underage sex or sexual acts short of penetration (sexual abuse) is illegal for BOTH parties and you as well as he could face prison.
It is rare for ... (read in full...)
Yet another 'best friend might be more' debate!
Q. I know this is a recurring theme on here, but you get such different advice! Some people say it is impossible to get out of the friend zone while others know best friends who have become lovers and partners. What doesn't help is women sending ou...
A. 5 February 2010: Oh "Sorcerer", you are not trying to understand women, surely?
I don't think I or anyone else can help you there!
Being serious, it does sound like she is interested, but I would advise caution especially,as you say, you are close friends and ... (read in full...)
Is sex under 15 a good idea?
Q. Hi there, I have been wondering if sex is a good idea under 15. I have been really curious after a sex ed lesson earlier this week and as such am fairly confused on what to do! My boyfriend is lovely, as always, but I can tell just by looking ...
A. 5 February 2010: It's illegal for a reason. As others have said, your body just isn't ready, despite how YOU might feel about it and could lead to all sorts of physical complications even if you manage to avoid pregnancy, let alone the emotional and psychological ... (read in full...)
Is Three A Crowd?
Q. Hi Aunts. Okay alot of people will think im a lucky girl but to me, its a nightmare! A year ago i was out clubbing with my girl friends and i met a guy Alex* talking, he bought me drinks etc. Well after about an hour, he said 'Be right back', when ...
A. 5 February 2010: Look into polyamory. It works for a lot of people, and there are support groups - get your fingers Googling!... (read in full...)
So did I actually have an orgasm ?
Q. my bf and i have been having sex for about three months now an i had never came but he said he thought i did the other night because apparently my vagina got suddenly hotter and i got soo much wetter, but i never felt anything spectacular like ...
A. 5 February 2010: Have you ever masturbated and made yourself orgasm? It sounds like you haven't experienced an orgasm at all, yet. As has already been said, you would KNOW!
May I suggest that you try to bring yourself off by stimulating your clit on your own, when... (read in full...)
Dating a different race...
Q. Okay, so here's my problem. I'm 16 and have always been attracted to all races, it's never been an issue until recently. I'm white, and have become really close friends with this guy.. who's black, we're very flirty with each other. I like him and ...
A. 3 February 2010: I know I will get flamed for this, but in truth, ALL people are racist, otherwise known as territorial. We unite within our own groups against threats from outsiders to the group: it's natural and inbuilt, as a way of protecting our "tribes".
A... (read in full...)
I am too scared to let myself cum.
Q. im 18 and i have problems about cumming... when im having sex with my boyfriend and he strarts to rub my clit after a while i get the feeling that i'm gonna pee so i make him stop...for what i know thats the moment when i'm gonna cum but i get sc...
A. 3 February 2010: You won't pee, but you might just squirt - and he will love it!
What happens is that your urethral sponge, just behind your g-spot, fills with fluid on arousal; it is NOT urine, although it does share the same exit duct. It is colourless, not yell... (read in full...)
I waited 3 months for a dinner reservation in a top restaurant and my bf has just cancelled out. Is it ok to take another man to not miss out on the dining experience?
Q. A while back I booked a table at the supposedly best restaurant in the UK and it took me 3 months and a cancellation to get in. My b/f has known about it for weeks and how excited I am about it. Today he texts me to say that the mother of his child ...
A. 3 February 2010: So you want to use this man just for a dinner, then drop him, and cheat on your boyfriend too?
Seriously, what do YOU think?... (read in full...)
Is it okay for my teacher to hug me?
Q. hellooo so i have this HOT teacher, i literally love the man, (well i have a crush) and the other day, i had a massive fall out with my mate which resulted in me crying. i was walking down the empty corridor like this, and this teacher saw me a...
A. 2 February 2010: How lucky you are to have such a caring teacher. I doubt very much if there was any other intent on his part besides support. If you are worried, look out for other signs, but try not to read too much into anything and don't try to spoil the career ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my husband wear his wedding ring?
Q. My new husband is always forgetting his wedding ring. It drives me crazy and a little offended as well. I asked him if he doesn't want to wear it and why, he says that thats not it and I don't believe him. Why do you think he doesn't wear it?...
A. 2 February 2010: I HATE wearing rings! Thee must be lots like me, so nothing to worry about. I used to work near live electricity, so that was my excuse for not wearing it to work and it has stayed off ever since - good, acceptable reason to disguise the real one ... (read in full...)
She asked if I would have unprotected sex with her, what should I do?
Q. hello, my name is lachie. i am 14 nearly 15, currently single, i have alot of feelings for a family friend of mine, i know she has feelings for me to, but both of our parents dont want us to be togeather, and the other night, she asked if i would ...
A. 2 February 2010: My thoughts exactly, "CG". Unless she is on some other form of birth conrol and can prove it, don't even think about it.
You might also want to check her sexual history: if she is in the habit of going "bare-back", you could end up with more than... (read in full...)
