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7 months on since my first girlfriend left, it doesn't feel like a second will come for a long time. Can you help?

Q.   My first girlfriend left me earlier this year. Yesterday was 7 months since she left, and I can honestly say, I'm not really feeling better about our relationship ending. She ended things to pursue her education after being with me for 2 1/2 years. ...

A.   13 November 2007: I am 16 years old, my boyfriend dumped me in class in September, i know how this feels. We went out for 1 year, 8 months and 2 days. We are really good friends now. Tell me, did u end on an argument? Or was it an understanding breakup without any ... (read in full...)

She's saying I smother her, but we live miles apart?, is this worth it?

Q.   ive been with this girl for 6 months.im 32 she is 30.last week monday and tuesday was great wed and thurs she didnt return calls. thurs she send me an email and tells me she needs some space.she feels smothered and its stressing her out.her dad died ...

A.   13 November 2007: i have a friend, my ex actually, who is head over heals in love with this girl about 40 minutes away. I keep telling him to go for it as she feels the same way, they are having some difficulties with things though because of the distance and her ... (read in full...)

He says "your my girlfriend, not my mother". Should I be so concerned with his life choices?

Q.   Hey its me again, about the should I chuck him or wait for a miracle. I've got another question, my boyfriend wants to do more pot which is completely against my morals. He has plans to do it this weekend. I want to use the old "three strikes your ...

A.   3 October 2007: thank you for all the responces. it doesnt hurt so much now. we are tryign to be civil no matter all the arguments we've had. we are tryign really really hard to make things work as friends. we both know that a relationship can never happen again. ... (read in full...)

Based on our convo, do you all think this guy likes me?

Q.   I'm 18 years old and really like my friend who is 19. Just wondering what you guys think of this conov I had with him the other night on msn... Basicaly I was talking to him the other night on MSN and I was saying how most of the good guys are ei...

A.   25 September 2007: i have to agree with everyone else...in being cautious. but i still think thats sooooo CUTE!... (read in full...)

He says "your my girlfriend, not my mother". Should I be so concerned with his life choices?

Q.   Hey its me again, about the should I chuck him or wait for a miracle. I've got another question, my boyfriend wants to do more pot which is completely against my morals. He has plans to do it this weekend. I want to use the old "three strikes your ...

A.   21 September 2007: we broke up. he did it. and its killing me.... (read in full...)

I was with my boyfriend and he had a see through substance on the tip of his you know what...

Q.   I was with my boyfriend and he had a see through substance on the tip of his you know what and I just wanted to know if it contains sperm or if it's a lubricant, also, why does this happen, we weren't even doing anything, I was just sitting on his ...

A.   15 September 2007: it is just a pre-ejaculate, its getting ready and ambitious. guys can get boners because of a fierce breeze or the shrill sound of anything. im not sure if it contains sperm or if its jsut clearing the way for a larger explosion. thats something to ... (read in full...)

He says "your my girlfriend, not my mother". Should I be so concerned with his life choices?

Q.   Hey its me again, about the should I chuck him or wait for a miracle. I've got another question, my boyfriend wants to do more pot which is completely against my morals. He has plans to do it this weekend. I want to use the old "three strikes your ...

A.   15 September 2007: u are thinking just like everyone else. i feel like im being so mean to him because im being miserable all the time even when he isnt having a bad day. thats what my major concern is. thanks for ur lovely reply though. its short, sweet, and to the ... (read in full...)

How long does the honeymoon period last?

Q.   how long, does "the honeymoon period" of a relationship last?...

A.   11 September 2007: honey it lasts as long as u want it to. or it lasts as long as you are willing to try.... (read in full...)

I have no interests anymore, and no motivation. Please help!

Q.   Hello everyone, I need some help from anyone willing to give me advice. In the past I have made many bad decisions in life. My parents have never been a very good influence in my life at all, and still aren't, and I have not many friends, as I move ...

A.   11 September 2007: i think you would do swimmingly if you bought a really old cottage on a beach, that requires a lot of fixing up, and put all of your passion that you have about hating your life and thinking you are worthless, into fixing that place up. it will keep ... (read in full...)

Can my girlfriend get pregnant if I cum in her when she's on her period?

Q.   Can my girlfriend get pregnant if i cum in her when she is on her period? and can she get pregnant if i cum in her behind?...

A.   11 September 2007: YES she most certainly can. its actually quite fascinating. i went through this with a few friends of mine. Women don't just menstruate because of one egg. a few eggs are released every month. so when she is on her period, chances are one is just ... (read in full...)

Do I do take this job and deal with temptation of this man or be unemployed? (I'm married)

Q.   I have a major issue I am infatuated with a another man but I love my husband and have been married for 6 years with 2 kids. It all started in 2004, I met a man who was a courtesy office at a property I worked at. I interacted alot with him due ...

