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What do we do? Choose the holiday or try our best to get this house?

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Question - (24 February 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 27 February 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i need advice on what i should do.

myself and my boyfriend have planned to go away in the summer with family for a family members big birthday. it will be so much fun i no as we havent been away in a few years. i have the money here to book it now but something has come up. for the past 6months we have been thinking about getting a house - i live with him now but we want our own place. what with the credit crunch etc there is this fantastic house right in the area that we would want to live that is so much cheaper than it has been for the past year - it started of at 185000 now its 109000.

What do we do? do we still go on holiday and have a great time or try our best to get this house. it is gorgeous and it seems its too good to miss..

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A male reader, ISOHaven United States +, writes (27 February 2009):

I agree with everyone else. If you are trying to buy a house then you should keep that commitment going. The hard part is getting into the house. Then you'll be putting money every month into your own pocket instead of someone else's pocket for rent.

You have a life time of trips ahead of you. But first you need to make this step for yourself.

Since you aren't married, make sure you handle the house buying properly. Get some advise on domestic partnerships.

I wish you all the best!

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A female reader, annonomuss Bahamas +, writes (24 February 2009):

i agree with harshbutfair!

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A male reader, Ed1337 United Kingdom +, writes (24 February 2009):

Ed1337 agony auntI would buy the house, sure its nice to go on holiday and have a good time, but you don't have much to show for it when you come back and the house might not be available much longer.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2009):

House house house! No choice there. Once you are on the property laddder you can think about holidays etc. I would love to have my own place, and would say that if it is within your grasp then go for it! Your family will understand for sure- you can all have a nice housewarming party instead.

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A male reader, harshbutfair United Kingdom +, writes (24 February 2009):

harshbutfair agony auntBuy the house and take the holiday next year you may never get another property at such a good price.

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