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writes:i am or was engaged to a great guy whom i love with all my heart,but his behaviour towards me has worsened an im now afraid that i am once again a looser in love.is this the behaviour of a guy whom says he loves you,going from 7 days a week to 2 days sleeping with you,1 txt or phone call per day from 5+,unexplained photo in his fone said it was his sons,denied knowing her,never wanting to chill at his home with me unless i turn up unannounced.constantly turning up late when we have set a time to go clubbing,no longer kisses,holds or hugs me in public,especially in a gay mans bar which i find very hard to deal with as he isnt gay,rates females on hot or not,downloads porn,constantly guarding his phone or turns it off,bumping into a female denies he knows her yet she says "that he`s forgot about her"what would you make of this and then he tells me to control my jealousy when i got angry and upset and he is ignoring me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2008): you may not want to believe or hear this but i am 100% positive he has been sleeping with another woman as this is how i behaved when i was cheating on whom is my wife now,after i realised how much i loved her and she was the other half of me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2008): Its pretty obvious he met someone else. I have no doubt in my mind. I think its time to move on.
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (8 April 2008):
 If his behavior has changed from one way to another without a valid explanation from him, then I would say something is going on that he does not want you to know about. It sounds like he is moving away from you for one reason or another.
The two of you need to have a discussion about YOUR perceptions. That is what they are right now, not validated. The discussions should be "this makes me feel...when you do this I feel...." Don't come out and accuse him of something because what you are dealing with is the way his behavior and actions make you feel. If he doesn't want to discuss this then I would say you definately should find someone new who can 1) be honest 2) treat you right and 3) be able to communicate with you. His behavior seems a bit immature for the age you are stating you are. I am assuming he is of similar age, at least above 18?
Good luck.
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reader, Emajayne  +, writes (8 April 2008):
 Ok here is your problem. it is very simple. He is a jerk and u deserve better than this crap! You should never put up with this. i had this sort of behavior from my ex and im always gonna have issues in a relationship now because of how hurt i was and still am. Run as fast as u can. YOU CAN DO BETTER THAN HIM!!!!
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