Shall I just let him go without saying goodbye?
Q. Hello Guys, need really need some help... my mind is going mental. It's a bit of a long story but hold tight... I was with my ex boyfriend for abbout 3 years, and we spilt up about a year and a half ago on his terms. In the last year we have kep...
A. 10 December 2008: He sounds like a right arsehole, let him go and grow up. Its ok for him to see other people, but when you start dating again its wrong? you really need to get him out of your life, otherwise he could end up ruining it for you.
He is your ex for a... (read in full...)
I love my fiancee, but found I still have feelings for my ex once we saw each other again
Q. I need advice... I am currently engaged, and Yes, I do love my fiance very much. me and my fiance has been together for 4 years now and engaged 1 year. The thing is about a year ago i got in contact again with my ex whom I really loved a lot. I ...
A. 8 December 2008: Pleaseeeeee don't get back together with your ex, he is your ex for a reason, so why ruin what you have with your fiance? He is your past now, not your future.
Men seem to have a habbit of wanting their ex back as soon as they finish with the... (read in full...)
Is it an attitude thing for me?
Q. I as I have mentioned am very overweight. But everyone thinks I am great otherwise. Kind, thoughtful, warm hearted intelligent. I am working on losing weight. And it is going ok. Yes there are ups and downs and sometimes dead stops but on the...
A. 1 December 2008: I think your attitude towards life is far more important than how heavy or slim you are. I know some really overweight people who have amazing girl friends, because they are fun to be with and they don't let their weight take control of their ... (read in full...)
Whenever we have made plans to meet she always bails.
Q. I am a 20 year old male and I am in love with this girl. I have never met her in person. I have met her on the internet a long time ago and now we text each other almost every day. We are very good friends and are really close even though we never ...
A. 27 November 2008: "For one thing I know she really wants to have sex with me and we end up having phone sex and cyber sex all the time but she will not meet me in person to have sex with me." If you have never met her before, why are you talking about having sex... (read in full...)
Massage techniques.
Q. Hi My (fairly new) partners had a rough time at work lately and has been poorly though she is getting better now. I've done my best to cheer her up (flowers to work etc) but when I next see her I want to give her a relaxing massage, help her unwi...
A. 27 November 2008: Have a look on askmen.com , they give out some really good tips, including massage techniques. ... (read in full...)
Is it possible that he is impotent with me, but not, if he were to find a new woman?
Q. This question is for men, but not only! My husband is impotent with me, a few years ago. There is no medical reason for it. He is healthy. So my question is, is it possible that he is impotent with me, but not, if he were to find a new woman? I...
A. 20 November 2008: You could try and spice things up a bit, if you know what I mean. Maybe buy a porno dvd and watch it with him, see if he reacts to that. If he doesn't then perhaps he should see a doctor, could be something wrong.
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How can I gain more weight and also get rid of pimples?
Q. Dear Friends what are the remedies of pimples and fat? I have pimples in my face for long and my friends are companing about it, to me i know it's not right but i don't no what to do about it, also no matter what i eat i don't get fat what can i ...
A. 20 November 2008: Some people have a high metabolism, which makes it really hard to put on weight. I was picked on at school because I was thin and I went through a period of spending loads of money on food just to try and put on weight, but it never worked.
When ... (read in full...)
I'm worried that my first date will be awkward!
Q. I am 14 and i recently started going out with a guy from school. i'm going to see a movie with my new boyfriend on the weekend, and im nervous! i guess its normal cause its like my first date with a guy, just the two of us, but im afriad its gonna ...
A. 20 November 2008: http://hubpages.com/hub/100-Questions-to-ask-on-a-Date... (read in full...)
I'm worried that my first date will be awkward!
Q. I am 14 and i recently started going out with a guy from school. i'm going to see a movie with my new boyfriend on the weekend, and im nervous! i guess its normal cause its like my first date with a guy, just the two of us, but im afriad its gonna ...
A. 20 November 2008: The best advice i've heard for first dates is to just enjoy yourself, rather than keep thinking about what the other person thinks of you. Just see it as a way to get to know him better.... (read in full...)
Because of our age difference he won't date me, but I'm so into him!
Q. Okay so i like this guy who's 18 and im a 15 yr old female. i have such strong feelings for him we've met and have hung out and text 24/7 non stop and we know each other and have good times, when were together. i love this boy alot and when i told ...
A. 19 November 2008: Ask him to wait for you until you reach 16 and see if you still feel the same way about him then. When I was 18/19 I had a 14/15 year old after me, it wasn't the age gap that was the problem, it was her age.
At 18/19 guys like to do certain ... (read in full...)
How can I help my son gain confidence and find love?
Q. I am concerned about my 29 year old son. He is a lawyer, very well-educated and a sensitive, interesting person. He has a pleasant face which looks very charming when he smiles. He's witty and funny, thoughtful and generous. He is short (5feet 6) ...
