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reader, Ed1337  +, writes (13 March 2009):
 Sorry to hear that, as coldplay once sung "how can you blow it if you don't even try". Atleast you went for it and won't regret what might of happened.
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reader, guillaume +, writes (12 March 2009):
 Hi,
Sorry to hear that! Uggh!!!!! Welcome to the club!!!! :(
Not to worry, at least you went for it and in the future you now know you can ask girls out! Good!
Be polite with her etc but don't take her out anywhere as friends etc as you will be investing in her not as a girlfriend! She had her chance so now move on! Take care, G.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah at least I know I always have a fried.
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reader, Ginalolabridga + ♥, writes (12 March 2009):
 Sorry to hear that, oh well plenty more fish in the sea as they say, just move on now at least you can say hi without feeling awkward now.
Gina
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell she never gave me a reply. No big deal.
We bumped into each other a few days back, which I guess was good, as it least it will avoid awkwardness should we meet again.
Still, her last emails to me seemed written to me in such a way that I cannot be too sure that it would only be a meeting as friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionA few thoughts:
1. She takes a while to reply anyway.
2. She might still be thinking about it.
3. I suppose it is fortunate that I have not become too attached if she turns me down.
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reader, Ginalolabridga + ♥, writes (28 February 2009):
I agree civility cost nothing maybe she is still thinking about it!!
Gina
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reader, guillaume +, writes (28 February 2009):
HI,
I doubt she will just come out with "no." People don't like hurting your feelings. Wednesday has passed and she hasn't yet responded but you never know. Seems a bit too long for me as normally it is within three days.(not scientific but for some reason 3 days is a reasonable time) But i do hope for you! G.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionStill waiting. It was Wednesday that I asked her. I know she takes a while with emails, but I just get a bad feeling.
If she doesn't want to, why can she not just say?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo not yet. If nothing comes of this then oh well just have to live with it.
Still it hasn't been that long.
I'd rather a refusal than nothing though
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reader, guillaume +, writes (26 February 2009):
Did she reply???? G.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe has been online, but no reply.... :(
Oh well.
PATIENCE
I guess it is a big thing to just reply to casually.
If not then, life simply goes on and I shall be content.
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reader, Ginalolabridga + ♥, writes (25 February 2009):
Calm down it will be fine mind tell us all what she says.
Gina
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am getting nervous/scared now.
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reader, guillaume +, writes (25 February 2009):
Let us know when she replies please!!! Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionReferring to my last post - in that situation in which I describe her and I together, there would of course have to be more to it than that, just, well that part of it would be important to me
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionEmail has been sent. Just waiting now. :)
jessica04- I just love spending time with her. :)
If we were together in a relationship, just being together sharing time would be the best thing ever.
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reader, jessica04  +, writes (25 February 2009):
 I applaud you with your courage. These days so many people just hook up, call it a relationship, and never get to spend nice, quality time with someone, and then things go south.I would send it. If you have her number then maybe call her, unless email has been the primary means of communication between you two. At least it's not a text message, which is refreshing.Just keep it casual sounding, and she should say yes. I don't know why she wouldn't want to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSent it. :)
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reader, minnie_me  +, writes (25 February 2009):
i think that if you really like this girl then you should send the email...a walk and a meal sounds like a wonderful idea...so give it a try you sound like a really sweet guy so she wil probably say yes!!
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reader, Ed1337 +, writes (25 February 2009):
Go for it, you've already met her a couple of times, so she clearly likes you.
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reader, Ginalolabridga + ♥, writes (25 February 2009):
Yes send it i think it sounds lovely a walk and a meal how charming i am sure she will accept and be delighted, even though you have not met much before what better way to get to know someone whilst walking and talking over a meal sounds excellent hope it all goes to plan.
Gina
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