How can I stop suffering from nerves?
Q. Hi everyone, this might sound stupid, but basically this is a question about nerves. I've always had this problem where if I have to do something, for example speak out in front of people, or have an interview, I become physically nervous. My body ...
A. 29 January 2009: When doing a presentation if i dont treat it like a conversation i get exactly the way u do. The key is to KNOW WHAT YOUR SAYING INSIDE OUT AND BACKWARDS
take confidence from what u know and hold onto that for dear life. Present to a spot in the ... (read in full...)
Does my ex want me back after he gets engaged to someone else????
Q. This guy was my best friend of 5 years and my boyfriend for 2 of those years. Recently he and I stopped talking cause he randomly got engaged to a girl he has only known for a month and a half. (Personally I don't think they're gonna make it) My ...
A. 28 January 2009: I think he is trying to tie up any loose ends before he takes the plunge. People tend not to want to open up any windows before ensuring all the doors are closed. He is maybe looking for closure, or wants u by his side as the friend you once were. I ... (read in full...)
Should I move up to be with him or let our LDR go?
Q. Me and my boyfriend live 4 hours away, i am 17 and we have been together nearly 6 months, my boyfriend is now thinking that it is too hard for us unless we lived closer so i was thinking bout moving up as i seriously can't lose him, he means ...
A. 28 January 2009: You have to also take into consideration if he is willing to do the same for u. The last thing you want to happen is to get there and find out he really isn't willing to take that extra step that you are so anxious to take. LDR are extremely hard. I ... (read in full...)
Tips on how to make your eyelashes grow longer?
Q. Does anyone have any tips on how to make your eyelashes grow longer, and quicker? I'm fed up with lash lengthening mascaras cos they end up clumping my lashes together which are short anyway then some fall out when I try and pull the lumps out. I ...
A. 27 January 2009: This is going to sound funny, but vaseline (the clear jelly stuff) works like a charm. It's healthy for your lashes and can even substitute mascara sometimes. I advise you just use that at night and then normal or no mascara during the day. ... (read in full...)
I'm sick of being alone in his house!
Q. Hi Right so my bf and i have been dating for six months at first everything was great, until I moved to a different town for him and in with him, first night he didn't come home, he made some story up and three months later I found out the ni...
A. 30 December 2008: Leave now.
he is bad news and im sure ur friends will help u with whatever desicion you happen to make with regards to the baby. You are 19 years old. u dont need this kind of crap especially now. DOn't think of this as a competition. This is ... (read in full...)
What should I do to take things further?
Q. alot of the time when me and my gf are watch a movie or watching videos on her computer she will put her hand on me leg and move it closer and closer toward my fun zone then i get a orgasm but then nothing really happens afer that what should i do? ...
A. 21 December 2008: why not try the same with her?... (read in full...)
Should I tell her I love her or should I just keep my feelings sealed away?
Q. Hi I really need some help. Im 17, male from newcastle, and for the past year and a half I have been playing online gaming. About a year ago I started talking to a girl online, we immediately clicked and became good friends, recently though I think ...
A. 21 December 2008: Dating online does sound kind of stupid doesn't it? Newcastle and Exeter are much closer together than Edinburgh, Scotland and Ontario, Canada...which is my current situation. I met this group of guys on online poker and we were all friends ... (read in full...)
I would really like to be friends, how long should I wait before talking to him?
Q. My boyfriend, now ex boyfriend, broke up with me over a month ago, and I was devastated. I'm a teen and I was in a long distance relationship about 2 hours distance. I had belongings which I left there last time I was there. So there were comp...
A. 29 September 2008: i had a boyfriend for nearly two years. we broke up and of course you want to be with them again. and then later you realize why exactly you split up and that you are better off without eachother. 3 weeks is nothing. its been a YEAR since my ex and ... (read in full...)
How do I improve the taste of my cum?
Q. How do I improve the taste of my cum? My gf says that sometimes its very sweet and other times it's bitter....
A. 29 September 2008: you are what you eat applies in this situation. as the guy before said "eat lots of fruits". i reccommend pineapple. ... (read in full...)
