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I am too scared to let myself cum.

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Question - (3 February 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 7 February 2010)
A female Chile age 30-35, *avii writes:

im 18 and i have problems about cumming...

when im having sex with my boyfriend and he strarts to rub my clit after a while i get the feeling that i'm gonna pee so i make him stop...for what i know thats the moment when i'm gonna cum but i get scared about that feeling and im pretty sure that my boyfriend is going to get scared if he sees liquid comming out my vagina..soo...what can i do?

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A female reader, xavii Chile +, writes (7 February 2010):

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thanks! i think i know now that i wont pee

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2010):

Play with yourself so that you know what to expect when you cum. Liquid may come out... it should excite him to know that he is pleasing you. Just let go and enjoy. These are the few free pleasures in life!

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A male reader, Faraday United Kingdom +, writes (3 February 2010):

Faraday agony auntYou won't pee, but you might just squirt - and he will love it!

What happens is that your urethral sponge, just behind your g-spot, fills with fluid on arousal; it is NOT urine, although it does share the same exit duct. It is colourless, not yellow and has been shown not to contain any urine; so don’t worry, you won’t pee yourself! Nature closes of the urinary duct during arousal to ensure this, in a similar way to blokes, who can't pee whilst erect.

Also, have a pee before you start, to give yourself the confidence that you won't pee during the act.

DO have a towel under you though, and be prepared for a delighted bf when he sees you squirt!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2010):

If both of urself are scared, then what are you doing together???.. Relax Girl, this would be the biggest thing a guy would enjoy during sex.. So do not panic.. just keeep urself and ur mind calm.. and feel the pleasure and love your guy is giving you.. let him do it.. at end, you will sure find the pleasure.. ask him to make it a slow move.. all the best

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