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Can you lose your virginity through masturbation?

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Question - (24 February 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 7 April 2010)
A female Jordan age 36-40, anonymous writes:

what are difference between virgin pussy and un virgin pussy? and can a girl lose her virginity while masturbating (fingering only)?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2010):

I don't think you can lose your virginity through masturbating

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2008):

Hi , I need a solove to this question by the medical experts who are in this form . I just study AL Maths and I still at the universiaty doing a IT degree , so I just not learned anything about the bio-science .

What is the Virginity? What is the difference between the non vi and vi ? When you are losing it? What age you loose it ?

What will happened after you loose it ? What are the disadvantages of loosing it ? Why should I protect it ? Is it painfull to loose it ? after marrage do I have to or they will do it ? Is it possible to stay Virgin after marrage and having childrens ?

I really feels bloody and firghtand afeter I heard these things . Please help me .

I am a good one and I have a girlfriend in my mind . I just trying to give her a letter next week , ?So I have to clear these things out .

I just wants to talk about the physical love that known as sex activities . Are the girls only have physical feelings on the sex ? Do they not feel what we feel about her . The only thing here is that I cannot find a way to discuss this that how I feel .

so after marrage , I hate this , I cannot see the my lovers blood , dammit ! So if I decided not to and let her not to loose here Virginity , is it will affet to the relationship ?

Please help . I need the medical advice form you experts , I did computer science and have no idea in bio science

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A female reader, keely-h United Kingdom +, writes (24 February 2008):

keely-h agony auntthe boys at school call it "pop your cherry" he too fingerd a girl no your not losing you virginty it may be less painfull when you do lose it though.


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A female reader, Devilish Angel United States +, writes (24 February 2008):

Devilish Angel agony auntYou can break the hymen in many ways but if you haven't had sex, then you're still a virgin. I lost my hymen way long before I lose my virginity. That still meant I was a virgin until that fateful night. Lol.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (24 February 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntYou can read all about the hymen here;-

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (24 February 2008):

DoubleM agony auntYou may break your hymen (a thin membrane of skin that partly protects the vaginal opening just inside), but this should not be considered loss of virginity, even if a man is the person doing the insertion with his fingers. If it is breached by a man's penis, then it is a loss of virginity by societal standards.

Some females do not have a hymen, while many hymens are torn during sports activities such as horseback riding, etc. When breached, if present, there is often a small amount of bleeding and maybe some pain. But while masturbation may result in a torn hymen, you are medically still virginal.

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