What exactly does "love" mean to you?
Q. heya, A friend of me asked me this, and i want to get some of your opinions on it... but can you tell me...? What exactly is love? I know... kinnda a big question... but i want to see what other people think it is :) And i dont really want the d...
A. 16 September 2008: it is a big question...i don't know what love is. love is an all encompassing term in my opinion. to love someone means that this person makes u every single emotion there is, hopefully not sad or depressed...those are not good qualities. Love is a ... (read in full...)
She said she didn't date on the summer... yet she went out with two boys at that time!
Q. There is this girl i like we have been talking for 6 months i asked her out in the 3rd month but she said she didnt date in the summer but she went out with 2 other guys before school started she said she was still in love with me after 6 months and ...
A. 8 September 2008: hmm thats a tough one. i would stear clear if i were u. there are other fish in the sea. but if u really like her and do trust her then go for it. talk to her about how u feel. she'll understand. if she doesnt then oh well ur better off without her. ... (read in full...)
Why do I always end up being just the friend?!
Q. in the last two years ive come across girls who ive like or fancied. but it always turns out that im just a shoulder to cry on, and they decide to get back with their ex boyfriends even though they've told me the think im fit and they wanna go out ...
A. 8 September 2008: Okay i have an answer, not nessesarily the right one, but its an answer none the less. girls can easily be friends with guys, especially guys who are easy to talk to, easy to be emotional with. Girls dont have problems being friends with guys, but ... (read in full...)
Why did she suddenly have a loss of feelings?
Q. Back then, me and my girl, we met each other online. I can't really say much of my status now with her. We're together for 2months plus now. We played the same game together, and after a period of time, we found that we liked each other very mu...
A. 8 September 2008: Online relationships are hard work, moreso than people realize. It feels so good to have someone in your life again after a relationship that turned sour and u felt that u'd never have anyone again...i know what thats like. Mine ended on account of ... (read in full...)
He cheated to be with me...will he do it to me?
Q. I really like this guy and he has cheated on his girlfriend (my best friend) to be with me and I am scared that when I do get with him he will cheat on me. Is this true?...
A. 1 September 2008: WAIT a second..ur best friend? u arent exactly being a best friend in return now are u....u know...letting her boyfriend cheat on her with u. If i were ur best friend id never want to talk to u again and would dream about getting revenge. The whole ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and I wish I could have sex with this boy I really liked! Help!
Q. Hi im 13 and i want sex really badly i dream about it but i wish it was reality. Its always with this boy that i really like. Well i say like, but what i mean is love. I have tried telling him but he blanks me. i had a passionate kiss with him in...
A. 1 September 2008: You dont mean love, what u really mean is lust, and its teenage lust, not the real thing. You are just barely a teenager and have way too many things to focus on other than sex and the possibility of getting pregnant and/or std's that will be with u ... (read in full...)
My husband cheated on me and I don't know wha to do. Please help me
Q. My husband and i have been married for 5 yrs now.he had a 2 and half yr long affair that started soon after we got married with a woman he was closely related to and said it was to get back at his uncle (that woman's husband). i forgave him for this ...
A. 28 August 2008: I think u should leave and live ur life the way u want, because u are not enjoying the life u currently are leading. You are young and have the rest of ur life ahead of u. this guy cannot make himself fall in love with u, it just isn't on and it ... (read in full...)
I hurt the girl I like, I tried to apoligize to her and she just ignored me. I don't know what else to do. Please help!
Q. I have a problem that I am unsure how to handle. I am 31 years old, and I have never had a girlfriend. I had a close friend in high school and that was about it. I never really was looking for anyone, and was pretty much content on spending my ...
A. 28 August 2008: Just pointing this out before i say anything else. The reason u have never felt the way u do about this girl before is because she is ur first "love" potentially. It never works out and if it does then i kind of pity that...u need experience to make ... (read in full...)
Help what do I do now??