A. 14 November 2008: I don't think a mum can help a son to find that special someone, its something he needs to do on his own. Everyone feels depressed when they get rejected by someone, its only natural. It took me about 3 months to get over a friend who I fel... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is a World of Warcraft addict!
Q. Basically my boyfriend is a world of warcraft addict i'm sure of it! The next expansion has come out today and he's getting it this afternoon. I've been told hes leveling with a friend for two weeks. :( This really isn't good! How do I make him see ...
A. 13 November 2008: The dreaded world of warcraft strikes again. My sister quit her £30,000 a year job because she got addicted to wow, her partner also quit work to play it :-(
I used to play it every night as well at one point, until I watched the south park epi... (read in full...)
He is sending me mixed signals
Q. why would a guy say one minute he wants to be "a friend" but say he used to have feelings for you more than any other girl? next minute he avoids you.. then talks to you .. then tries to hold your hand/be touchy feely..and always hugging you for ...
A. 13 November 2008: Has he actually asked you out at all? I would understand if you rejected him and he started to act funny towards you, but if he hasn't even made a move then i'm not sure whats wrong with him.
Perhaps he has a gf, but isn't happy with her, or maybe... (read in full...)
I felt this bead type thing under my nipple, what is it?
Q. Hey, last night i was watching TV and felt this bead type thing under my nipple. Its really uncomfortable to touch and all day throughout school it was irritated. One of my friends says he has one and I heard that teens in puberty get them ...
A. 6 November 2008: Hello
I had the same sort of thing when I was roughly your age, and under my armpits as well, it felt like I had pound coins under my nipples. It got to a point where I couldn't put my arm down because it hurt so much.
I went to the doctors a... (read in full...)
Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??!
Q. Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??! Theyre so nice when they want sumthing then they discard you like a piece of rubbish. They can be the best boyfriend ever but wont think twice about dumping you for another woman and ...
A. 29 October 2008: All men aren't nasty and we aint all the same either, you've just had a lot of bad luck thats all :-/... (read in full...)
I want to go to the party but my ex and his new gf will be there, help
Q. Hi everyone, I'm due to go to a halloween party next Saturday down my local pub and everyone says I'm still welcome to go, the only problam is my recently ex and his new gf will be there too, I was meant to be going with him but then things have cha...
A. 24 October 2008: Back in the summer I asked a barmaid out who works in my local, she rejected me and it turned a bit hostile.
At first I thought I would have to avoid the pub, because it would be really awkward for both of us, then I realised that I hadn't a... (read in full...)
How do I help someone that can really only help herself ?
Q. ok i have a problem with a friend of mine. she is 22 and almost acts and dresses like a 13 year old girl. she has never had a relationship, but really wants one, but she can't talk to guys or even flirt. i've tried to match make her with some guys, ...
A. 24 October 2008: You need to start off by changing how she dresses, this will make her feel more like a women and not some teenager, maybe a makeover as well? Start off by improving her self confidence before you drop her into the deep end. If you keep introducing ... (read in full...)
Is he really staring at me all the time or is he just daydreaming?
Q. Erm you know how people say when guys stare at you it means they like you? Well how can you tell if he;s actually looking at you or just generally staring in that direction because he;s daydreaming? How can you tell if he;s actually looking AT you? ...
A. 4 October 2008: If hes is staring at you and looks away when he sees you looking back, then he probably is interested.
If he keeps staring at you, even when your looking back at him, he probably is just staring into space.... (read in full...)
Has any women told there bf's that they loved them first? Or should they wait until he says it?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 5 months now. And I already know that I am in love with him, but I am afraid to tell him.. I've always thought that the man should tell his girlfriend first. But I really do think he loves me back, y...
A. 3 October 2008: Its not up to one person to say "I Love You" first, if you love him then you should tell him, especially after what you said about his past. He might be scarred the same thing will happen again.
Just tell him after you've made love or somethin... (read in full...)
I'm just not interested in ANYONE, is this normal?
Q. I've never done this before, but here goes... I'm a 20 year old student, majoring in economics pre-law. I'll be graduating in the next few months, and will be one of the youngest students attending law school, so I'd like to think I have a decent ...
A. 3 October 2008: Maybe your trying to find someone who is just like your ex? If you wasn't interested in anyone at all, I doubt you would of gone on the dates in the first place.
Your only 20 so I wouldn't worry too much, i'm sure you will meet someone else who... (read in full...)
I messed it up once; do I have a second chance, you think?
Q. OK sorry if this becomes a bit long, but I want to put the whole story across! Thanks in advance for your patience Back in January I was on a work lunchbreak so went to get some food down the road, and whilst I was queuing this girl came in who...