I am supposed to get married in 2 1/2 months but I just got my sister in law pregnant!
Q. hi im master splinter . in about 2 and a half months im getting married BUT THERE IS ONE THING i need to get of my chest its my sister inlaw to be well about 2 weeks ago my girlfriend went into hospital to give birth to our 2 child . i was there at ...
A. 1 February 2010: A classic case of your lower brain taking over completely!
What an arsehole you are - sorry, Moderators, but how else can I put it?
You have made your bed, my friend, and now you must lie in it.
NO sympathy.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend lost a bottle of her favourite perfume while in a club with me last night... And she wants ME to replace it! What should I do?
Q. Last night in a club with my friends, I got separated from the group. I decided to text my girlfriend to find out where she was. When I couldn't find her from her directions I told her where she could find me. When she got there she waved to me, and ...
A. 1 February 2010: Is she an only child? Or a Daddy's girl? She sounds rather spoiled to me and used to getting her own way.
Unless you can change her attitude and accept that she cannot always have whatever she wants, I fear there is little future in this rela... (read in full...)
How can I score girls who are 8's and 9's?
Q. SO recently ive been working out as hard as possible for football and ive been running but for some reason i am not getting cut and im starting track today, and i was wondering how i can get what i want so i can score 8s and 9s (girls) cause ive ...
A. 1 February 2010: I wish that were in English; if I could understand it I might be able to help!... (read in full...)
My husband has touched my daughter... how do I deal with it?
Q. My daughter who is 19 has suffered from depression for the past 3 years, she is on tablets and struggles to sleep. I have tried to talk to her to help her to try find out why. She finally opened up to her CPN at the end of november, she told them ...
A. 31 January 2010: "Miamine", what a splendid answer: hits all the points perfectly. Well, almost all. I was appalled to learn that the social worker told the young son about this. I feel that was totally out of order and beyond his/her brief. That has made a bad situ... (read in full...)
He told me he's territorial and doesn't want me hanging out with other guys! What does he mean?
Q. hey i gotta question whats it mean when my boyfriend tells me that he doesn't want me hanging with other guys or really talking to them.....he told me hes territorial...??...
A. 31 January 2010: He means possessive - he thinks he owns you.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend lost a bottle of her favourite perfume while in a club with me last night... And she wants ME to replace it! What should I do?
Q. Last night in a club with my friends, I got separated from the group. I decided to text my girlfriend to find out where she was. When I couldn't find her from her directions I told her where she could find me. When she got there she waved to me, and ...
A. 30 January 2010: Just to help "salvadda", £25 is equivalent to US$40 at today's rate.
Now, as for replacing it - no way! Especially after shelling out £50 (US$80) for a meal. As you are a student of limited means, she ought to have helped you there, too.
I am sorry... (read in full...)
Why doesn't sex feel good the way people say it should?
Q. when i have sex, it doesnt feeel as good as its described. for some reason, it feeels goood but in a way, hurts. i've done it with only one guy and i lost it this month. why doesnt it feeel like people say?...
A. 28 January 2010: Sex isn't, or at least shouldn't be, a mechanical process. If you want to enjoy it, it ought to start in the mind, your biggest sex organ.
You need to be with someone who values you for you and not just the sex, who respects you in and out of the ... (read in full...)
Razor burn sucks!
Q. so i shaved my pubic hair and i was pleased with the results. my girlfriend really liked it too. :) she was really turned on and she couldnt hide it either. my problem was that a few days after i shaved i realized some nasty razor burn and i also ...
A. 28 January 2010: Veet and Nair seem identical to me; not sure which one I used, but to be honest hair is hair whether male or female, and I think you will spend a long time looking for men's products in the shops!... (read in full...)
Razor burn sucks!
Q. so i shaved my pubic hair and i was pleased with the results. my girlfriend really liked it too. :) she was really turned on and she couldnt hide it either. my problem was that a few days after i shaved i realized some nasty razor burn and i also ...
A. 28 January 2010: Depilatory creams work wonderfully well, but as I found out the hard way - DON'T LEAVE THEM ON FOR TOO LONG!
They burn, and the last thing you want is a burn down there!
The products advise not to use them in the pubic area, but it's ok as long as ... (read in full...)
How come sex ends so quickly?
Q. My boyfreind and I have sex very often but I honestly wouldn't even call it that. Anytime we do have sex there is never any foreplay involved unless its me going down on him and as soon as he gets his "guy" in.....he "Cums" really quick. Within a ...
A. 26 January 2010: He doesn't last long BECAUSE of the magazines - wankers rarely do! He is training himself to cum quickly with his furtive use of porn, to get things over quickly before being discovered.
His paper women have no need of respect and intimacy, so he f... (read in full...)
She was a virgin and I was a virgin, I lied about being a virgin and she found out. What do I do?