A.   11 September 2007: I see what your problem is loud and clear. In fact, it couldn't be any clearer if you drew it in the clouds with some really bright highlighter saying "LOOK AT ME!!" anyways...have you never watched "Love Actually"? its a fantabulous movie. this ... (read in full...)

Sometimes I sing her to sleep on the phone at night but lately I've been hearing noises of moaning, groaning and what sounds like sucking or kissing. Very confusing.

Q.   Ok well this we'll be the first time i've truly ever asked anyone for help, especially online in a situation like this but i just can't help this feeling.it's driveing me crazy.I'm currently in a long distance relationship with a girl that i truly ...

A.   11 September 2007: Oh my goodness...you are such a wonderful man! do u know that! see..i love 18th century romances and all women need to be courted, and appreciated. you havent done anything wrong. i think that shes up to something. rarely are beutiful college girls ... (read in full...)

He talks about marriage but hes older than me and doesn't have any money?

Q.   i am a women who is 24, and i am single. but there is the man who is busy telling me he loves me. sometimes i think i love him too, but there is only one problem with him. he doesnt have money. not that im looking for his money but his is so old, he ...

A.   10 September 2007: u THINK you love him? hmmm. i dont think you do. you are 24 years old and still have a lot of things to go through. maybe you should just tell him you will go on a few dates, really get to know him. age doesnt matter. it really doesnt. its all ... (read in full...)

I'm 15 and loads of guys liked me 6 months ago. No one sees me as more than a friend now. Whats changed???

Q.   im 15 and about 6 months ago i had lods of guys wanting to go out wit me, but now its like no1 is intrested in me an every1 i like jst sees m e as a m8. i havent changed so y deos no1 like me now!! plz help....

A.   10 September 2007: well....girls mature faster than guys. 15 is a weird year for us all... maybe the guys are taking an interest in what they were built for. hens hot girls. like...big boobs, tiny waste, and those willing to put out. u shouldnt be thinking the way u ... (read in full...)

I think my boyfriend might be sexually involved with his sister!

Q.   im feling totally diasturbed! i have a boyfriend of 4 yrs who has a sister that is 3 yrs older than him ( she's 24 ) and i think they are sexually involved. no. 1 they sleep in the bed together and thinks its totally okay! shes totally okay with ...

A.   10 September 2007: thats very creepy...but maybe the way they were raised was to be comfortable ... very comfortable with eachother. I would probably run like hell or try and do some investigating first.... (read in full...)

I found his secret phone and txt from a girl at work. Hes an alcoholic and we split loads but I hate being on my own so we get back together.

Q.   i have just found out my partner of 3 years has been cheating on me, i found a secret mobile by his side in bed while he was drunk as usual!, it was full of explicit texts to a girl he works with, i couldnt believe wat i was seeing, i know he hasnt ...

A.   10 September 2007: Alright. your partner of three years is a jerk. anyone who calls you fat can go burn in hell. When i was little i was always the fat one. and i have no tolerance for people who poke fun at others who are larger than them. i bet u anything u arent ... (read in full...)

Should I chuck him or keep holding on and waiting for some miracle to occur?

Q.   I'm 16 years old and have had the same boyfriend for about 1 year and a half. At first it was really lovely, and then it just went sour. We have our good days, but when it gets bad, like some stupid argument over who buys what, we shout and scream ...

A.   10 September 2007: thanks for your responses. it really helps. see..there is a lot more to our relationship than just that. see...Ive got friends on msn that are from another country and i want to see them all next summer. Ive known them for a year. i couldn't tell my ... (read in full...)

I think I may be on the verge of a relationship with a girl who has just turned 18. Is it respectable to date a girl with this age gap?

Q.   Hi, I'm 23 years old and I turn 24 in a couple of months. I think I may be on the verge of a relationship with a girl who has just turned 18. Is it respectable to date a girl with this age gap?...

A.   9 September 2007: I dont see anythign wrong with age gaps that small. you are both legal, and if you like her enough, should it really matter? For example...woody allan married his adopted asian child who was 18 and he was like...50! my eldest brother was 20 when he ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has hit me in the past and I'm stupid for taking him back but I just can't let go.

Q.   hi, I'm really stuck in a relationship I don't want to be in no more, I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years and he has started taking drugs cocaine, I've told him if he carrys on I'll end it but I don't think he cares. He has hit me in the ...

A.   9 September 2007: Alright. i know exactly how you feel. My boyfriend hasn't hit me. But hes called me names and such. I know how it feels to be trapped into a corner. I think you should chuck him. really, do you think he would be a good father figure if he is doing ... (read in full...)

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