A. 1 October 2008: It sounds like you might have a second chance, but you really need to stop letting your job control your life this time around. No job is more important than someone you care about, no matter how much you get paid.
Tell her how you feel, otherwis... (read in full...)
I need some help asking out a girl from work - suggestions?
Q. Hi all, I was hoping for some advice on something that's been on my mind for quite a while now - I'll try and keep it as short as possible :) There's a girl at work who seems really nice and I would love to ask her out on a date/drink/whate...
A. 1 October 2008: Like you said the obvious suggestion is to talk to her more and get to know her better before you ask her out, you might find out that she isn't even your type.
I'm fairly shy myself, so I know how hard it can be. Just remember that nothing ... (read in full...)
I blew my chance with the guy I love and now he only wants me as a friend!!
Q. I am feeling so sorry for myself at the moment. A while back while I was in an unhappy relationship I met someone, a man and we became friends. I gave him the impression that I was in an unhappy relationship and just didn’t know how to get out. Well ...
A. 29 September 2008: You really need to tell him how you feel, if he does only want to be friends then atleast you know for certain and can move on with your life, instead of thinking about a future you may never have.
If you are inlove with him and he does only wan... (read in full...)
For the guys...Are looks everything to you in a relationship?
Q. Hey, this is a question for the guys out there. But would you rather go out with a really stunning girl, with no personality, or a not as beautiful girl who you had lots in common with? I guess what I’m asking is, Are looks everything to yo...
A. 27 September 2008: Trust me looks aren't everything. I know this really stunning barmaid, but she is as exciting to talk to as a bit of cold toast.
I only find her physically attractive, which I thought at first would be enough, but I now realise that the personal... (read in full...)
I feel like being the "other man", what to do? Give her a reasonable time to leave her controlling boyfriend? (she said she would, but it has not happened yet)
Q. I met this girl some months back. Initially we were friends and spent lot of time together. Then, she slowly disclosed her problems with her controlling long distance boyfriend. I helped her out as much as possible, and in the process we fell in ...
A. 24 September 2008: It sounds like she is playing with you, now she has moved away she doesn't want to know you anymore, just like when her bf was long distance, she played around behind his back. I also doubt her boyfriend is forcing her to do anything.
I would re... (read in full...)
I really want to buy the right costume for my hubbys birthday surprise. So guys, what really turns you on??
Q. Hi, This one is just a bit of fun really but it was something i was thinking about as i really want to buy the right costume for my hubbys birthday surprise. Ok, guys, what turns you on the most? 1.Sexy nurse 2.French Maid 3.Police Wo...
A. 23 September 2008: French Maid for sure.... (read in full...)
Is going to the zoo considered a date?
Q. Hey, I am 25 and completely useless and inexperienced when it comes to women. But i've been speaking to this girl for about 6 weeks now and we text and email every day. I've only managed to meet up with her a couple of times but now she's suggested ...
A. 21 September 2008: Glad it went ok, just remember not to rush anything and you will be fine.... (read in full...)
Is going to the zoo considered a date?
Q. Hey, I am 25 and completely useless and inexperienced when it comes to women. But i've been speaking to this girl for about 6 weeks now and we text and email every day. I've only managed to meet up with her a couple of times but now she's suggested ...
A. 19 September 2008: It sounds like a date and it also sounds like she does have feelings for you. I wouldn't rush anything tho mate, sometimes its best to wait and make sure you both feel the same way before trying to kiss her, or confessing your feelings for her.
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Why do so many people believe in the 'no contact' rule after a bad relationship?
Q. Why do so many people believe in the no contact rule after a bad relationship? Or if they had just gotten their hearts broken? Why shouldn't we contact them? And if we were to contact them.. would that be such a bad thing?...
A. 17 September 2008: If someone has just had their heart broken, then no contact with that person will speed up the healing. If you keep bumping into the person who broke your heart, then all those feelings will come flooding back each time.
If you have just broken s... (read in full...)
Do you think I am being unrealistic in thinking she will text me?
Q. Hi I went out with my mates to the pub last night I did not drink as I was driving anyway to my problem we started talking to a group of girls my mates went outside for a smoke and left me to play pool with one of the girls the pub was closing ...
A. 13 September 2008: Maybe she is just shy and will only show her true feelings when drunk, I think you should try and get her number somehow and have a chat with her.... (read in full...)
I am the other girl and I want him to get caught cheating because I hate his girlfriend! How do I get caught on purpose?
Q. I am the other girl. Slowly i'm realizing that he's a complete jerk and this all might not be worth it. I do enjoy being the other girl because I hate his girlfriend. How can i GET caught on purpose?? I want her to know, I want him to get caught. I ...
A. 12 September 2008: hmm if you hate them both so much why don't you just forget about them and move on? I suggest you stop wasting your life and get over it, plenty more fish in the sea.... (read in full...)