Q. I'm just writing this like a message in a bottle. Letting it loose in this sea. We were meant to be married..we bought our rings..but her parents didn't want it. We prayed everyday for it come through. Now shes engaged to another man. I moved 10,000 ...
A. 2 July 2008: I like your whole message in a bottle thing. So why not be the bottle? Just go with the flow and someone will find you in the sand. Make the most of this oportunity to meet some new people, find who you are again. Sometimes being in the same place ... (read in full...)
I need makeup tips to start the 8th grade!
Q. I really want to start wearing makeup. Like eyeshadow, mascara, eyeliner and lipgloss. I'm pretty sure my mom will approve because I'M GOING INTO 8TH GRADE!! ***I REALLY need LOTS of tips and advice!!!!*** PLEASE AND THANK YOU!!!!! xoxo...
A. 2 July 2008: Ok umm... i'm sorry, but 8th grade? that is a little young to be wearing makeup. the girls that wore makeup at my school before highschool were considered 'easy' if u know what i mean possibly. But if you absolutely must, i'll admit i started ... (read in full...)
More boy problems... I don't want to blow it... HELP!
Q. Hi...its little old me again with yet again more boy problems. It's not like im one of those girls that has thousands pf boys begging for her attention...all my boy problems involve the same guys!!! anyways, here is my problem. I have three fabul...
A. 11 April 2008: Thank u for all ur advice. it has made things a little more clear than they were but as each day goes by im just less and less convinced not by them but by myself. The more i think about one the less i think i feel about them. I dont understand the ... (read in full...)
I can't get over my druggy ex boyfriend, NEED HELP ASAP!!!
Q. woww reading wHAT othEr girls said really helped me a lot!...cuz i went through the Exact same thing... well its a long story And i very badly need some help!...my boyfriend is insanely addicted to weed so no wonder dat he'll choose weed over me ...
A. 8 April 2008: its only been 2 weeks. give urself some space to heel. he sounds like a complete jerk and u are too good for him. ive seen this happen before...sort of to myself but not exactly the whole weed addiction part. that is really really really bad!!! u ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 he's 17, I want sex but he's still a virgin, how do I ask him when he's ready for sex?
Q. Hi i'm 13 but want to have sex. I know that sounds horrible but it's hard. The boy i'm going out with, and have been for a long time, is 17, and still a virgin. How do i ask him when he's ready for sex?...
A. 8 April 2008: you don't ask him cause u are too young!! WAIT A FEW YEARS MY GOSH!!! he is older than u by not many years but he has so many experiences on u that its a hopeless cause. u are JUST a teenager!! he has been at it for a while. if anyone is ready first ... (read in full...)
I'm really scared my first time will hurt!!
Q. Ok, well i'm 16 and me and my boyfriend are getting serious and we want to have sex. I'm really scared because it's my first time, and i'm just really freaking out because i'm scared it's going hurt really bad. So i've been telling him no everytime, ...
A. 8 April 2008: now....i had sex when i was 15 years old. and i dont regret it...but i hate myself for it. i was an idiot and rushed. dont make the same mistake. u cant help if u like someone. if u really really like him, go for it. and it doesnt hurt...well..if it ... (read in full...)
Is my body adjusting to the change? Should I go on the pill?
Q. Hi, I asked a question almost a couple weeks ago about being on time if i had sex with the condom intact with no tears or rips or falling out. I have been having period like symptoms of bloating, fatigue, cramps, and smelly discharge. I tested nega...
A. 8 April 2008: your body changes all the time!!! dont sweat it. if u keep testing negative u are probably just late. women constantly change their body shape...infact our hair changes something like every 5 years. men are lucky...they dont have to deal with the ... (read in full...)
My fiance says what he thinks I WANT to hear...
Q. I'm seeing this guy for the past 8 months. In fact, we are engaged and are going to be married in July. He is a very nice, loving, caring person and takes real good care of me and my needs. There is one problem... he has the habit of saying n...
A. 8 April 2008: ooooh....ok. i dont know what to say here. If he isnt an alcoholic, doesnt beat u, doesnt swear really really badly all the time, and doesnt contradict ur values...whats your problem? we all have our flaws. his just seems a little big and i can tell ... (read in full...)