Q. Hello, I met this girl and we hit off, we became really close freinds and had a strong connection emotionally. She told me she had been sexually abused as a child by her father and had a boyfreind for 4 yrs, because i was a 23 year old virgin and ...
A. 26 January 2010: Yes.
I made this comment to someone else recently; you have explained your position eloquently on here, now just give her the link to this page and let her read it all for herself.
I'm sure it will work.
Good luck.... (read in full...)
She reads old sexual emails from past boyfriends and says I have no reason to be upset. What do you think?
Q. I've been dating my girlfriend for almost two years now, and for most of that time I've known she finds sexual literature a huge turn-on. I don't have any problem with her buying sexy fiction to read, but some time ago she started looking up erotic ...
A. 26 January 2010: Agreed, "CG", this is a bit more personal than something written by an author for public consumption. However, if these past stories were only in her head you would never know about them, so at least she is being open about things.
I do unde... (read in full...)
I've got itchy balls.
Q. what does it mean if my balls itch but theres no spots there is it herpes?...
A. 25 January 2010: Blokes balls itch!
Most of us have a good old scratch first thing in the morning as part of our wake-up routine, so stop worrying unless it happens all day and is driving you mad.
If so, it's off to the pox doctor for you......... (read in full...)
I want a divorce, my wife is pregnant and I'm having an affair with our neighbour....help!
Q. I am 32 yrs old and have been married for 4 yrs. A year ago we moved to a new town and my wife and I drifted apart. She befriended our neighbours and became close friends with the lady. We would often go to dinners there and I met their now 19 yr ...
A. 24 January 2010: Troll post?... (read in full...)
Can someone get pregnant without sexual intercourse?
Q. Hey, I'm pretty much messed up right now and way too worried. I'm still a virgin as I have not had sexual intercourse yet. However, the other day I was lying on bed with my boyfriend and we were playing around, we had our underwear on and...
A. 23 January 2010: Did you have your knickers on all the time? Or did you or he touch near your pussy with them pushed out of the way?
If you were covered all of the time, you won't be pregnant as sperm will not have been able to cross the cloth barrier, but if you ... (read in full...)
Guys, how do I get him not to pass out after an orgasm?
Q. My boyfriend and i have sex quite a bit, and it's usually at night because that's when we're with each other. I'm a night owl, and he stays up late, but not as late as i do. Oftentimes, he'll orgasm and be very tired and just want to crash ...
A. 20 January 2010: I agree totally: toys and fingers can never replace the intimacy of a real person. I'm glad that you can get him to pleasure you first, but now you have to work on afters! It is possible for a man to stay awake and repeat, and that is where the "aft... (read in full...)
Is it possible to be pregnant from this?
Q. Today my boyfriend and I dry humped. He ended up cumming and we humped for like 15 seconds after he went. He had his boxers on and I had my underwear on. We weren't aware that the tip of penis had slipped right above the elastic of his boxers. He ...
A. 20 January 2010: It is very unlikely, as sperm cannot normally penetrate fabric, even though you might feel some wetness on the inside.
It might be worth taking the "morning-after" pill as a precaution, but you should be ok.
I would certainly recommend condoms ... (read in full...)
Guys, how do I get him not to pass out after an orgasm?
Q. My boyfriend and i have sex quite a bit, and it's usually at night because that's when we're with each other. I'm a night owl, and he stays up late, but not as late as i do. Oftentimes, he'll orgasm and be very tired and just want to crash ...
A. 19 January 2010: It's true; nature predisposes us men to collapse and slumber after all that hard work!
Seriously, it is hormonal, but why not have him indulge in "afterplay" by cuddling, kissing and caressing as you come down fron your orgasm - it's nice, and shou... (read in full...)
Is there any urine when I squirt?
Q. My husband loves to give me oral,almost as much as I love receiving. I am one of those who squirts[female ejaculation]. He swallows as much as he can,drenching his face. I was wondering if there is any urine in it. He says it has no taste,espically ...
A. 18 January 2010: Nature closes off the urinary tract from your bladder when you are sexually stimulaated, so the amount will be miniscule, if any.
Even if there were, urine is sterile, so no harm can come to him.
Now, round the back is a different matter: all sort... (read in full...)
He put his penis in unprotected, now I'm late, but it wasn't full on sex
Q. Okay, so I don't know much about sex but lately I've gotten incredibly paranoid. A little while ago things with my boyfriend heated up and he stuck his penis in without a condom, but things did not get intense because we both didn't really move and ...
A. 17 January 2010: Yes.... (read in full...)
My mom has just told me my boyfriend is my cousin
Q. Ok, erm I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and I am madly in love and everything was going fine. Until that is when a few days ago my mom drops the bombshell on me that we are third or fourth cousins, I don't understand why nobody ...
A. 17 January 2010: Perfectly safe from all points of view: you have nothing to worry about and this revelation is of NO importance to you.
Go ahead.... (read in full...)
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