Why won't he ask me out?
Q. Met a guy out a few weeks ago but we live over an hour apart...anyway we got on really well just clicked...felt i could be myself around him and he has said that also. However, we have kept in contact, texting and calls and last night i asked wh...
A. 11 September 2008: Why don't you just ask him out on a date? maybe he is really shy and is waiting for you to make a proper move. When he said he was chilling the rest of the weekend, you could of asked him whether or not he would like to meet you.
Some guys won... (read in full...)
Could this guy at work be into me?
Q. We've only met once and that was only for about 30 mins, the same night after we met he asked me for my number on facebook, and now he's been texting me 24/7 since, he asks me what i find decent in a guy. He also asked if he gave a good first im...
A. 11 September 2008: Yeah it sounds like he fancies you, otherwise he wouldn't be texting you all the time, or even ask for your phone number in the first place. Just hope he isn't some kind of creepy stalker.
Good luck.... (read in full...)
Is this 15 year age gap a problem or not?
Q. hello right i have started seeing a man who is 15 years younger than me i am in my 40s and he is in his 20s. we work closly together and have a fantastic relationship, he is sweet and kind and gets on great with my children, he is just perfect all ...
A. 11 September 2008: Age should never get in the way of how two people feel about each other, as long as its legal of course.... (read in full...)
Isn't it hard enough being single? How do get through this embarassment?
Q. I'm knocking on 30 and have never been in a serious relationship. Honestly, I haven't been on many dates either. No one seems interested in me. More and more my single friends are getting married and the married ones are having children and I ...
A. 11 September 2008: Try not to think about it too much is all I can say, if you put pressure on yourself all the time to find someone, you will just make it harder not to feel nervous around the opposite sex, and when you do meet someone you won't come across as being ... (read in full...)
Why would my friend ignore me completely?
Q. Well, this isn't exactly someone I love. Actually, I'm not sure how I feel about him... Let me cut to the chase. I have this friend... Let's call him "Bob". Well, Bob and I went through a rough period a few months before school ended, but thing...
A. 9 September 2008: I would agree, it sounds like he really liked you. Did you give him the impression that you only wanted to be friends? and did he even ask to be more than friends at all?
I fell for this girl recently who only wanted to be friends, the only way... (read in full...)
Should I just 'go for it' so she'll know I'm interested?
Q. Hey there, I am really liking a girl at the moment- to the point where i can't stop thinking about her and am having trouble sleeping but i can't tell how she feels about me. I am very unexperienced in these situations so am feeling pretty lost. I'...
A. 4 September 2008: Try not to rush into anything, females are very complicated, you might think she is showing you all the signs, but it turns out that they only wanted to be friends.
Just take your time and play it cool, don't suddenly splurt out all your feelings... (read in full...)
She thinks me telling her I loved her was "drunk talk"! What now?
Q. I'm absolutely in love with this girl i know, but she only sees me as a friend. We were at a party a few weeks ago and whilst i was drunk i toldher that i loved her but now she dosent believe it, thinking it was just drunk talk. We are really good ...
A. 22 August 2008: You need to tell her how you feel when you aren't drunk, but be aware that you might lose her as a friend as well if she doesn't feel the same way.
I recently told I female friend that I had feelings for her, she just wanted to be friends which i'... (read in full...)
My best friend is leaving soon. I'm gutted. Should I tell him how I feel?
Q. My best mate who is male, is leaving soon. Hes going 6-7 hours away for work. At the time I realised he would be leaving, my feelings seemed to become clearer. The threat of losing someone that I have got feelings for is tough to take. We get on...
A. 22 August 2008: Go for it, you only live once and if he is moving away then what have you got to lose?
I recently told a friend that I had feelings for her, she only wanted to be friends, but atleast I don't have to worry about what could have been if only I h... (read in full...)
I seem to have dreams, that come true , but to other people around me, is this a coincidence or what, can somebody help?
Q. Hi this may sound wierd, but can someone help me.??? I always have dreams about things that always occur in my future. I once had a dream that I was pregnant and it felt so real but I awoke from it and fortunately it wasn't...but a week later I ...
A. 21 August 2008: Any chance you could dream the euro lottery results and message me the winning numbers?... (read in full...)
Can anyone give me a suggestion on a good place to meet guys?
Q. I feel kind of silly asking this, but could anyone give me a suggestion on a good place to meet guys? I don't go to school anymore, and I don't work in an environment in which I'd meet anyone that I'd want to date. Guys in bars and clubs seem t...
A. 15 August 2008: Someone suggested playing EVE online, don't waste your life away infront of a PC, you will never have a social life again.
I'm in a similar situation, my job is in the automotive industry and very few of our customers are female. I'm in the offi... (read in full...)
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