Give me some tips on how I can leave a lasting impression on someone special! Cute and fun things...
Q. i need help..i want to know...what can i do thats cute and fun when im now visiting a special girl in my life...???what things to say??to do???its just that i dont want to say or do the wrong things...lets just say that i want to leave a GOOD ...
A. 8 April 2008: Ok....how to be cute to a special someone. There really should be a handbook on this. I always really loved it when my boyfriend would just look at me with this smile. id be all like "what....?" and hed go "nothing...ur just....beautiful" see that ... (read in full...)
Tell me how I get over my first love without avoiding them?!
Q. I've been insanley in love (well, more limerence) with this woman over a year now, but I haven't been able to tell her due to our current situations. But soon she's going to be leaving work to go and live over the other side of the world. I ha...
A. 8 April 2008: hmm thats a tricky one u have there. Being the silly age that i am (16 going on 17 extremely soon) i cant really say much, but this issue draws attention to me cause i see this happen all the time to friends of mine and their friends and just people ... (read in full...)
Is this the behaviour of a guy whom says he loves you?
Q. i am or was engaged to a great guy whom i love with all my heart,but his behaviour towards me has worsened an im now afraid that i am once again a looser in love.is this the behaviour of a guy whom says he loves you,going from 7 days a week to 2 ...
A. 8 April 2008: Ok here is your problem. it is very simple. He is a jerk and u deserve better than this crap! You should never put up with this. i had this sort of behavior from my ex and im always gonna have issues in a relationship now because of how hurt i was ... (read in full...)
How do I remind myself not to stare at other women?
Q. How do I remind myself not to stare at other women? My wife refuses to go in public with me because she feels so disrespected. It is an unconscious behavior for me that I always do even when she reminds me not to....
A. 7 April 2008: Why not stare your wife down one day...don't take ur eyes off her. She is just jelous that u are looking at them and not her. She is probably feeling ugly or something along those lines. Make her feel special and as if shes the only woman in the ... (read in full...)
How do I get out of the mindset that somebody I can't be with is "the one" for me?
Q. How do I get out of the mindset that somebody I can't be with is "the one" for me? I was dumped by this girl a year ago now, due to problems in our relationship we couldn't overcome. i.e. We went to different uni's, and so she let distance become a ...
A. 7 April 2008: Time is the best healer... but so is the want to get better. I think u still do have a lot of feelings for this girl and maybe its not completely hopeless. Are you still in touch with her? Maybe when u are both done school u can "bump" into her and ... (read in full...)
My bf is jealous of the guy who gives me everything...what should I do??
Q. I have been in a relationship for 1 year and 2 months. It has it's ups and downs. At times i get so mad i beg him to end the relationship but he does not want to let me go. I met this other guy whom is basically everything i have wanted in a man. ...
A. 29 February 2008: wait...you beg your boyfriend to end the relationship? Sounds to me like hes a tad controlling. And he doesnt have to end it. If u are not happy, step up to the plate and dump the guy. You do not deserve to be treated like this! Go for the dreamboat ... (read in full...)
Why can't I move on?
Q. My ex partner and I were together for 7 years then split up a year ago. He got a girlfriend straight away, almost too quick if you get my drift. He cheated on me twice in the relationship. I am still in love with him and he keeps phoning and texting ...
A. 6 February 2008: This is a tricky situation that all of us will eventually find ourselves in. You need to think about all the things you learned about yourself in this relationship, how u changed, what you can and can't put up with from past relationships. He only ... (read in full...)
I want my wife back..so how do I go about doing that?
Q. Hi me and my wife recently broke up. We had been together since we were 16 and up until this past year when we had afew disagreements and just seemed to be very distant. it was quite an emotional goodbye and was very hard. we were fine after that, ...
A. 5 December 2007: I dont really get your question. You both want eachother, you both have slept with eachother since the divorce began...whats the big issue. Tell her exactly how u feel...infact, call her up right now and tell her u lvoe her and dont want to get the ... (read in full...)
