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anonymous
writes:me and my best friend are not talking anymore i knew her 7 years and we were really close though she have bad habits she always judge people and even talk about them from behind then i knew that she`s doing the same for me i was really shocked and i didnt tell her that i knew cuz i was afraid to hurt her feelings then one day she called me telling me that we cant be friends anymore cuz i named her a bitch!!and now she`s trying to call my bf hang out with him and i didnt mention that me and my bf are having some problems so we`re taking a break to see if we can work things out..i really dont know what to do to stop the girl who was my bestfriend from hurting meshe even tells lies to my bf about me and i just cant handle her anymore she`s now out of my life but i want her completely outplease i need your need to tell me what can i do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2007): Right first of all, id ask to have a word on her own && tell her how shes making you feel then tell you bf that, you love him and want to get back together and work things out not on a break and work things out as it feels that your not together any more and that you dont want an argument between you and your best mate destroying what you have and he should never have been dragged into it in the 1st place and appologose on her behalf [that how you seem more mature and sincer;)]
Hope you and your bf are okay.
Good Luck Xxx
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reader, Emajayne  +, writes (14 November 2007):
 what u dont do is tell her to bugger off, that will only make things worse. what you do is nothing at all
pretend that it doesnt bother you at all, just be like "fine...whatever" and dont even talk to her. and you know what, if your hubby on a break winds up with her, u know u cant possibly work it out. People only do things to bother the other cause they know it gets to them.
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