My mom has just told me my boyfriend is my cousin
Q. Ok, erm I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and I am madly in love and everything was going fine. Until that is when a few days ago my mom drops the bombshell on me that we are third or fourth cousins, I don't understand why nobody ...
A. 17 January 2010: Perfectly safe from all points of view: you have nothing to worry about and this revelation is of NO importance to you.
Go ahead.... (read in full...)
There is something wrong between me and my professor
Q. HI everyone, i need some advice. i am now 22 years old and i am the 4th year student at my college. There is one male professor in my college. He is 36 years old and hold PHD. Anyway, for the last 6 months, all of my friends observed that he...
A. 17 January 2010: It seems to me that is an easy one to answer. He has maintained a professional distance at college, as he should, but in fact cares for you. Not sure how strongly, but enough!
When you met outside college, his guard was down; he enjoyed it too much... (read in full...)
She never climaxes... and I can't understand why!
Q. so ive been seeing this girl and well shes 11 years younger, im 30, come on, do the math its quite simple! ok so we rock out together and have many things in common but i can spend hours and hours yes much oral then penetration and yet she never ...
A. 17 January 2010: Engage her mind first - her greatest sexual organ - then her clit before you even THINK about penetration.
And make sure she is relaxed and comfortable with the situation.
Good luck.... (read in full...)
How do we move on to the next level?
Q. i have been with a guy for almost 1 year now and the other day he tried to go a little farther and take my shirt off. no guy has ever done that with me before becose he is only my second bf. anyways i dint know how to react so i just asked him to ...
A. 17 January 2010: Firstly you have to decide where your own limits are, then, as has been said, communicate them to your b/f.
If you draw the line at penetration, say so clearly; then, if you are both inexperienced and hesitant, experiment slowly and within your mutu... (read in full...)
Am I crazy or is my teacher interested in me?
Q. What does it mean when a former teacher asks you if you're a senior yet? My 9th grade art teacher saw me for the first time since he left the school for another teaching job. He recently came back and When he saw me he seemed happy to see me. anyw...
A. 17 January 2010: Hmmm, not sure. From your words, it isn't clear, but from your thoughts and my interpretation, there could be interest.
But "person12345" is right in that you should do nothing until you are of full age and away from school. I think that was the ... (read in full...)
How can I stop myself wanting to play with barbie dolls?
Q. hi. I need some help. I'm an 18 year old girl who stopped playing with barbie toys two days ago. I know it sounds a bit crazy. Anyways, sometimes I feel like I want to play with them again. I really miss playing with them but I know I have to grow ...
A. 16 January 2010: Don't even bother to cut down, there's really no need.
Look at how many men still play with toys! Mind you, some tend to be a lot more expensive........ (read in full...)
Everytime I hug and kiss my girlfriend my body reacts and its embaressing ...
Q. Ok I'm 14 and i know some of y'all won't think this is serious and all but it is everytime I hug or kiss my girlfriend i get an erection and it embarrases me and I feel akward and I ant just stop hugging and kissing her because shell notice it and ...
A. 16 January 2010: Anon, if he does that he'll end up kicking her to death!... (read in full...)
How can I stop myself wanting to play with barbie dolls?
Q. hi. I need some help. I'm an 18 year old girl who stopped playing with barbie toys two days ago. I know it sounds a bit crazy. Anyways, sometimes I feel like I want to play with them again. I really miss playing with them but I know I have to grow ...
A. 15 January 2010: I'll go with "bethaney", sorry "CG". You are not harming anyone, but keep it private. Perhaps you are broody and want a baby? Doesn't matter either way, it's up to you what you do if you aren't hurting anyone. Maybe a kitten would be better, ... (read in full...)
Is sex 3-4 times a week healthy and normal?
Q. Hi Just looking for feedback from people living with their partners. Ive been with my partner for 18 months now, its a distance relationship so we only see each other weekends. At weekends we have sex 3 or 4 times over the fri night, sat and s...
A. 8 January 2010: "CaringGuy", I hate to argue with you but this is a serious red flag. Sex in marriage does certainly tail off, especially where women are concerned; men tend to remain horny forever!
The questioner is right to worry and should ask himself if he can ... (read in full...)
Has anyone ever tried or does anyone know anyone who has ever tried "natural breast enhancement pill?"
Q. Has anyone ever tried or does anyone know anyone who has ever tried "natural breast enhancement pill?" My husband says that he is most turned on by me when I feel sexy and it's hard for me to feel sexy but I want to turn him on. So I thought maybe, ...
A. 8 January 2010: Great reply from "Basschick" and well researched. As i thought straight away, it's snakeoil!
Questioner, you simply have to love and believe in yourself. ALL that matters is that you get pleasure from having your breasts caressed and attended to; ... (read in full...)
Struggling with my foreskin
Q. Hello everybody, I'm a 16 year old male and I have some questions/concerns regarding my uncircumcised penis. Over the years I have managed to pull my foreskin back, to the point were it is very easy to do when i am not erect. Although, whene...
A. 8 January 2010: Some overcome this problem by circumcision, but it isn't necessary. Firstly, as I am not qualified to gove you medical advice, I strongly suggest that you visit your doctor; embarrassing, but essential.
I suspect he will prescribe a mild ster... (read in full...)