I'm attractive, athletic and confident but I've never had a gf! What am I doing wrong?
Q. Here's the situation - I'm 20, fairly athletic, my friends who are girls say I'm attractive, I'm fairly confident, and have a good sense of humour, and I can keep a converstaion going by asking questions and getting involved. Yet I have never had a ...
A. 5 December 2007: Its cause ur looking, simple as that. Stop looking and she will come immediately. Or maybe u know her already. Dont feel as if u need to have one. That is the worst possible attitude to have. Just be happy for all the colourfull attributes u have. ... (read in full...)
She won't do anything more than kiss me, now--is this relationship falling apart?
Q. Me and my Gf have been going out for 4 months now and we have always been very open with each other. We decided not to have sex, so we go very close to doing it, but not all the way...our relationship has been awesome until someone told her that ...
A. 5 December 2007: hmmm....this girl is very gullible. It is all a preference. That is it. Maybe you should sit down with her and talk it out. Just come out and say it...none of this trying to be nice stuff...It is affecting u badly and it isn't fair. On the other ... (read in full...)
What are we doing wrong, or is it just me?
Q. Condom problems help! I have had sex with and without comdoms in my life and I have to admit that having sex with condoms really spoil it for me. It seems to dry me up during sex and sex becomes sore after a few thrusts. I put on extra lube when ...
A. 18 November 2007: No its not just u, maybe u have an allergy to the latex or some other component. Why not try some other method of control. Maybe the pill is a better plan for u. ... (read in full...)
I have trouble consoling her. How can I get past this problem and support her like I should?
Q. Hiya have any of you males, or females had problems being able to console your partners when they are grieving or just generally upset esspecially when they are crying or is it just me? You see i don't see why i just can't be a sholder to cry on for ...
A. 14 November 2007: you are a sweetheart! about 99% of the guys i know cannot help women with their problems, women are a race on their own and each one grieves and festers in their own individual way. Most girls just want a shoulder to cry on and someone to listen, if ... (read in full...)
Things are dying down. Is he trying to tell me something?
Q. recently i have been seeing less and less of my man.first the txting got less and the phone calls,now he says hes coming over and never arrives hes always got a pathetic excuse why he didnt show up,is he trying to tell me something?...
A. 14 November 2007: why dont you ask him? from what little experience i have, this means hes either interested in someone else, hes mad at you, or maybe he is genuinly busy, which is never the case.... (read in full...)
Me and my best friend of 7 years aren't talking anymore because I called her a Bitch. Now she's causing problems with me and my boyfriend. What can I do?
Q. me and my best friend are not talking anymore i knew her 7 years and we were really close though she have bad habits she always judge people and even talk about them from behind then i knew that she`s doing the same for me i was really shocked and i ...
A. 14 November 2007: what u dont do is tell her to bugger off, that will only make things worse. what you do is nothing at all
pretend that it doesnt bother you at all, just be like "fine...whatever" and dont even talk to her. and you know what, if your hubby on a brea... (read in full...)
The trill is gone. Am I screwed?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and have lived together for over a year. The sex is dead. There's no thrill. There's no spontaneousness. It's just sex. And I think we're doing it out of habit. A whole whopping 5-7 min...
A. 13 November 2007: you need to either spice it up, or just accept your relationship is already dead, you think u love him cause tis been ages, im not being shallow here, but a relationship is nothing without a sexual pull, the teenaged fuck buddy is just a symbol of ... (read in full...)
7 months on since my first girlfriend left, it doesn't feel like a second will come for a long time. Can you help?
Q. My first girlfriend left me earlier this year. Yesterday was 7 months since she left, and I can honestly say, I'm not really feeling better about our relationship ending. She ended things to pursue her education after being with me for 2 1/2 years. ...
A. 13 November 2007: I am 16 years old, my boyfriend dumped me in class in September, i know how this feels. We went out for 1 year, 8 months and 2 days. We are really good friends now. Tell me, did u end on an argument? Or was it an understanding breakup without any ... (read in full...)
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