If his peins didnt go all the way in but I bled and it was my first time am I still a virgin?
Q. well this guy that i liked for awhile finally likes me after he moves away and comes back and i finally told him that i like him. so we had hanging out and we tlkd n decied to have sex. i lied and told him that i wasnt a virgin when i was and his ...
A. 7 January 2010: As others so often say on here, if you are bold enough to have sex, you should be brave enough to talk about it.
If it isn't just a broken hymen, you could have a problem down there and MUST go to your doctor asap to have things checked out.
Oh, a... (read in full...)
At my age can I buy a vibrator?
Q. I'll get straight to the point. Im 14 and masturbate. I have for a couple of years but have done the same thing the whole time. It feels amazing but Im getting tired of doing it that way and like to try new things. Any suggestions? Please don't say ...
A. 7 January 2010: Yes to all of the other answers: however, may I recommend the website "Clitical"? http://www.clitical.com/female-masturbation/index.php It is full of good tips and techniques about female masturbation and other things concerning your body. Good... (read in full...)
Worried about nipple size
Q. This is probably a self-esteem question. I've been seeing this guy for a while, and I want to take it to the next level. Not sex yet, but other things. I have a problem with my body though and I'm scared he won't find me attractive after. My chest ...
A. 7 January 2010: Please stop worrying! I, along with millions of others, love large areolae (your "halo" around your nipple) and I'm guessing that it's quite sensitive around there? Even lovelier! There is nothing you can do to change it, and nor should you - it'... (read in full...)
The physical element of our relationship is lacking so does he have the right to be with another woman?
Q. Hi everyone, I'm interested to hear from anyone whose been cheated on by their someone they love.. HAS cheated on someone they love.. or feels patient enough to read my story and give me their honest opinion... So I'm 27 and have been with m...
A. 6 January 2010: A life without sex for either of you is terrible: is there any chance that a minor operation would cure your problem?... (read in full...)
Why after an orgasm do men leave women hanging?
Q. Hi. Ok I have a question I no a lot of women would liked answered. Why is when a guy has a orgasm first its over they get up and go on with there day. They just leave the girl hangen they don't even try to finish what they started. Guys what if your ...
A. 6 January 2010: Interesting that most of the comments have been predicated on its being an act of will on the part of men: it isn't. Nature has a hand in this and predisposes men mainly and women to a lesser extent to fall asleep after ejaculation.
To do othe... (read in full...)
She's only fine with me when her boyfriend's not around... why is she doing this?
Q. ok, I'm a little frustrated right now. So I really like this girl I met at college a few months ago. found out she had a Boyfriend, so I forced myself to presume she was straight. Wrong. After ignoring me for nearly 2 months, deliberatly not looking ...
A. 5 January 2010: For goodness' sake, talk to her about it!
This is obviously not a passing thing for you; it's eating you up inside and you need to comminicate this to her. If she doesn't reciprocate your feelings, at least you will know where you stand.
If sh... (read in full...)
I don't know how to have an orgasm
Q. hi me an my boyfriend have been having sex together for about 3 months. the problem is ive never had an orgasm. i know it sounds stupid, but i dont know how 2 have one! i can never feel like im about to have an orgasm or that anythings going 2...
A. 4 January 2010: Take your time and relax. Your biggest and best sex organ is your brain, then foreplay; last of all is penetration.
Stimulate yourself in private to find out what turns you on (Black Lace novels are a good start), and once you know what you lke,... (read in full...)
Stepbrother's interest in me makes me very uneasy
Q. Hey, I'll get straight into it, i met my stepbrother 2 years ago, at first i thought he just wanted to be friends, but after a while he started showing interest in me. He managed to somehow lock me into some sort of "fixation" on him. He started ...
A. 4 January 2010: Good plan, "celiaaletta".
I would also suggest that if those measures don't work - someone persistent enough could circumvent them - it's quite easy to take out an injunction against him.
The Police love to do that; it looks good in their figures,... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my father and his favourite daughter, my big sister?
Q. Hello, First of all, I express my warm greetings to all of you. I find this site a great place for advice, sharing and discussion. Well, I have a question about the attitude of my father. I have three sisters, two big sisters amd one small sister. ...
A. 4 January 2010: Oh, I feel for you. I've been there and it hurts. Badly. In my case it was my younger brother who had the golden balls, but the outcome is the same: a miserable childhood and ages to recover from the hurt. All you can do is break away from it all... (read in full...)
My family frustrate me. How do I handle their taunts?
Q. God im so angry! My job is high pressured, i work in a contact centre in customer service making outbound calls, my targets are high and on average a day i speak to 80 -90 people. Calls are recorded and it quite a strict place. Anyway today at...
A. 3 January 2010: Spot on, CG. And if you are making triple the contribution to the household, questioner, THEY should be running around after you.... (read in full...)
We only have sex about 3 times a month, help!?
Q. Hi all. This is my first question so bear with me. I'm in a relationship with my fiance and have been for 4 1/2 years. We have a 2 year old child together and a mortgage and share pretty much everything. I Love her and she loves me. I couldn't i...
A. 3 January 2010: Her falling asleep is simply an avoidance stratagem. She does not want sex; she has what she wanted from you - children. You don't have many options, I'm afraid; many marriages turn into this. I don't need to list your choices, you must have done s... (read in full...)
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